Hey ladies. So, you’ve signed up for a few dating apps. You’ve uploaded a few pics, but now comes the tricky bit: Writing out a dating profile that catches the eye. 

If you’ve decided to spread your bets among a variety of dating apps, it means you’re going to have to write out a few different profiles. There’s no one-size-fits-all solution here. What works on Tinder, for example, doesn’t necessarily work on OkCupid.

I know – it’s frustrating. 

*Puffs cheeks out with exhaustion*

There’s a lot of writing ahead of ya! 

The good news, however, is that once you’ve sorted your profiles out on each app and optimized them so that they hit the spot with the right kind of guy, you’ll be well on your way to making the kind of genuine connections you’re craving. It’s just going to take a little work, that’s all. Promise. 

In this article, I’m going to take a look at 20dating profile examples for women. I’ll be picking four each from 5 different dating apps, and I’ll be explaining why these profiles work.

Tinder Profile Examples For Women

Ieva, 26

“Having a laugh and as much fun as physically possible is an absolute must for me!
Trying not to take myself too seriously, but do take what I do quite serious though 😉”

Channy, 29

“Good food
Red wine
Sausage dogs
Looking up every film on IMDB and refusing to watch anything below a 7.5crisp connoisseur”

Candace, 32

“Indie discos!

Looking for a nice chap to go looking for dogs in the park with, and who’s enthusiastically in favor of feminism.” 

Emma, 27

“Tall, pale, and sarcastic. Southern pansy working my way North …

Attention span is unsuitable for Netflix and chill. Looking for someone to join on my (mis) adventures.”

Tinder Takeaway:

What works: Short, slick, informative. Funny works too, as do emojis 

What doesn’t work: A long profile that discusses at length things like the meaning of life

Tinder is the dating app to join right now because it’s so busy with people looking to meet people. Since because it’s so busy, you have to try really hard to ensure your profile appeals to the right people. The four I’ve shown above have really cracked the Tinder code. None of them are taking themselves too seriously, they’re all short and sweet, and they all act as a ‘dog whistle’ to the right person. 

I’d say Ieva’s is an example of one that could run the risk of being too long, but look how cute and playful she makes it by adding the emojis at the top. Moreover, she tells us she doesn’t take herself too seriously, and she’s done a great job of giving insights into what she’s all about while still making her profile appear really cheery. 

Channy, on the other hand, has gone for bullet points, which is always a massive win on Tinder.  Likewise, Emma knows what she’s looking for but she’s kept her profile slick and appealing by being so lighthearted. 

And this is really the thing with Tinder. If you can show people what you’re into and what you’re looking for without coming across as too serious, too confrontational, or even too weird, you’re onto a winner. Mix humor with interests and you’re on your way. 

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OkCupid Profile Examples For Women

Kate, 32

“I’m sarcastic and I’m never far away from a cheeky one-liner

I do little dances sometimes 

I’m vegetarian, and I have been since I was 10. Not militant though. I’m like OG veggie, way before those tree huggers emerged so don’t expect any yoga or tie dye here.” 

Deidre, 30

“I am a huge baseball fan. 

Also, enjoy hockey. 

I also really love Broadway musicals – definitely a total theatre nerd lol

Looking for a serious relationship but also open to friends – just important to have a connection and hopefully some common interests.” 

Emily, 31

“I’m like a tired feminist that has a really hard time trusting men at this point. Lulz, but seriously. I’m also really funny and smart and talented and caring and empathetic. I have really great hair and eyes. I love karaoke, I’m honest and straightforward. I’m not going to put up with bullshit. My family and friends are super important to me. I’m an artist and a caretaker and a really good baker. I love bad movies and true crime (like everybody else at this point). I’m a Capricorn. I work hard. I have a morbid sense of humor and can be very deadpan, I also really don’t like positivity.” 

Autumn, 24

“I’m pretty chill. Christian. Stars Wars is a priority. Tattoos are cool. Talk to me about anything. I’m open and honest about everything.

Nothing but love.

Let’s be friends.” 

What I’m doing with my life

“I provide one-on-one instruction for people who have learning differences of disabilities. My students range between 6 years old and 60. It’s a new challenge everyday and keeps me on my toes, but I like it! I also volunteer at an animal shelter and at my church teaching English.” 

OkCupid Takeaway:

What works: Long profiles that go in-depth about who you are, what you want; your hopes and dreams 

What doesn’t work: Super short profiles 

Phew – these are long OkCupid profiles, right? Bet you’re worried about having to write yours now! 

The thing with OkCupid is that it gives you a lot of room to write as much as you want. I’m not sure if there’s a character limit but it often doesn’t seem like it, as you get some really lengthy bios on here. 

But that’s part of the magic here. People open up on OK Cupid; they’re real and honest, and this is really important. 

Take Emily’s profile. It’s long, it’s deep, and it tells us a LOT about her. She’s opening herself up here to the world and being honest and real about who she is, her scars, and what she wants going forward. She’s not always 100% positive, but OK Cupid allows a person to be fully human and to express themselves. 

Then you’ve got Kate, who’s also honest and real, too. And yet by focusing on what she loves, rather than what she hates, Kate is selling herself really well here. I always tell people to avoid profiles that focus on what you’re not looking for as they’re too negative and confrontational. Kate still throws some realness in there – she’s totally not into the whole yoga thing – but she’s focusing on her likes.

Ultimately, OK Cupid is like a more grown-up version of Tinder where you’re free to go into detail about your interests. Remember those pen pal sites you joined as a teenager where you’d talk and talk in your profile? It’s a bit like one of those. Just look into your heart, have a real think about who you are and what you want – and write. No one will judge you on this app. 

Match.com Profile Examples For Women

Becky, 33

“I bought my first house last year, 3 guesses as to what I found in the attic … 

Avid reader, love the cinema, and enjoy traveling to exotic places for adventures. Work probably a bit too much but love my job. Will volunteer for mostly everything and have a go at most things.” 

Ildy, 31

“I’ve moved to England for the work I’m passionate about. Used to live in 3 different countries before and speak 3 languages. 

Looking for my partner and best friend who I can be open and vulnerable with, have honesty and integrity, respect and empathy, load of affection and sense of humor between us.” 

Merakinat, 25

“I love to travel and want to explore all corners of the world, so if you enjoy exploring new places then points to you!

At the same time, I’d say I’m humble and enjoy the simple things in life

Cosy pubs over clubs anytime, not your wild party type 

My ultimate goal in life is to turn my passions into a career and be my own boss, I call it a plan, not a dream.” 

Anastacia, 27

“Hi, I am from Riga and have been living in Greater Manchester for the last 4 years. Love jazz, blues, classical music, theatre, a good book, walk in the park, coffee shops, city breaks. I enjoy cooking, especially baking (cakes!). Try to keep fit by doing pilates. As for my job – I’m a trainee teacher.” 

Match.com Takeaway:

What works: Long profiles that go in-depth about who you are, what you want; your hopes and dreams 

What doesn’t work: Super short profiles 

Match is a little less heavy than OkCupid. It’s still important that you’re real and honest, but you don't need to go into as much depth as you’re invited to on OkCupid. Instead, it’s much better to just stick to your interests, hobbies, and passions in your bio and save all the deep talk for when you connect with someone via messaging. 

All four profiles above do a good job of outlining the person's interests without giving us a novel. As you can see, they’re not as slick or as witty as Tinder, but they’re also not as in-depth as OK Cupid. 

Just make sure to cover the things that are important to you but try to be fairly brief. Remember, to message anyone on Match, you have to subscribe. This means that people on here are taking dating seriously, so you don’t want to waste your time (or theirs) by not giving out enough information straight off the bat. 

That said, you don’t want to give everything away. Hold some things back because a mystery is super attractive.

Bumble Profile Examples For Women

Joanna, 24

“Actress, art historian, gypsy woman. New York City native who isn’t afraid of nature.” 

Kathryn, 24 

“Just tryna get some free chipotle out of this.”

Danielle, 24

“I love feminism, body positivity, John Oliver, plus size fashion and horror films.” 

Urshila, 23

“I’ll roast you but in a fun way.” 

You’d think it would be hard not to succeed on Bumble because you don’t have to write too much. But if you come across as arrogant or conceited, you’re out. 

Bumble Takeaway:

What works: Humour, snappy one-liners, emojis

What doesn’t work: Arrogance

It’s much better to play it safe by adding a cute one-liner that raises a giggle. 

That said, it’s also much better if you’re original – as opposed to using up some old cliche. And if you can’t think of a snappy one-liner, just do what Joanna and Danielle have done, and list a few of your interests.

Don’t go overboard with them, though. Stick to 2-3 interests, throw something funny and surprising in there, and use emojis. Just like Danielle has done. That’s pretty much the perfect Bumble cocktail right there. She transitions from feminism (pretty serious), then throws us a curveball in the form of horror films … before chucking in the knife emoji (totally non-serious). 

Hinge Profile Examples For Women

Hinge Takeaway

What works: Unique answers

What doesn’t work: Untruths 

Hinge bills itself as the “dating app designed to be deleted.” As such, it’s meant to be taken pretty seriously by people who are looking to meet genuine people and see where things go.

For that reason alone you honestly can’t lose if you answer genuinely (Hinge gives you a series of prompts) and truthfully. 

Of course, it always helps if you can spice things up a bit with some humor. But if humor isn’t your forte, just answer truthfully and try to make sure your answers match up with your pics. What I mean by this is, if you answer a lot of questions about sports, it’d be great if your pics were sporty, too. 

It always helps to be a bit of a flirt or tease with some of your answers too, like Alijah. A bit of playfulness never goes amiss, but again it’s all about flaunting your personality. 

Key Takeaway

Overall, it doesn’t matter which dating app you use, the trick is to preserve the tone of the platform and keep it real. Be slick on Tinder, be more open on OK Cupid, showcase your interests on Match, be funny but candid on Bumble, and be truthful on Hinge. Just be you, be interesting, be fun. 

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Amazing dating profile examples for men

Dating after 50 is not much different from dating in your twenties except that the pool of candidates is more limited.

That’s why many women choose to use online dating to improve their chances of meeting their ideal man.

If you’ve never tried online dating before, you might feel a little overwhelmed but with time you will get used to it and will even start to enjoy it.

One of the first things that you will need to do after joining a dating website is to create your profile.

It doesn’t matter how attractive you are or how much money you make, if your profile doesn’t spark the interest of potential partners you will not be very successful and will only attract the wrong type of men.

Your profile needs to have enough information about you to get guys’ attention but not so much that you end up boring them.

You need to show single men that you are an awesome mature woman with a good sense of humor who enjoys her life and wants to meet an interesting guy.

You don’t have to write a novel, a paragraph or two is more than enough. It’s always a good idea to keep your dating profile short and simple.

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Dating Profile Examples For Women Over 50

Example #1:

I am an easy-going, open-minded woman who loves long walks on the beach, romantic dinners, and watching sunsets.

I am caring, artistic, and love kids. I have a good sense of humor and I genuinely love to laugh.

Example #2:

I am a busy lady, but I still manage to attend all the major fashion shows.

I am really into running, swimming, and yoga. When I have free time I love to travel, experience new things, and cook.

I am very family-oriented and want to meet a mature gentleman with similar hobbies and interests.

Example #3:

I like to be active and spend my free time outdoors.

I’m not a foodie but I like to cook a fancy meal every once in a while.

I’m looking for a man who is smart, kind, and honest. I’m interested in something more serious than just a fling.

I’m want to meet someone who I can count on, someone I can trust, and who will never let me down.

If you are interested, send me a message.

Example #4:

I’m a very kind and open-minded person. I like to spend time with friends and meet new people.

I like traveling and try to do it whenever I have free time.

I also enjoy cooking, yoga, and meditation.

If you want to know more, just let me know.

Example #5:

I’m an independent woman who enjoys traveling and experiencing new things.

In my free time, I love to cook and paint. I also love animals and have a dog and a cat.

I’m looking for a man who will be a good friend and a lover.

If you’re interested, message me.

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Example #6:

I’m a single mom with a great sense of humor. I have a degree in psychology and work as a therapist.

I’m into music, art, and travel. I enjoy peace and quiet at home, long walks outdoors, and picnics in the park.

I want to meet a man who is not afraid of commitment when the chemistry is right.

If you are looking for someone like that, write me back.

Example #7:

I’m an easy-going person. I love to laugh and I’m a romantic at heart.

I love to be around people and try to always see the good in them.

I love going for long walks, going to the beach, hiking, or just staying home cuddled up on the couch with a good book.

I’m looking for a man who can appreciate the little things in life and who will love me for who I am.

Example #8:

I want to meet an interesting and kind man who can appreciate the beauty in simple things.

I’m looking for someone who will be my best friend, my lover, and my life partner.

If you think you might be the one, send me a message.

Example #9:

Hello everyone! I am an easy-going woman who enjoys traveling and meeting new people.

I am looking for a guy who is kind and open-minded. I want to meet someone who has a good sense of humor and strong family values.

Example #10:

I’m a strong independent woman who is addicted to traveling and learning about different cultures. I love to cook and spend time with my friends.

I have done my MBA and also have a degree in fashion design and that’s what I currently do for a living.

I am looking for a guy who is charming, passionate, and has a positive attitude towards life.

Read more: How to Tell if a Younger Guy Likes You?

Example #11:

I am a fun-loving woman, who enjoys having conversations with people from different backgrounds.

I have a passion for singing and dancing and I love going to the movies.

I believe in honesty and loyalty and want to meet a man who will give me support and love.

Example #12:

Hi everyone, I am a mature and athletic woman who likes to meet new people and learn about their culture and values.

I am very open-minded and enjoy spending time outdoors exploring new trails in the mountains.

I am looking for a man who is caring, active, and enjoys trying new things.

Example #13:

Hey there! I am a passionate and self-driven woman who always aims for the best.

I am very ambitious and I believe in love and marriage.

I am looking for a guy who is ready to accept me and can be my friend through thick and thin.

Example #14:

I am a firm believer in astrology and horoscopes. I am an independent woman with a positive attitude towards life.

I am always on the quest for learning something new and experiencing new things.

I want to meet a guy who is intelligent, loving, and open-minded.

Example #15:

I am a friendly woman with a warm heart.

I have a long-standing passion for art and literature.

I am a good conversationalist and I enjoy the company of a guy with a great sense of humor.

I am looking for a man who has ambitions and a passion for life. Someone who is open-minded and is not afraid to try new things.

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Since you're looking for short dating profile examples, you've probably realized short definitely doesn’t = easier.

Highlight a few attractive traits, build up some intrigue and attraction, make her want to swipe right or return your message… that’s a tall order for a small character count.

But if you want to meet the best women in your area, that’s exactly what your profile needs to accomplish.

These 13 short profile examples will make you irresistible, and you can find one to use on any app or site!

But before you get started…

Steal This Trick From Pro Dating Profile Writers!

Jot down a list of hobbies you have, especially those you'd like to share with your ideal partner.

Also write down the traits you possess that your perfect match is probably looking for in a man, and a few thoughts about what you love about your job.

For example, your profile writing cheat sheet may look like this:

Having that information visible in front of you makes the profile writing process a bit easier. You can use it to customize one of these good profile examples!

Specific details make your profile seem more genuine, and that's important. A recent study revealed 84% of online daters want to see more authenticity.

Dr. Cortney Warren, a clinical psychologist who offered commentary on the results, said the majority of singles want honest, straight-forward information in profiles.

One of the most important findings in the study is that singles are not interested in seeing an idealized depiction of potential partners through edited photos and unrealistic positive self-descriptors. The truth is, singles want more honest, authentic depictions of others and themselves on dating apps. A more realistic portrayal of each individual will not only be refreshing, but also lead to more meaningful connections.

Super Short Online Dating Profile Examples

On some apps like The League, your bio has a 140-character limit. That means you’ve got a couple sentences max to make a good impression, which is crucial if you want a shot at meeting her in person.

Super Short Profile Example #1:

You don’t have enough space to tell, so you need to show why you’re a good catch. (Professional profile writers generally take this approach with an online dating profile of any length, by the way, since it makes your profile more attractive to daters.)

Super Short Profile Example #2:

Pick a few traits that illustrate why you’re a good catch, and roll with those.

Super Short Profile Example #3:

Occupation = financial stability, active hobby = physically fit and adventurous, travel = good times together… get the picture?

Super Short Profile Example #4:

Emoji are a great space-saving option when you're trying to express a lot of ideas in a short amount of space.

Just don't use so many that it gets conceptually hard to follow. A few emoji go a long way.

Choose Words Women Connect With

Women resonate with some words more than others in a dating profile.

For instance, Wired magazine found these were the 7 most attractive active hobbies for guys:

1. Surfing
2. Yoga
3. Skiing
4. Golf
5. Biking
6. Hiking
7. Running

If you’re a vegetarian or a vegan, mention it – on Elite Singles, you'll get up to 73% more messages than the average user. No reason to think it wouldn't work the same way on any other dating app…

And, as it turns out, nice guys are back in fashion. Using these “power” words in your online dating profile get you more messages:

Remember, the shorter your dating profile is, the more impact each word has. You need to make yourself sound like an intriguing person, not like every other guy out there:

Most dating app profiles display your first name. Don’t waste valuable real estate repeating it in your bio.

300 Character Or Less Online Dating Profile Examples

On CoffeeMeetsBagel, your profile is a little longer – but 276 characters max still isn’t much real estate.

Make every word count with a profile like…

Short Dating Profile Example #5:

This bio hits a lot of high notes in a small amount of space, which makes it perfect for an app like Bumble.

Short Dating Profile Example #6:

And you could use a profile like this for the “Self Summary” section of sites like OkCupid or Elite Singles…

Short Dating Profile Example #7:

You can also get creative in your dating app profile, as long as you make sure the humor lands.

Short Dating Profile Example #8:

Here's another funny short bio you can use for inspiration.

Short Dating Profile Example #9:

When you’re choosing a profile style, keep these 3 factors in mind:

1. Your age
2. The age of your “ideal partner”
3. What type of relationship you’re seeking

A woman in her 20s who’s looking for a more casual relationship will likely respond better to the type of humor in the last profile example than a woman in her late 30s looking for something serious would.

On the other hand, if you’re a 35+ guy looking for a serious relationship, choose a profile like the second example.

The more down-to-earth approach will attract women who are looking for an established, successful man.

If you want to use one of these examples for a section of a longer online dating profile on a site like OkCupid, simply move the call-to-action to the end of your profile.

That’s the line at the very end that tells her what to do next, i.e. message you or swipe right.

Short Dating Profile Example #10:

Asking a question, like in the examples above, is also a good CTA.

It takes all the pressure off her to decide what to say in her first message to you  – all she needs to do is simply answer the question, and you can take it from there.

Try it on an app like Bumble, where a man can't initiate the conversation with a woman.

500 Character Or Less Dating Profile Examples

This character limit is perfect for apps like Tinder, or on sites like Match.com or PlentyOfFish if you want to keep your profile short and sweet.

The same rules apply as in the other good dating profile examples for guys you've seen.

Highlight a couple of your most compelling traits…

Short Dating Profile Example #11:

Keep the tone casual, engaging and positive…

Short Dating Profile Example #12:

And use humor in an attractive way.

Short Dating Profile Example #13:

Why Short Dating Profiles Are Successful (When Done Right)

The longer your dating profile is, the more chances you have to inadvertently turn her off.

Here are 5 common profile mistakes guys make that *really* stand out in short dating profiles:

#1: Writing A Boring List

Whether it’s a list of adjectives to describe yourself or your top 5 hobbies, reading a bunch of words separated by commas just isn’t very compelling.

#2: Using Bad Grammar/Spelling/Etc

Misspelled words and poor (or no) punctuation stand out like a sore thumb in short dating profiles.

You may think ignoring your phone’s spell check is no big deal, but it’s a turn off for her. A whopping 88% of women judge a potential date by their grammar, and putting effort into your dating profile shows you’re serious about meeting someone.

#3: Being Too Honest

While there are a few select spots where it’s okay to fudge a bit in your dating profile, honesty is generally the best policy.

But *too much* of it is a bad thing.

Anything that hints at past drama or throws up an immediate red flag should not be included in your profile. “Heavy” topics are best addressed in person, when you’ve already gotten to know each other a bit.

Knowing what you should – and shouldn't – include can be tricky, which is why many guys hire a profile writing service.

#4: Focusing On The Negative

Whether you're expounding on what you don't like, don't want, don't appreciate in a date, or hate about the dating app, what you probably are doing is turning her off.

Negativity, particularly coming from someone you don't know anything about yet, is not very attractive and has no place in your profile.

#5: Making Her Think You're A “Project” 

Competition is already fierce, and most girls aren't consciously looking for a guy who needs a little fixing up or encouragement.

Even if you do need someone to draw you out of your shell or help you find love again, stick with mentioning positive attributes in your profile.

Get Ready For More Matches and Messages

These 13 short dating site bio examples really work – you’ll be getting more matches and messages in no time.

But what if you could get even better results, without spending endless amounts of time swiping or struggling to write the perfect message?

After all, having an irresistible profile is just the beginning.

There’s a lot of competition for the highest quality women, no matter what site or app you’re on. That means it's not just about your bio – you need to bring your A game to every aspect of online dating, from your photos to your profile to your messages.

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Yup. Online dating is time consuming, there’s no way around it. For the average man, it’s practically the equivalent of a part-time job.

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Amazing Online Dating Profile Examples For Women

You may already know that it’s important to have a great profile photo and a catchy headline. But there are a few other elements that can make a change in how people view you. Some of these elements seem obvious, while others may take you by surprise. Did you know that having a memorable username increases the chance that people will look at your profile? The username on a dating profile is similar to any other social media website. An easy-to-remember handle makes draws more attention than one with a bunch of numbers or underscores. This is one of many things you may not have thought about.

When you’re trying to put together your profile, it’s common to draw a blank. Most people find it challenging to talk about themselves or advertise their qualities. Of course, a dating profile is basically a dating resume. You want to appeal to potential dates. It doesn’t matter if you’re looking for something casual or something long-term, your dating profile is the first step.

So as the UK’s leading Dating Expert, I’ve decided to write a Megapost all about online dating for women. If you want to find my online dating profile examples for women then you can skip right to the blue text! These online dating profiles example are designed to attract men.

Including elements we’ve already covered, let’s take a quick look at what goes into a great dating profile:

A great profile photo
A memorable username
A catchy headline
A detailed profile
Authenticity

Profile Photos

Your profile photo is likely to be the first impression you make. When someone is scrolling or swiping through potential matches, they tend to look at the photo first. This means your profile photo should be alluring. Do you know what makes an alluring photo? A smiling face. Typically, people will look at the eyes, then the facial features of someone before any other part of their body. If you really want to attract someone, do it with your eyes and a great smile.

Here are a few other tips on choosing photos that I’ve use with other online dating profile examples for women

Ensure your lighting is bright enough to create a clear image
Limit the brightness exposure and potential lighting glares
Take pictures with an open background, creating the focus on you
Do not use pictures that show more than one person
Action shots (particularly ones that include a personal hobby or interest) are great, if done right
Motion blur, pixelation, and a lack of focus can all lead to a negative impression

Choosing A Headline

Unlike a photo, your headline doesn’t have to be perfectly crafted. You don’t have to spend hours putting thought into what you’re going to say. You can use the headline to summarize who you are in one line. This method is similar to a sales pitch. Alternatively, you can use the space of a headline to write a one-liner about the person you’re hoping to meet. It may feel hard to cram your ideal date into a single line, but do the best you can.

Headlines should always be flirty in nature. If you’re the clever type, combine that with flirtatious for a double hit. Whether you’re pitching yourself or trying to attract someone, showing your personality is a great way to succeed.

“Life is one long adventure.”

“Londoner, lover of nature, laughter,”

“Looking for someone to bulk stock canned goods with during Coronavirus”

“Left handed redhead with a passion for music,”

Profile Content

Of course, there is no element more important than a good profile. Many people will continue scrolling/swiping if a profile is unappealing. Unfortunately, there is no magic wand to craft a standard profile. Since your profile aims to highlight who you are and what you love, it should be a unique experience. Still, there are a few traits that everyone can agree are a turn-off:  I’ve included a few terrible online dating profile examples for women – just to make sure you don’t use them!

No content
Too little content
Generic/cliche content (the typical “I like movies, music, travelling, and my dog” profile)

“I love spending time with family and friends and I’m equally happy with a quiet night at home as I am on a wild night out”

Big blocks of text
Poor grammar

Negativity

“No one night stands thanks!!! No carer situations, sorry done that. No crying into beer about old flames..and definitely no vegetarians!”

Boring/flat (see: Helpful Hint below)

So, how do you create the perfect dating profile? As cheesy as it may sound, the answer is to be yourself. There is nothing better for attracting a potential partner than putting everything out there. Of course, you have to do this with tact. You’re not going to write that your ex broke your heart 5 years ago and you’re still harboring pain because your father left when you were young. These are not the details to share. The details you want to share are surface-level. What do you love more than anything? What could you spend the rest of your life doing? What is a typical day like for you? This kind of information will help to share who you are. It will also help to attract someone who is looking for you.

My favourite online dating profile examples for women:

Short and sweet

“So this is me. I’m a happy, fun loving girl with a good sense of humour and a generous spirit!”

Be Creative

” I’d love to meet someone who is young at heart and is up for random adventures, home and away, but also ready for something longer term if we click. Someone who takes their career seriously but doesn’t let it rule their life – works to live rather than lives to work – so that there’s time left for fun. And is not overly materialistic – I’m afraid I’ve never understood the allure of expensive cars for instance, and would rather spend money on new experiences. Someone who’s kind, honest, genuine and thinks of others first”

Use Humour

“I get sunburnt in minutes to the extent that I once spent a year with a white tan-line anchor “tattoo” on my arm after an incident involving dragon boat racing and face paint.”

Use lists/bullets

“I love warmth, wit and intellect..stimulating conversation, spontaneous decadence, travel and discovery, adventuring and exploring, cooking with friends and family, cuddling up with a curry and a great film, a good excuse to don heels and a cocktail dress, driving fast down country roads whilst listening to Carmen, restoring old pieces of furniture, David Bowie, great (mostly classic) literature and poetry, delectable food, yoga, health and fitness, fresh coffee and croissants (I eat healthily but don’t deprive myself of life’s luxuries…I’m too much of a bon viveur!), French food markets in the sunshine, open fires, swimming in lakes, conversations that take me to unexpected places, laughing till my stomach hurts..”

OR

“And some of the things I’d almost certainly do within a year given the chance to get out of the flat! – are arrange a skiing trip and a camping weekend with friends, stave off decline with exercise that entertains in some way (and avoid the gym), have afternoons in the Cheese Cave, nose around art galleries, spend time with family, do the crossword with coffee and a croissant on a weekend morning, end up doing karaoke on a friend’s birthday, go on a picnic to Regents park rose garden, and hole up in old wood panelled pubs for long lunches.”

Share a strange fact about yourself

“I’m no gourmet chef but I find cooking therapeutic – and definitely best done for a group of friends coming round for a meal. I once got taught how to cook a mean risotto by Gordon Ramsay.”

Use searchable-words (based off a hobby or passion)

“I’m a creative and entertaining person who loves the arts, especially theatre, galleries and cinema, and I like to make the most of weekends. I enjoy exploring the countryside and the seaside and mooching round interesting places”

OR

“I’d love to travel and explore more, with someone who enjoys sunshine, culture, and discovering amazing tavernas down cobbled backstreets.”

Talk about the type of man you’d like to meet:

“Looking for a kind, loyal and empathetic gentleman is take on the world with! Possibly a hopeless romantic but life is too short! I’m a bit of an old soul and looking to find someone I resonate with.”

OR

“Ultimately I am looking for someone to build a life with, to share the highs and the lows. To be a team. I want someone to hang out with, chat with, laugh with and go on big and small adventures with.”

Ask a question (give them something to break the ice)

“Would like to caption photos – suggestions welcome! “

OR

“Where would you like to visit next?”

Always end with a Call to Action

“If these little snippets about me have piqued your interest… do get in touch”

OR

“I’m better face to face. Drop me a message and let’s have a drink!”

Helpful hint:

Did you know every dating profile has a “tone”? For example, if you’re a hopeless romantic, you’re likely to talk about long walks on the beach. If you’re the adventurous type, you’ll mention traveling to new places. If you’re self-deprecating, there’s likely to be a bit of dark humor thrown into your profile. The tone of your profile says a lot about who you are. Hopefully you can use my online dating profile examples for women to create your own tone.

Remember: The goal of your profile is to leave them wanting more, which means they will be more likely to message you.

Authenticity

It can’t be said enough that being authentic really matters. One of the traits that other people look for is finding a real person. If you come across as fake or flat, you’re unlikely to find a match. Of course, the only thing you really need to do is be yourself. By thinking outside the box, you’ll show a potential match what you’re really like.

It doesn’t hurt to flaunt your feathers, just don’t get them rustled. Remember: There is no “right” or “wrong” way to write a dating profile. These online dating profile examples for women are purely guidelines. Don’t copy them  -use your imagination and have fun!

Use your peers (ask a friend, family member or co-worker to look at your profile and give their suggestions. Or hire me as your online dating coach and you’ll soon be meeting lots of great men!

James Preece

Dating Coach and Dating Expert at The Dating Guru

James Preece is the Dating Guru.

He is the UK's leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert, helping 1000s find love each year.

Ladies, stumped as to what makes a great dating profile? Well, here are some amazing dating profile examples for women that will take your online dating to the next level. I’ve taken years of experience to distill it down to just what you need to succeed.

With so much competition for the attention of your potential dates and partners, it can feel impossible to truly stand out from them. If you are trying to work out how to build a dating profile that gets results, this list of dating profile examples for women can arm you with the knowledge and inspiration needed to land the man you want!

Table of Contents

The basics of a great online dating profile

1. What to avoid
2. What usually works

How to choose the best dating profile photos

1. Use more than one photo
2. Make it clear who you are
3. Use recent photos
4. Give a sense of who you are as a person

How to write a dating profile bio

Dating profile examples

1. Good dating profiles
2. Bad dating profiles

Which dating site or app should you use?

The Basics of a Great Online Dating Profile

So, what are the first things you need to know when coming up with a dating profile? It can be useful to start out with the things that you should definitely rule out. Online dating etiquette can be complicated, especially if you are unfamiliar with it.

What to avoid

Some of the biggest dating profile turn-offs that men report are based on photos. Photos that are low-resolution or covered in Instagram filters are usually a no-no (trust us, as cute as the dog ears or princess tiara filter are, no guy will be impressed by them). Including only face shots or only body, shots is also usually a misstep, as it makes guys wonder what you are hiding. I’ll delve into choosing the best possible photos a little further on, but avoiding these mistakes is the first step.

Not every common turn-off is visual. There are many things in dating profile bios that make most guys groan and skip past you quickly. Anything that makes you seem unpleasant or difficult to spend time with is certainly best left out. One example is listing requirements that a man must meet (while we all have requirements, listing them before anything else on your bio can make you look picky or shallow). Complaining about previous dates or partners or blatantly bragging about things such as money or achievements are also turn-offs for most.

What usually works

What each individual guy wants in a woman can vary widely. However, some basic guidelines apply to most men. For example, not many men are attracted to women who seem uptight, controlling, or demanding (and let’s be honest; you probably wouldn’t want a man like that either). Most would prefer a laid-back, fun partner. Showing that you have a sense of humor and like to enjoy life is usually the best angle for your dating profile.

In terms of physical appearance, tastes can vary. While we can’t change many aspects of our appearance, the way that we present ourselves can make or break someone’s attraction to us. Smiling is usually best when it comes to photos—not many people can genuinely pull off the “moody and mysterious” look in online dating. Aside from this, looking clean and wearing clothes that suit you are pretty universally appreciated factors. When a guy is looking online for the perfect girlfriend, he is almost certain to choose the laid-back, fun-loving girl with style over the girl who seems confrontational, negative, and does not look after herself.

How to Choose the Best Dating Profile Photos

Now that you have the basics of what to choose and what to avoid when it comes to your photos, it’s time for a little more detail. Here are some tips for selecting the best pictures for your dating profile.

Use more than one photo

Look, it’s no surprise that your online dating profile photo is the key to getting people to stop, notice and engage with you. If you’re still thinking that any old selfies will do then you really need to step up your game and think twice about the first impression you’re making to people on the dating site.

Your online dating profile photo is the key to getting people to stop, notice and engage with you

Once you figure out what the best primary online dating photos are, then you can fill out your profile with additional photos that showcase your style. Don’t forget to include at least one “Full body” shot because potential dates are going to expect it, or worse ask for it anyway. Don’t waste your time and others if you don’t add additional photos. Besides, people often look very different in different photos. Adding a few different images (ideally between three and seven) of you gives people a chance to see more clearly what you look like in general. This also means that you can include both face shots and full-body shots.

Make it clear who you are

Another reason to use more than one photo is that this gives you the option to use group photos, as long as you also include photos of just yourself. Whatever you do, do not include only group photos, as people won’t be able to tell which one is you. Another thing to avoid at all costs is using photos of other people to fool people. This is called “catfishing” and is not only deceptive but also has little benefit—after all, you’re trying to find someone who likes the real you!

Use recent photos

A surprisingly common mistake when it comes to choosing the best photos is using out-of-date images. Trust me—no guy is going to be interested in how you looked a couple of years ago or more, even if you want to show off your own glow-up. There is no specific time limit on how recent a photo should be, but it should ideally show how you look now.

There is nothing wrong with a year-old photo if you haven’t changed much at all. However, if you have recently gone through a significant change in appearance (a complete change of fashion sense, a bold new haircut, or a significant change in weight or muscle tone), you should represent yourself as you are now. If in doubt, think, “would my date recognize me when we meet up for a first date?”

Give a sense of who you are as a person

As well as showing who you are visual, photos that give a sense of what your life is like and what makes you tick are a great way of attracting the people who are right for you. If you enjoy a pursuit such as sports, dancing, theater, horse riding, or outdoor adventures, photos of you taking part in these are a simple way to convey this.

Photos of you with friends are a great way of showing that you have a social life, which is attractive to most people. For example, shots of you and the girls at the club show that you love to party (although very drunk photos are usually best avoided). If this doesn’t represent you and the kind of guy you want to attract, choose something that reflects your passions. This could be as simple as you in a cafe having a coffee with a friend or participating in some form of a community project.

Most guys like to have at least something to start a conversation about.

How to Write a Dating Profile Bio

Writing the bio, or “About Me,” section of a dating profile is a fine art. Many women leave this section blank and let their pictures do the talking—this probably works in some cases, but most guys like to have at least something to start a conversation about.

However, writing too much is also best avoided most of the time. Essay-length walls of text are unlikely to be read fully, and may even lead to potential dates seeing you as pretentious or over-sharing. A little mystery is good, but you need to include enough information to spark interest. Including facts about yourself that raise questions is a great way to start a conversation.

Overall, it is best to seem laid-back, approachable, and honest. Information that can be seen from photos may not need to be in your bio (for example, you don’t need to mention that you like going for cocktails if there are already pictures of you doing this). A great bio is concise but informative, includes a dash of humor (although be careful with recycled, copy-and-pasted lines), and raises a question.

Dating Profile Examples

It’s tricky to explain the difference between a great online dating profile and a terrible one without including some examples! Take a look at some actual samples below and the feedback that goes along with them. I think that you’ll quickly get an idea of what’s a good profile example and what is a bad one.

Good Dating Profiles Examples

Emily, 26

My ideal date starts with a quiet coffee and intellectual conversation in a cute cafe and ends with us getting ejected from a karaoke bar at 2 am for drunk and disorderly behavior.

FEEDBACK: Funny, light-hearted, and self-deprecating. This is a good bio.

Tanisha, 21

Short but feisty

Inked and pierced

Festivals

Techno

Dogs

Hit me with your best pick-up line 😉

FEEDBACK: List-based bios can be pretty effective. This one is informative and gives an excellent overview of her lifestyle, and the last line shows approachability and humor.

Anna, 30

Just moved to *insert place name here* and looking to meet cool people. Hit me up if you like mimosas and endlessly quoting The Office.

FEEDBACK: Simple, informative, and inviting. Nothing groundbreaking, but when paired with the right photos, this is a solid bio.

Bad Dating Profiles Examples

Jess, 20

Idk what to write here lol

FEEDBACK: This one comes up a lot. Honestly, leaving it blank would be better.

Sharon, 25

5’5’’

Treat me like a princess

If you’re ugly, keep scrolling

FEEDBACK: Demanding and shallow in one. Even the most incredible photos might not be able to make up for this one.

Kate, 33

Had enough of silly boys on this app. Looking for a real man, not someone who’s gonna play mind games. If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.

FEEDBACK: Nobody wants to know about your dating history before knowing anything else. Add in the painfully clichéd and often misused quote, and this is a home run of lousy dating profile choices.

Conclusion

Different dating sites and apps are designed for slightly different purposes and may reward different approaches. While the tips here are pretty universal with regards to online dating, Tinder is a more image-focused app that rewards excellent photos and short, witty bios. In contrast, sites like eHarmony, Match, and OkCupid tend to attract a user base who may be more interested in reading longer bios or answering questions about compatibility.

The most important thing to remember is that it does not necessarily matter if a particular guy isn’t blown away by your online dating profile. If he sees something that he isn’t into, then he wasn’t right for you anyway! After all, the point of dating is to find people who you can really connect and who like you for who you are.

About the Author

Brenda Adair is a relationship and lifestyle writer, coffee enthusiast, and lover of new experiences. You’ll usually find her in a coffee shop with her laptop and a flat white scribbling down an article or searching for the next travel destination. She is a contributing author at GoDates, and several other online publications.

We get it: Dating isn't exactly easy these days. In 2019, we're busy, we're stressed, and we're constantly faced with a myriad of distractions that can make wading into the dating pool seem like getting drowned in a raging sea. While some folks are opting out altogether, the brave souls who want to meet someone are faced with an increasing number of ways to do so. Dating apps? Matchmakers? Speed dating? Introducing yourself to a cutie at the bar? Many of us are exhausted just thinking about it. So yes, dating is a lot, and it's clear we could all use a little insight (and commiseration) about the whole process. That's why Shondaland decided to take a 360-degree look at the state of dating today, from the struggles and the successes to how we're meeting new people — dating apps, DMs, and more — or how we're sometimes, well, not.

If you’re dating in 2019, chances are you’re using an app. Maybe you’re using multiple apps. And that process, as many of us know, can be, well, a drag. Shondaland.com wants to help ease the pain with a deep dive into the nitty gritty of online-dating profiles. Our hope? To not only make your profiles smarter, sexier and shinier, but to ensure that when and if you do get a match, it's going to be the kind of person you actually want to go on a date with. Thus, we matched three women with three seasoned online-matchmaking experts to find out: What makes the perfect profile?

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Volume One: Colleen

THE DATER: Colleen, 25, a wholesale manager for a beauty brand based in the South

For five-plus years, Colleen has had an on-again, off-again relationship with the standard trio of dating apps: Hinge, Bumble, Tinder. So far, she says most of her matches have felt like “a waste of time.” Her inbox is stacked with “Hey” after “Hey” from bland guys with whom she has zero chemistry, and who rarely engage her in conversations about her own interests. Among her lengthy list of duds is the Atlanta Falcons player who commented on her photo with a tired pick-up line (that, at least, resulted in an entertaining screenshot for her friends) and the creepy guy who claimed to coincidentally “run into her” one night while she was out with friends and proceeded to follow her around for the evening.

THE EXPERT:Damona Hoffman

Hoffman jokes that she’s been coaching online daters “since they used to do profiles on stone tablets.” In addition to one on one coaching, Hoffman frequently does public speaking engagements on the subject, offers an online course, and hosts a weekly podcast calledDates & Mates. She thinks of dating profiles as a form of storytelling, and helps clients craft “narratives” designed to engage exactly the people they’re hoping to meet, as opposed to profiles that could appeal to anyone. “You could get a lot of messages, but if they’re a lot of the wrong messages, or you’re not [going] on dates with the right kind of people, then it feels exhausting, frustrating and overwhelming,” Hoffman says.

We asked Hoffman to review Colleen’s profile and come up with actionable tips that will help this “meh” dater find an authentic connection.

Decide what (and who) you want, and build a profile that reflects it

Exhibit A: Colleen says her Hinge matches are “all over the place" — she attracts a broad range of guys with seemingly no common denominator.

Hoffman chalks that up to a profile that doesn’t accurately portray what Colleen’s looking for: a real relationship — i.e., not flings or on-again, off-again flirtations — with someone who makes her laugh.

Step one: Think about the message your photos are sending. Colleen earns points for posting an action shot of herself snowboarding and a cute pic with her dog — both of which do a good job of depicting different aspects of her life. But her bikini-clad primary photo suggests she’s looking to play.

Hoffman’s all for body positivity, but warns that guys are easily distracted. If you’re looking to hook up, super. But “If you’re looking for a relationship, the idea you want to set it up is that there’s more that can be revealed over time. You want to hint at certain things,” she says. As for a bigger reveal, “let him earn it” over time.

Hoffman’s advice: switch to something more subtle, and cut down on photos that feature alcohol to lessen the profile's "party vibe."

Check off the “three Cs”

Hoffman swears by three key ingredients: Color, context and character. The first is relatively straightforward: a vibrant top or dress — especially in stop-sign red — can make someone pause from swiping and take notice. Hoffman cites2008 research published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, which suggested that portraits outlined in red were more attractive to men than identical portraits framed in other colors. “Lean into the biological conditioning,” Hoffman says.

The second “C,” is context: Choose photos, like Colleen’s skiing shot, that depict you out in your world, whether it’s playing soccer with a weekend league or perusing your local indie bookstore. That said, if the app you’re using has the potential to link to Instagram (Tinder, Bumble and Hinge all do) Hoffman recommends opting out. It may seem counterintuitive, but in a culture of speed-swiping, you’re aiming to curate what someone needs to know about you without overwhelming them with TMI. Hoffman suggests that Colleen un-link her social media, add more active photos, and remove any visual information that isn’t straightforward. For instance, adorable photos with her niece could, at a glance, appear to be photos with her daughter.

Character, Hoffman’s final “C,” means showcasing the different aspects of your personality. Colleen displayed her wit and sports knowledge on Hinge’s “When was the last time you cried?” question: she answered with, "a football game." But Hoffman found answers to two other profile questions confusing. And since Colleen specifically seeks a guy with a sense of humor, Hoffman encouraged her to add a few more fun, laughing photos.

Take matters into your own hands

Friends had advised Colleen to wait for potential dates to come to her, so she tends to take a passive approach online, shying away from exploring guys who haven’t reached out to her first.

Don’t be coy, says Hoffman. If you’re not satisfied with who you’re meeting, take action: Hoffman says women who send more messages snag more dates with higher-quality potential partners. “Whatever people are thinking about the rules of chivalry, or guys not wanting to be chased, is totally incorrect,” she says. “I work with men as well, and they’re always flattered when women message them.” Men also receive fewer messages, “so they’re not inundated the way women are with this wide swath of anybody and everybody.” The odds are likely already in your favor. Hoffman says you’re “much more likely to get a response from him” than if he were to message you and get lost in the inbox.

The key: Send a targeted, thoughtful message to the type of person you’re interested in meeting. Usually, this means commenting on or asking questions about the information on that person’s profile.

SO, DID IT WORK?

Colleen tweaked her profile according to Hoffman’s suggestions, resulting in a version she feels is now more authentic and a better representation of who she is. Within a week, she saw a significant change in her matches. For starters, there are fewer of them — Colleen used to receive 10 or more connections a day. Now, she’s averaging about three or four.

At first, that was a blow to the self esteem, but soon Colleen realized she was filtering out some of the guys who weren’t in line with what she’s looking for. The changes are doing most of the “dirty work” for her, Colleen says. Before, Colleen received a lot of generic messages, now she sees an uptick in guys sending jokes, witty comments, and even some original pick-up lines. She says she’s even passed along Hoffman’s advice to her friends.

DATING BY THE NUMBERS

Volume Two: Madison

THE DATER: Madison, 25, works in entertainment industry PR in New York City

Three years ago, Madison started online dating to meet different kinds of people and have new experiences. Now she’s in search of someone who, like her, is looking to take a permanent vacation from dating apps. And her recent matches barely spark her interest.

THE EXPERT: Erika Ettin, founder of online dating consultancyA Little Nudge

When Washington, D.C.-based Ettin first tried online dating in 2001, she put her background in economics and finance to work crafting her profile, even tracking her results in a spreadsheet. She experimented with different strategies until she was receiving responses to six out of 10 of the messages she was sending and had hit a message-to-date conversion rate of 50 percent. In 2011, she went pro and founded her consulting company, which has helped more than 1,000 clients.

Ettin gives Madison’s profile a tune-up, offering tips to avoid online dating burnout, stay organized, and attract the types she wants to meet.

Stay organized

Online dating can feel like picking up a side gig. When Madison spoke with Ettin, she was juggling five conversations and two different date offers with various guys. Ettin advised her to fully commit to one app rather than half-heartedly using a handful, and to limit herself to ongoing text chats with five potential dates at a time.

Ettin also had Madison go through her inbox and make a conclusive decision on each of her current prospects: Either set up a date or stop chatting. And instead of just ghosting the ones she decides not to meet IRL, Ettin advised her to send a brief, polite note: “I thought about it, and I don’t think we’re a match. Best of luck!” Then “unmatch” the person to cut down on confusion while scrolling through your inbox.

Ettin’s other strategies to avoid app burnout? Go through your list of “likes” only once or twice a day: The more you do it, the more overwhelmed you’re likely to feel. If you’re battling a busy week, take a break from swiping altogether. And respond to incoming messages the day you receive them; it’s best to just get it out of the way.

Make sure the spotlight is on you — and only you

In her profile photos, Madison included shots with a couple of friends and one large group photo. If you look closely, you can see why: One featured her and her brother at the Tony Awards; another featured Madison and a large group supporting the "SCAR Act," a New York State Senate bill that would require the tracking of displaced immigrant children. They provided detailed evidence of how cool and how civic-minded she is. If you’re looking closely. To the average speed-swiper, the Tonys shot could read as a date. And sadly, since few people will likely take the time to look up the bill’s meaning, Ettin argued that the photo's value was negligible.

Ettin recommends solo shots only: You're looking to communicate who you are and what you look like. Why invite potential comparisons? “I want people to know I have friends,” said Madison, echoing a common dating app concern. But according to Ettin, potential matches are more interested in checking out your appearance and gauging your personality than analyzing your social life.

Accentuate the positive

To this profile prompt, “I’ll know I’ve found the one when…,” Madison replied, “We plan our joint campaigns.” Ettin loved that. But she red-flagged another line Madison wrote: “You get your news from somewhere other than your Facebook feed.” [Editor’s note: For what it’s worth, we applaud the sentiment.]

Ettin’s job is raising her clients odds. She tells them to play it safe, avoiding anything that could read as snark or negativity. Ettin encouraged Madison to re-package the same idea more positively (for example, “You read the New York Times”). Or at least rearrange the sentence so it ends on a positive note.

Madison’s solution: “I’ll brag about you to my friends if… You know your way around a wine list (rioja all day), get your news from somewhere other than your Facebook feed, and your shoes match your belt!”

SO, DID IT WORK?

In a word, yes. Shortly after she reworked her profile with solo shots and upbeat language, Madison started getting more matches with guys who seem more engaged

and were definitely more attractive."The matches I’m getting are responding to my question/answer sections of my profile more than ever before, and if I’m not replying back right away, a lot of them are following up," she says.

And although narrowing her focus to just one app—she chose Hinge—felt counter-intuitive to Ettin’s other advice (“keep your options open”), allowing herself to be pickier means she’s not wasting energy on guys who don’t seem to have real potential. Why choose Hinge over Bumble? "I like that anyone can comment on or 'like' a photo, versus waiting for a match, or on Bumble, waiting for the woman to make the first move."

“This process allowed me to do a reset,” Madison says. “Taking the time to sit down and think, ‘What am I really looking for?,’ and not being afraid to end a conversation if I don’t see it going anywhere.” She feels less overwhelmed and “re-energized to get back out there and do it again with a better outlook.”

Volume Three: Shelby

THE DATER: Shelby, 26, works in sales for a prominent NYC-based social media company

Originally from Atlanta, Shelby moved to New York almost four years ago and was soon averaging two dates a week off of dating apps. That led to serious burnout. Now that she’s further along in her career and has put down some roots in the city, she’s got less time on her hands for first dates. She's still using Hinge, but gave up on Bumble after finding no success with it — largely because, she admits, she has a “mental block” about making the first move.

THE EXPERT: Los Angeles-based dating coachJulie Spira

Spira is the author of 2009's The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online, which chronicles 250 of her own online dates. She speaks at conferences about the intersection of love and technology and has worked with clients as far afield as London and Sydney. So when asked about the oft-lamented difficulty of dating in New York City, she laughs: “When you’re single, your city is always the hardest city to date in.”

Offer some conversation-starters

Spira tells Shelby to get specific about her activities — in her bio, in her answers to prompts, and in her photos. Bios, in particular, should be “about three to five sentences.” And your profile should easily spark conversation. One way to do this: Include a question in your bio, such as “What’s your favorite team?” or “Can you guess where I am in the fifth photo?”

On Bumble, Shelby mentions that she loves sports. Get granular, Spira says: Which types? What’s her team? Is she watching, or playing? And since a lot of Shelby’s photos depict her in unremarkable locales, Spira advises her to add a travel shot or a photo from a recognizable event, giving potential matches an easy “in” to ask a question or even suggest a related date.

Spira also urged Shelby not to be afraid to include what she's looking for — a relationship.

We’ll say it again: Do make the first move

Until now, Shelby’s online dating strategy has involved very little swiping right. “Being traditionally from the South, I’m used to men being the pursuers,” she says. On Bumble, which requires women to send the first message after a mutual match, she initiated contact halfheartedly, throwing out a blase, “Hey.”

One of Spira’s first tasks: Ditch the “hey" and ask a question that shows you’ve actually looked at the guy's profile: “Love your scuba diving photos! Where were they taken?” Put yourself in his shoes, Spira says. If he’s not responding to every single match, it stands to reason that the “lazy” message in their inbox is the one that will fall by the wayside. You can always let the other person take the lead later, when it comes to asking for a phone number or planning a date.

Vet prospects on the phone

One reason people lose their gusto for dating apps? Too much time and energy wasted on lackluster dates. In the whirl of work, friends, and the general bustle of life in New York City, dating has become another thing for Shelby to wedge onto her calendar. The simple — and refreshingly old-school — solution: Don’t schedule a date with someone unless you’ve already spoken by phone.

“You don’t want to waste time meeting somebody and going, ‘Ugh, no chemistry,’” Spira says. She recommends limiting the chat to 20 minutes. If the match asks to set up a date and you’re not sure how to suggest the feel-out phone call instead, try something like: “If you send me your number, I’d be happy to call and see how the conversation goes.”

SO, DID IT WORK?

“It was a night-and-day difference,” Shelby says. Emboldening herself to make the first move “was really enlightening for me, to switch my mindset.” Now, when she reaches out to someone new, Shelby does it Spira’s way, asking a question tailored to the person’s profile. As a result, her response rate has jumped to “80 or 90 percent.”

And after she provided more detailed answers to more of the questions on Hinge, Shelby saw a significant spike in engagement. Instead of mere photo “likes,” matches are asking about, say, her secret to winning fantasy football in a league of 16 teams. She’s has yet to try Spira’s strategy for vetting potential dates on the phone, but that’s next on her list: Since Shelby travels frequently, she wants a partner who has the social skills necessary to make phone calls work.

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Amazing Online Dating Profile Examples For Women

You may already know that it’s important to have a great profile photo and a catchy headline. But there are a few other elements that can make a change in how people view you. Some of these elements seem obvious, while others may take you by surprise. Did you know that having a memorable username increases the chance that people will look at your profile? The username on a dating profile is similar to any other social media website. An easy-to-remember handle makes draws more attention than one with a bunch of numbers or underscores. This is one of many things you may not have thought about.

When you’re trying to put together your profile, it’s common to draw a blank. Most people find it challenging to talk about themselves or advertise their qualities. Of course, a dating profile is basically a dating resume. You want to appeal to potential dates. It doesn’t matter if you’re looking for something casual or something long-term, your dating profile is the first step.

So as the UK’s leading Dating Expert, I’ve decided to write a Megapost all about online dating for women. If you want to find my online dating profile examples for women then you can skip right to the blue text! These online dating profiles example are designed to attract men.

Including elements we’ve already covered, let’s take a quick look at what goes into a great dating profile:

A great profile photo
A memorable username
A catchy headline
A detailed profile
Authenticity

Profile Photos

Your profile photo is likely to be the first impression you make. When someone is scrolling or swiping through potential matches, they tend to look at the photo first. This means your profile photo should be alluring. Do you know what makes an alluring photo? A smiling face. Typically, people will look at the eyes, then the facial features of someone before any other part of their body. If you really want to attract someone, do it with your eyes and a great smile.

Here are a few other tips on choosing photos that I’ve use with other online dating profile examples for women

Ensure your lighting is bright enough to create a clear image
Limit the brightness exposure and potential lighting glares
Take pictures with an open background, creating the focus on you
Do not use pictures that show more than one person
Action shots (particularly ones that include a personal hobby or interest) are great, if done right
Motion blur, pixelation, and a lack of focus can all lead to a negative impression

Choosing A Headline

Unlike a photo, your headline doesn’t have to be perfectly crafted. You don’t have to spend hours putting thought into what you’re going to say. You can use the headline to summarize who you are in one line. This method is similar to a sales pitch. Alternatively, you can use the space of a headline to write a one-liner about the person you’re hoping to meet. It may feel hard to cram your ideal date into a single line, but do the best you can.

Headlines should always be flirty in nature. If you’re the clever type, combine that with flirtatious for a double hit. Whether you’re pitching yourself or trying to attract someone, showing your personality is a great way to succeed.

“Life is one long adventure.”

“Londoner, lover of nature, laughter,”

“Looking for someone to bulk stock canned goods with during Coronavirus”

“Left handed redhead with a passion for music,”

Profile Content

Of course, there is no element more important than a good profile. Many people will continue scrolling/swiping if a profile is unappealing. Unfortunately, there is no magic wand to craft a standard profile. Since your profile aims to highlight who you are and what you love, it should be a unique experience. Still, there are a few traits that everyone can agree are a turn-off:  I’ve included a few terrible online dating profile examples for women – just to make sure you don’t use them!

No content
Too little content
Generic/cliche content (the typical “I like movies, music, travelling, and my dog” profile)

“I love spending time with family and friends and I’m equally happy with a quiet night at home as I am on a wild night out”

Big blocks of text
Poor grammar

Negativity

“No one night stands thanks!!! No carer situations, sorry done that. No crying into beer about old flames..and definitely no vegetarians!”

Boring/flat (see: Helpful Hint below)

So, how do you create the perfect dating profile? As cheesy as it may sound, the answer is to be yourself. There is nothing better for attracting a potential partner than putting everything out there. Of course, you have to do this with tact. You’re not going to write that your ex broke your heart 5 years ago and you’re still harboring pain because your father left when you were young. These are not the details to share. The details you want to share are surface-level. What do you love more than anything? What could you spend the rest of your life doing? What is a typical day like for you? This kind of information will help to share who you are. It will also help to attract someone who is looking for you.

My favourite online dating profile examples for women:

Short and sweet

“So this is me. I’m a happy, fun loving girl with a good sense of humour and a generous spirit!”

Be Creative

” I’d love to meet someone who is young at heart and is up for random adventures, home and away, but also ready for something longer term if we click. Someone who takes their career seriously but doesn’t let it rule their life – works to live rather than lives to work – so that there’s time left for fun. And is not overly materialistic – I’m afraid I’ve never understood the allure of expensive cars for instance, and would rather spend money on new experiences. Someone who’s kind, honest, genuine and thinks of others first”

Use Humour

“I get sunburnt in minutes to the extent that I once spent a year with a white tan-line anchor “tattoo” on my arm after an incident involving dragon boat racing and face paint.”

Use lists/bullets

“I love warmth, wit and intellect..stimulating conversation, spontaneous decadence, travel and discovery, adventuring and exploring, cooking with friends and family, cuddling up with a curry and a great film, a good excuse to don heels and a cocktail dress, driving fast down country roads whilst listening to Carmen, restoring old pieces of furniture, David Bowie, great (mostly classic) literature and poetry, delectable food, yoga, health and fitness, fresh coffee and croissants (I eat healthily but don’t deprive myself of life’s luxuries…I’m too much of a bon viveur!), French food markets in the sunshine, open fires, swimming in lakes, conversations that take me to unexpected places, laughing till my stomach hurts..”

OR

“And some of the things I’d almost certainly do within a year given the chance to get out of the flat! – are arrange a skiing trip and a camping weekend with friends, stave off decline with exercise that entertains in some way (and avoid the gym), have afternoons in the Cheese Cave, nose around art galleries, spend time with family, do the crossword with coffee and a croissant on a weekend morning, end up doing karaoke on a friend’s birthday, go on a picnic to Regents park rose garden, and hole up in old wood panelled pubs for long lunches.”

Share a strange fact about yourself

“I’m no gourmet chef but I find cooking therapeutic – and definitely best done for a group of friends coming round for a meal. I once got taught how to cook a mean risotto by Gordon Ramsay.”

Use searchable-words (based off a hobby or passion)

“I’m a creative and entertaining person who loves the arts, especially theatre, galleries and cinema, and I like to make the most of weekends. I enjoy exploring the countryside and the seaside and mooching round interesting places”

OR

“I’d love to travel and explore more, with someone who enjoys sunshine, culture, and discovering amazing tavernas down cobbled backstreets.”

Talk about the type of man you’d like to meet:

“Looking for a kind, loyal and empathetic gentleman is take on the world with! Possibly a hopeless romantic but life is too short! I’m a bit of an old soul and looking to find someone I resonate with.”

OR

“Ultimately I am looking for someone to build a life with, to share the highs and the lows. To be a team. I want someone to hang out with, chat with, laugh with and go on big and small adventures with.”

Ask a question (give them something to break the ice)

“Would like to caption photos – suggestions welcome! “

OR

“Where would you like to visit next?”

Always end with a Call to Action

“If these little snippets about me have piqued your interest… do get in touch”

OR

“I’m better face to face. Drop me a message and let’s have a drink!”

Helpful hint:

Did you know every dating profile has a “tone”? For example, if you’re a hopeless romantic, you’re likely to talk about long walks on the beach. If you’re the adventurous type, you’ll mention traveling to new places. If you’re self-deprecating, there’s likely to be a bit of dark humor thrown into your profile. The tone of your profile says a lot about who you are. Hopefully you can use my online dating profile examples for women to create your own tone.

Remember: The goal of your profile is to leave them wanting more, which means they will be more likely to message you.

Authenticity

It can’t be said enough that being authentic really matters. One of the traits that other people look for is finding a real person. If you come across as fake or flat, you’re unlikely to find a match. Of course, the only thing you really need to do is be yourself. By thinking outside the box, you’ll show a potential match what you’re really like.

It doesn’t hurt to flaunt your feathers, just don’t get them rustled. Remember: There is no “right” or “wrong” way to write a dating profile. These online dating profile examples for women are purely guidelines. Don’t copy them  -use your imagination and have fun!

Use your peers (ask a friend, family member or co-worker to look at your profile and give their suggestions. Or hire me as your online dating coach and you’ll soon be meeting lots of great men!

James Preece

Dating Coach and Dating Expert at The Dating Guru

James Preece is the Dating Guru.

He is the UK's leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert, helping 1000s find love each year.

Ladies, stumped as to what makes a great dating profile? Well, here are some amazing dating profile examples for women that will take your online dating to the next level. I’ve taken years of experience to distill it down to just what you need to succeed.

With so much competition for the attention of your potential dates and partners, it can feel impossible to truly stand out from them. If you are trying to work out how to build a dating profile that gets results, this list of dating profile examples for women can arm you with the knowledge and inspiration needed to land the man you want!

Table of Contents

The basics of a great online dating profile

1. What to avoid
2. What usually works

How to choose the best dating profile photos

1. Use more than one photo
2. Make it clear who you are
3. Use recent photos
4. Give a sense of who you are as a person

How to write a dating profile bio

Dating profile examples

1. Good dating profiles
2. Bad dating profiles

Which dating site or app should you use?

The Basics of a Great Online Dating Profile

So, what are the first things you need to know when coming up with a dating profile? It can be useful to start out with the things that you should definitely rule out. Online dating etiquette can be complicated, especially if you are unfamiliar with it.

What to avoid

Some of the biggest dating profile turn-offs that men report are based on photos. Photos that are low-resolution or covered in Instagram filters are usually a no-no (trust us, as cute as the dog ears or princess tiara filter are, no guy will be impressed by them). Including only face shots or only body, shots is also usually a misstep, as it makes guys wonder what you are hiding. I’ll delve into choosing the best possible photos a little further on, but avoiding these mistakes is the first step.

Not every common turn-off is visual. There are many things in dating profile bios that make most guys groan and skip past you quickly. Anything that makes you seem unpleasant or difficult to spend time with is certainly best left out. One example is listing requirements that a man must meet (while we all have requirements, listing them before anything else on your bio can make you look picky or shallow). Complaining about previous dates or partners or blatantly bragging about things such as money or achievements are also turn-offs for most.

What usually works

What each individual guy wants in a woman can vary widely. However, some basic guidelines apply to most men. For example, not many men are attracted to women who seem uptight, controlling, or demanding (and let’s be honest; you probably wouldn’t want a man like that either). Most would prefer a laid-back, fun partner. Showing that you have a sense of humor and like to enjoy life is usually the best angle for your dating profile.

In terms of physical appearance, tastes can vary. While we can’t change many aspects of our appearance, the way that we present ourselves can make or break someone’s attraction to us. Smiling is usually best when it comes to photos—not many people can genuinely pull off the “moody and mysterious” look in online dating. Aside from this, looking clean and wearing clothes that suit you are pretty universally appreciated factors. When a guy is looking online for the perfect girlfriend, he is almost certain to choose the laid-back, fun-loving girl with style over the girl who seems confrontational, negative, and does not look after herself.

How to Choose the Best Dating Profile Photos

Now that you have the basics of what to choose and what to avoid when it comes to your photos, it’s time for a little more detail. Here are some tips for selecting the best pictures for your dating profile.

Use more than one photo

Look, it’s no surprise that your online dating profile photo is the key to getting people to stop, notice and engage with you. If you’re still thinking that any old selfies will do then you really need to step up your game and think twice about the first impression you’re making to people on the dating site.

Your online dating profile photo is the key to getting people to stop, notice and engage with you

Once you figure out what the best primary online dating photos are, then you can fill out your profile with additional photos that showcase your style. Don’t forget to include at least one “Full body” shot because potential dates are going to expect it, or worse ask for it anyway. Don’t waste your time and others if you don’t add additional photos. Besides, people often look very different in different photos. Adding a few different images (ideally between three and seven) of you gives people a chance to see more clearly what you look like in general. This also means that you can include both face shots and full-body shots.

Make it clear who you are

Another reason to use more than one photo is that this gives you the option to use group photos, as long as you also include photos of just yourself. Whatever you do, do not include only group photos, as people won’t be able to tell which one is you. Another thing to avoid at all costs is using photos of other people to fool people. This is called “catfishing” and is not only deceptive but also has little benefit—after all, you’re trying to find someone who likes the real you!

Use recent photos

A surprisingly common mistake when it comes to choosing the best photos is using out-of-date images. Trust me—no guy is going to be interested in how you looked a couple of years ago or more, even if you want to show off your own glow-up. There is no specific time limit on how recent a photo should be, but it should ideally show how you look now.

There is nothing wrong with a year-old photo if you haven’t changed much at all. However, if you have recently gone through a significant change in appearance (a complete change of fashion sense, a bold new haircut, or a significant change in weight or muscle tone), you should represent yourself as you are now. If in doubt, think, “would my date recognize me when we meet up for a first date?”

Give a sense of who you are as a person

As well as showing who you are visual, photos that give a sense of what your life is like and what makes you tick are a great way of attracting the people who are right for you. If you enjoy a pursuit such as sports, dancing, theater, horse riding, or outdoor adventures, photos of you taking part in these are a simple way to convey this.

Photos of you with friends are a great way of showing that you have a social life, which is attractive to most people. For example, shots of you and the girls at the club show that you love to party (although very drunk photos are usually best avoided). If this doesn’t represent you and the kind of guy you want to attract, choose something that reflects your passions. This could be as simple as you in a cafe having a coffee with a friend or participating in some form of a community project.

Most guys like to have at least something to start a conversation about.

How to Write a Dating Profile Bio

Writing the bio, or “About Me,” section of a dating profile is a fine art. Many women leave this section blank and let their pictures do the talking—this probably works in some cases, but most guys like to have at least something to start a conversation about.

However, writing too much is also best avoided most of the time. Essay-length walls of text are unlikely to be read fully, and may even lead to potential dates seeing you as pretentious or over-sharing. A little mystery is good, but you need to include enough information to spark interest. Including facts about yourself that raise questions is a great way to start a conversation.

Overall, it is best to seem laid-back, approachable, and honest. Information that can be seen from photos may not need to be in your bio (for example, you don’t need to mention that you like going for cocktails if there are already pictures of you doing this). A great bio is concise but informative, includes a dash of humor (although be careful with recycled, copy-and-pasted lines), and raises a question.

Dating Profile Examples

It’s tricky to explain the difference between a great online dating profile and a terrible one without including some examples! Take a look at some actual samples below and the feedback that goes along with them. I think that you’ll quickly get an idea of what’s a good profile example and what is a bad one.

Good Dating Profiles Examples

Emily, 26

My ideal date starts with a quiet coffee and intellectual conversation in a cute cafe and ends with us getting ejected from a karaoke bar at 2 am for drunk and disorderly behavior.

FEEDBACK: Funny, light-hearted, and self-deprecating. This is a good bio.

Tanisha, 21

Short but feisty

Inked and pierced

Festivals

Techno

Dogs

Hit me with your best pick-up line 😉

FEEDBACK: List-based bios can be pretty effective. This one is informative and gives an excellent overview of her lifestyle, and the last line shows approachability and humor.

Anna, 30

Just moved to *insert place name here* and looking to meet cool people. Hit me up if you like mimosas and endlessly quoting The Office.

FEEDBACK: Simple, informative, and inviting. Nothing groundbreaking, but when paired with the right photos, this is a solid bio.

Bad Dating Profiles Examples

Jess, 20

Idk what to write here lol

FEEDBACK: This one comes up a lot. Honestly, leaving it blank would be better.

Sharon, 25

5’5’’

Treat me like a princess

If you’re ugly, keep scrolling

FEEDBACK: Demanding and shallow in one. Even the most incredible photos might not be able to make up for this one.

Kate, 33

Had enough of silly boys on this app. Looking for a real man, not someone who’s gonna play mind games. If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.

FEEDBACK: Nobody wants to know about your dating history before knowing anything else. Add in the painfully clichéd and often misused quote, and this is a home run of lousy dating profile choices.

Conclusion

Different dating sites and apps are designed for slightly different purposes and may reward different approaches. While the tips here are pretty universal with regards to online dating, Tinder is a more image-focused app that rewards excellent photos and short, witty bios. In contrast, sites like eHarmony, Match, and OkCupid tend to attract a user base who may be more interested in reading longer bios or answering questions about compatibility.

The most important thing to remember is that it does not necessarily matter if a particular guy isn’t blown away by your online dating profile. If he sees something that he isn’t into, then he wasn’t right for you anyway! After all, the point of dating is to find people who you can really connect and who like you for who you are.

About the Author

Brenda Adair is a relationship and lifestyle writer, coffee enthusiast, and lover of new experiences. You’ll usually find her in a coffee shop with her laptop and a flat white scribbling down an article or searching for the next travel destination. She is a contributing author at GoDates, and several other online publications.

Since you're looking for short dating profile examples, you've probably realized short definitely doesn’t = easier.

Highlight a few attractive traits, build up some intrigue and attraction, make her want to swipe right or return your message… that’s a tall order for a small character count.

But if you want to meet the best women in your area, that’s exactly what your profile needs to accomplish.

These 13 short profile examples will make you irresistible, and you can find one to use on any app or site!

But before you get started…

Steal This Trick From Pro Dating Profile Writers!

Jot down a list of hobbies you have, especially those you'd like to share with your ideal partner.

Also write down the traits you possess that your perfect match is probably looking for in a man, and a few thoughts about what you love about your job.

For example, your profile writing cheat sheet may look like this:

Having that information visible in front of you makes the profile writing process a bit easier. You can use it to customize one of these good profile examples!

Specific details make your profile seem more genuine, and that's important. A recent study revealed 84% of online daters want to see more authenticity.

Dr. Cortney Warren, a clinical psychologist who offered commentary on the results, said the majority of singles want honest, straight-forward information in profiles.

One of the most important findings in the study is that singles are not interested in seeing an idealized depiction of potential partners through edited photos and unrealistic positive self-descriptors. The truth is, singles want more honest, authentic depictions of others and themselves on dating apps. A more realistic portrayal of each individual will not only be refreshing, but also lead to more meaningful connections.

Super Short Online Dating Profile Examples

On some apps like The League, your bio has a 140-character limit. That means you’ve got a couple sentences max to make a good impression, which is crucial if you want a shot at meeting her in person.

Super Short Profile Example #1:

You don’t have enough space to tell, so you need to show why you’re a good catch. (Professional profile writers generally take this approach with an online dating profile of any length, by the way, since it makes your profile more attractive to daters.)

Super Short Profile Example #2:

Pick a few traits that illustrate why you’re a good catch, and roll with those.

Super Short Profile Example #3:

Occupation = financial stability, active hobby = physically fit and adventurous, travel = good times together… get the picture?

Super Short Profile Example #4:

Emoji are a great space-saving option when you're trying to express a lot of ideas in a short amount of space.

Just don't use so many that it gets conceptually hard to follow. A few emoji go a long way.

Choose Words Women Connect With

Women resonate with some words more than others in a dating profile.

For instance, Wired magazine found these were the 7 most attractive active hobbies for guys:

1. Surfing
2. Yoga
3. Skiing
4. Golf
5. Biking
6. Hiking
7. Running

If you’re a vegetarian or a vegan, mention it – on Elite Singles, you'll get up to 73% more messages than the average user. No reason to think it wouldn't work the same way on any other dating app…

And, as it turns out, nice guys are back in fashion. Using these “power” words in your online dating profile get you more messages:

Remember, the shorter your dating profile is, the more impact each word has. You need to make yourself sound like an intriguing person, not like every other guy out there:

Most dating app profiles display your first name. Don’t waste valuable real estate repeating it in your bio.

300 Character Or Less Online Dating Profile Examples

On CoffeeMeetsBagel, your profile is a little longer – but 276 characters max still isn’t much real estate.

Make every word count with a profile like…

Short Dating Profile Example #5:

This bio hits a lot of high notes in a small amount of space, which makes it perfect for an app like Bumble.

Short Dating Profile Example #6:

And you could use a profile like this for the “Self Summary” section of sites like OkCupid or Elite Singles…

Short Dating Profile Example #7:

You can also get creative in your dating app profile, as long as you make sure the humor lands.

Short Dating Profile Example #8:

Here's another funny short bio you can use for inspiration.

Short Dating Profile Example #9:

When you’re choosing a profile style, keep these 3 factors in mind:

1. Your age
2. The age of your “ideal partner”
3. What type of relationship you’re seeking

A woman in her 20s who’s looking for a more casual relationship will likely respond better to the type of humor in the last profile example than a woman in her late 30s looking for something serious would.

On the other hand, if you’re a 35+ guy looking for a serious relationship, choose a profile like the second example.

The more down-to-earth approach will attract women who are looking for an established, successful man.

If you want to use one of these examples for a section of a longer online dating profile on a site like OkCupid, simply move the call-to-action to the end of your profile.

That’s the line at the very end that tells her what to do next, i.e. message you or swipe right.

Short Dating Profile Example #10:

Asking a question, like in the examples above, is also a good CTA.

It takes all the pressure off her to decide what to say in her first message to you  – all she needs to do is simply answer the question, and you can take it from there.

Try it on an app like Bumble, where a man can't initiate the conversation with a woman.

500 Character Or Less Dating Profile Examples

This character limit is perfect for apps like Tinder, or on sites like Match.com or PlentyOfFish if you want to keep your profile short and sweet.

The same rules apply as in the other good dating profile examples for guys you've seen.

Highlight a couple of your most compelling traits…

Short Dating Profile Example #11:

Keep the tone casual, engaging and positive…

Short Dating Profile Example #12:

And use humor in an attractive way.

Short Dating Profile Example #13:

Why Short Dating Profiles Are Successful (When Done Right)

The longer your dating profile is, the more chances you have to inadvertently turn her off.

Here are 5 common profile mistakes guys make that *really* stand out in short dating profiles:

#1: Writing A Boring List

Whether it’s a list of adjectives to describe yourself or your top 5 hobbies, reading a bunch of words separated by commas just isn’t very compelling.

#2: Using Bad Grammar/Spelling/Etc

Misspelled words and poor (or no) punctuation stand out like a sore thumb in short dating profiles.

You may think ignoring your phone’s spell check is no big deal, but it’s a turn off for her. A whopping 88% of women judge a potential date by their grammar, and putting effort into your dating profile shows you’re serious about meeting someone.

#3: Being Too Honest

While there are a few select spots where it’s okay to fudge a bit in your dating profile, honesty is generally the best policy.

But *too much* of it is a bad thing.

Anything that hints at past drama or throws up an immediate red flag should not be included in your profile. “Heavy” topics are best addressed in person, when you’ve already gotten to know each other a bit.

Knowing what you should – and shouldn't – include can be tricky, which is why many guys hire a profile writing service.

#4: Focusing On The Negative

Whether you're expounding on what you don't like, don't want, don't appreciate in a date, or hate about the dating app, what you probably are doing is turning her off.

Negativity, particularly coming from someone you don't know anything about yet, is not very attractive and has no place in your profile.

#5: Making Her Think You're A “Project” 

Competition is already fierce, and most girls aren't consciously looking for a guy who needs a little fixing up or encouragement.

Even if you do need someone to draw you out of your shell or help you find love again, stick with mentioning positive attributes in your profile.

Get Ready For More Matches and Messages

These 13 short dating site bio examples really work – you’ll be getting more matches and messages in no time.

But what if you could get even better results, without spending endless amounts of time swiping or struggling to write the perfect message?

After all, having an irresistible profile is just the beginning.

There’s a lot of competition for the highest quality women, no matter what site or app you’re on. That means it's not just about your bio – you need to bring your A game to every aspect of online dating, from your photos to your profile to your messages.

Sound like work?

Yup. Online dating is time consuming, there’s no way around it. For the average man, it’s practically the equivalent of a part-time job.

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In this article we take a look at the 16 Funny Female Dating Profile Examples. Click to skip ahead and jump to the 5 Funny Female Dating Profile Examples

Our list of funny female dating profile examples has such witty (and sometimes, hilarious) bios that you’ll be having a tough time deciding which one to pick for your headliner. Similar to what we did in 16 funny Bumble bios for females, we’ll give you hints and suggestions on how to adjust them to suit your personality perfectly.

What is a good headline for a dating profile? Well, it’s usually brief, and what better way to get someone’s attention by making them smile. Some of our suggestions are only a line long, yet they’re completely on point.

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The whole scenario makes it even more important for your profile bios to be as eye-catching as possible! The best dating profile text can work in several ways. First of all, it can be funny and intriguing, inspiring the person to text you and see what it’s all about. Next, your bio can be eye-catching because you’re mentioning food and drinks, and let’s be honest, these are two very positive associations that every best Tinder bio for girl should have in order to get you loads of swipes or clicks.

Another way to attract someone similar to you is to write the good old About Me/About You bio. You’ll find some nice examples right here on these pages. Finally, we’ve added some one-liners that may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but after all, neither are you, so don’t be afraid to risk it. You’re looking for a match, not just stacking funny Tinder profiles for your own amusement.

In order to provide you with nothing but the best, we roamed through dating profile examples by female app lovers at Pinterest, Demilked, Zoosk , SwipeLIfe, and had to go back to Pinterest one more time, because they had such great girl dating bios.

What was our strategy for choosing the best ones? Well, we immediately excluded all those that required demands that are too hard to meet. For instance, try to recall those humorous girl bios in which it states that she loves going on paragliding adventures, but you've really got vertigo! Or, how about that Tinder bio for a girl in which she states she can bring you back to life because she’s a respiratory technician at the hospital? That’s all nice and neat, but you can’t take up any courses at the moment. You’re just trying to date, for heaven’s sake, not build up your CV.

Therefore, we tried to make the bios as much as adaptable as possible. Admittedly, the list is left random. When it comes to laughter, it’s just hard to say which of these woman dating bios is the funniest. But what we can vouch for with certainty is that each of them fills up your mailbox.

So, without further ado, check out what we’ve compiled as some of the best funny female dating profile examples, and get ready for tons of dates!

16. “On our first date, I’ll carve our names in a tree. It’s the most romantic way to let you know I have knives.”

This will probably genuinely appeal to a man (or woman) who’s into hunting and firearms. On the other hand, you needn’t be a cold arms aficionado. You’ll still have a full DM because people will wish to know if you are really that dangerous. An intriguing bio, to say the least.

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15. “About Me: I like to sing-talk, guys with messy hair, reading the New Yorker on Sunday mornings, and funny voices.

About You: If you’re still reading this, that’s pretty good. Let’s do this.”

Could you make it any clearer? Guys like having it spelled out for them, and this is one of the most straightforward funny female dating profile examples. Another great thing — you have a call to action right there (“Let’s do this.”).

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14. “I enjoy long walks on the beach with my boyfriend, until the acid wears off and I realize I’ve been dragging a naked mannequin around a Danny’s parking lot for 12 hours”

To some, it may seem mildly disturbing. Yet, you will definitely weed out all those guys that don’t share the same sense of humor like you with this one. You’re bound to find someone just like you.

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13. “All you need to lure me into your car is wine and pizza.”

Or beer and pizza. Chances are, you’ve just mentioned two of his favorite things, and maybe even hinted at the third one (sexual activity). Also, this is as brief a bio as it gets, which sends the message you know what you want.

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12. “About Me: Likes poop jokes, can stay out late on a school night, and isn’t afraid to talk politics on a first date.

About You: tolerates my poop jokes, doesn’t take himself too seriously, and likes a healthy debate.”

About me — About you is a good old dating bio that never goes out of fashion. You can alter it to fit your personality, and with a bit of luck (though by reading these 16 funny female dating profile examples, you know there’s a lot to research, not just sheer luck), you’ll attract the person of your dreams!

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11. “Gryffindor, social media consultant, big sister, comedian.

(Okay, that last one isn’t true)”

Of course, it is true, but that’s exactly how you show off you’re the witty one on the dating app. You can alter these in the way that you wish, and you needn’t even like Harry Potter at all, but pick something else instead.

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10. “The girl doesn’t stop” — My best friend Erin.

“Excellent incisors. And she flosses.” — Dr.Dar, my dentist

“She’s not as crazy as she looks.” — My ex-boyfriend.

You may wish to leave the ex out of the picture, but otherwise, such funny female dating profile examples work like a charm.

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9. “Passionate goblin with 10+ years of experience, seeking to increase profitability for the National Goblin Association. At Goblin headquarters, slashed costs by 32% in 6 months by implementing Bloodletting training across all departments. Cut stockroom waste by 65% with new garbage binging techniques. Skilled in bone cleaning, whispering while in the dark, and proficient in Microsoft office.”

It’s a lengthy one. Do you really need to be a goblin for this one? Of course not. Just invent whatever character you wish and get ready for some online role-playing.

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.8. “I’m pretty sure there’s a lot more to life than being really, really, ridiculously good looking. And I plan on finding out what that is.”

Ain’t no shame in being a sight for sore eyes, and who says sexy doesn’t go with charming or witty? This is a good conversation starter as well. What is life all about…?

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7. “I’m the kinda girl you can take home to your family. I will then get closer to them than you are and we’ll slowly phase you out.”

In a nutshell, you’re a real cutie, but maybe even a bit dangerous. Sweet and spicy, you’ll get all the swiping right a good girl could wish for.

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6. “I was in New Orleans when the Eagles won the Super Bowl. Long story short, my nipple may or may not have been pierced.”

It’s a real mystery. Truth be told, this could be used by a guy as well. The person reading will immediately be thinking of your nipples, naturally, and have a great desire to see them, so expect such requests as soon as you post this one. A bit of sexiness in funny female dating profile examples.

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We spoke to the experts to get their top tips on making your dating profile the right level of eye-catching

Creating an online dating profile can be daunting. After all, it’s not always easy to big yourself up without sounding conceited or, even worse, desperate.

But did you know: one in three couples now find love online? Yes, really.

In this fast-paced, social media-dependent world, the Internet is used for everything – even more so now thanks to Covid-19. From keeping in touch with old school friends, to career networking, to ordering takeaways, to finding a cat-sitter for that weekend away…. you know, all sorts. So it only seems logical you would use the good old Internet for finding that special someone, too.

Whether you’re keen to try online dating sites or are more of an app kind of person (hello, Hinge), let our expert-advice steer you clear of making any dating app turn offs.

With the help of Charly Lester, co-founder of Lumen dating app, you’ll be able to perfect your profile game in no time (and ditch these seriously infuriating dating trends once and for all).

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How to write a dating profile

1. Ask your friends for help

Get a friend to help you write your profile. Sometimes they know you better than you know yourself.

2. Avoid clichés

Even if you do like ‘walking on the beach’ or ‘drinking wine in front of a roaring fire’, leave it out – everyone says that. Think of something interesting that could be a conversation starter.

3. Look at other profiles

‘If you struggle for inspiration, why not look at a selection of profiles to see what other people are saying?’ suggests Lester. ‘Reading a variety might give you ideas for things to include in your own one.’

4. Choose action shots

Wouldn’t you know, apparently profile photos that demonstrate you playing your guitar or downhill skiing – even if your face isn’t showing – get more messages.

5. Stay positive

Avoid negative tones and always be positive about yourself. Your profile is essentially your dating CV. You wouldn’t want a future employer to read anything negative, so why would you want a potential partner to read anything that isn’t positive?

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6. Be honest

Lying doesn’t get you anywhere in the dating world. Think about how hurt you’d be if someone you were dating lied to you. Honesty is the best policy.

7. Be specific

Use specific examples when you’re talking to make sure you give a full flavour of who you are. If you love travelling, say where your favourite place is and why. Anything concrete like this brings you alive to anyone reading.

8. Update regularly

Keep your profile up to date. Make the effort to renew your profile on a regular basis with relevant information about yourself.

9. Check your grammar

Many people find poor grammar and spelling a turn off, and the best of us can make mistakes, so be careful on this point. If you’re not a naturally good speller, let AutoCorrect do the hard work for you.

10. Say cheese

A poll found that 96% of people prefer seeing a big, happy smile in a profile photo than a sexy pout. Interesting…

11. Choose recent photos

If they are more than a year old, don’t use them. One of the most frequent complaints about online dating profiles is ‘they may have looked like that once but they certainly don’t look like that now’. Looking better in the flesh is better than the reverse.

12. Show them the real you

‘It’s been proven that the more photos you have on your profile, the more attention it will get,’ says Lester. ‘So make the most of that. Include at least a couple of clear head shots, where you’re not wearing sunglasses and you can clearly see your face. I always include at least one full length photo too, so there are no surprises when we meet up in real life.’

13. Have fun

Most people want to find someone who can make them laugh, so show people you have a sense of humour. If you can make someone laugh, it’s a great icebreaker and could get your conversation off to a great start.

14. Be the focus

Don’t choose a picture where you are not the main focal point.

15. Think outside of the box

‘If a dating profile asks what you’re looking for, don’t give too much detail. Tell them about the type of relationship you’re looking for, and if you have set deal-breakers like ‘must like dogs’. But when it comes to things like height, weight, income, hair colour etc – there is no point listing these things,’ explains Lester.

‘Firstly, it can make you look too unapproachable, even to someone who ticks all the right boxes. And secondly, you’ll be surprised how often people fall for someone who doesn’t tick any of their original boxes.’

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How to spot a good date

1. No negativity

If someone mentions anything cynical about relationships or comments about their ‘annoying’ ex, move along. Say their partner cheated – sure, knowing how to cope with being cheated on can be hard, you don’t need the baggage attached that comes with dating someone who’s still angry or grieving.

2. No arrogance

Avoid Mr ‘It’s All About Me’. It’s good to love yourself but there is a line that should not be crossed.

3. Check their photos

Are they in a bar or nightclub in every shot? If so, don’t contact them if you’re someone who likes to be in bed by 9pm. Late night dates a bit of you? You might want to head to one of London’s best rooftop bars together.

4. No waffling

A long and very detailed profile could be an indication of what’s in store when you meet them in person. Nobody likes a waffler.

5. Kindness is key

Look for people with a good character. A profile that mentions family and friends, volunteering, and enjoying spending time with kids is a good sign.

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Now you know how to make your dating profile stand out amongst the crowd, why not check out our round-up of the best online dating sites to sign up to?

Looking for something a little less serious? These are the best apps for no strings sex – hello, Tinder – and our guides to the best sex toys and vibrators for solo fun, while you’re at it.

Whatever you choose, just follow the advice above and chances are you’ll find what you’re looking for. Happy online dating!

Dating after 50 is not much different from dating in your twenties except that the pool of candidates is more limited.

That’s why many women choose to use online dating to improve their chances of meeting their ideal man.

If you’ve never tried online dating before, you might feel a little overwhelmed but with time you will get used to it and will even start to enjoy it.

One of the first things that you will need to do after joining a dating website is to create your profile.

It doesn’t matter how attractive you are or how much money you make, if your profile doesn’t spark the interest of potential partners you will not be very successful and will only attract the wrong type of men.

Your profile needs to have enough information about you to get guys’ attention but not so much that you end up boring them.

You need to show single men that you are an awesome mature woman with a good sense of humor who enjoys her life and wants to meet an interesting guy.

You don’t have to write a novel, a paragraph or two is more than enough. It’s always a good idea to keep your dating profile short and simple.

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Dating Profile Examples For Women Over 50

Example #1:

I am an easy-going, open-minded woman who loves long walks on the beach, romantic dinners, and watching sunsets.

I am caring, artistic, and love kids. I have a good sense of humor and I genuinely love to laugh.

Example #2:

I am a busy lady, but I still manage to attend all the major fashion shows.

I am really into running, swimming, and yoga. When I have free time I love to travel, experience new things, and cook.

I am very family-oriented and want to meet a mature gentleman with similar hobbies and interests.

Example #3:

I like to be active and spend my free time outdoors.

I’m not a foodie but I like to cook a fancy meal every once in a while.

I’m looking for a man who is smart, kind, and honest. I’m interested in something more serious than just a fling.

I’m want to meet someone who I can count on, someone I can trust, and who will never let me down.

If you are interested, send me a message.

Example #4:

I’m a very kind and open-minded person. I like to spend time with friends and meet new people.

I like traveling and try to do it whenever I have free time.

I also enjoy cooking, yoga, and meditation.

If you want to know more, just let me know.

Example #5:

I’m an independent woman who enjoys traveling and experiencing new things.

In my free time, I love to cook and paint. I also love animals and have a dog and a cat.

I’m looking for a man who will be a good friend and a lover.

If you’re interested, message me.

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Example #6:

I’m a single mom with a great sense of humor. I have a degree in psychology and work as a therapist.

I’m into music, art, and travel. I enjoy peace and quiet at home, long walks outdoors, and picnics in the park.

I want to meet a man who is not afraid of commitment when the chemistry is right.

If you are looking for someone like that, write me back.

Example #7:

I’m an easy-going person. I love to laugh and I’m a romantic at heart.

I love to be around people and try to always see the good in them.

I love going for long walks, going to the beach, hiking, or just staying home cuddled up on the couch with a good book.

I’m looking for a man who can appreciate the little things in life and who will love me for who I am.

Example #8:

I want to meet an interesting and kind man who can appreciate the beauty in simple things.

I’m looking for someone who will be my best friend, my lover, and my life partner.

If you think you might be the one, send me a message.

Example #9:

Hello everyone! I am an easy-going woman who enjoys traveling and meeting new people.

I am looking for a guy who is kind and open-minded. I want to meet someone who has a good sense of humor and strong family values.

Example #10:

I’m a strong independent woman who is addicted to traveling and learning about different cultures. I love to cook and spend time with my friends.

I have done my MBA and also have a degree in fashion design and that’s what I currently do for a living.

I am looking for a guy who is charming, passionate, and has a positive attitude towards life.

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Example #11:

I am a fun-loving woman, who enjoys having conversations with people from different backgrounds.

I have a passion for singing and dancing and I love going to the movies.

I believe in honesty and loyalty and want to meet a man who will give me support and love.

Example #12:

Hi everyone, I am a mature and athletic woman who likes to meet new people and learn about their culture and values.

I am very open-minded and enjoy spending time outdoors exploring new trails in the mountains.

I am looking for a man who is caring, active, and enjoys trying new things.

Example #13:

Hey there! I am a passionate and self-driven woman who always aims for the best.

I am very ambitious and I believe in love and marriage.

I am looking for a guy who is ready to accept me and can be my friend through thick and thin.

Example #14:

I am a firm believer in astrology and horoscopes. I am an independent woman with a positive attitude towards life.

I am always on the quest for learning something new and experiencing new things.

I want to meet a guy who is intelligent, loving, and open-minded.

Example #15:

I am a friendly woman with a warm heart.

I have a long-standing passion for art and literature.

I am a good conversationalist and I enjoy the company of a guy with a great sense of humor.

I am looking for a man who has ambitions and a passion for life. Someone who is open-minded and is not afraid to try new things.

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Our list of funny female dating profile examples has such witty (and sometimes, hilarious) bios that you’ll be having a tough time deciding which one to pick for your headliner. Similar to what we did in womens dating site profiles funny Bumble bios for females, we’ll give you hints and suggestions on how to adjust them to suit your personality perfectly.

What is a good headline for a dating profile? Well, it’s usually brief, and what better way to get someone’s attention by making them smile. Some of our suggestions are only a line long, yet they’re completely on point.

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The whole dating app profile men makes it even more important for your profile bios to be as eye-catching as possible! The best dating profile text can work in several ways. First of all, it can be funny and intriguing, inspiring the person to text you and see what it’s all about. Next, your bio can be eye-catching because you’re mentioning food and drinks, and let’s be honest, these are two very positive associations that every best Tinder bio for girl should have in order to get you loads of swipes or clicks.

Another way to attract someone similar to you is to write the good old About Me/About You bio. You’ll find some nice examples right here on these pages. Finally, we’ve added some one-liners that may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but after all, neither are you, so don’t be afraid to risk it. You’re looking for a match, not just stacking funny Tinder profiles for your own amusement.

In order to provide you with nothing but the best, we roamed through dating profile examples by female app lovers at Pinterest, Demilked, ZooskSwipeLIfe, and had to go back to Pinterest one more time, because they had such great girl dating bios.

What was our strategy for choosing the best ones? Well, we immediately excluded all those that required demands that are too hard to meet, womens dating site profiles. For instance, try to recall those humorous girl bios in which it states that she loves going on paragliding adventures, but you've really got vertigo! Or, how about that Tinder bio for a girl in which she states she can bring you back to life because she’s a respiratory technician at the hospital? That’s all nice and neat, but you can’t take up any courses at the moment. You’re just trying to date, for heaven’s womens dating site profiles, not build up your CV.

Therefore, we tried to make the bios as much as adaptable as possible. Admittedly, the list is left womens dating site profiles. When it comes to laughter, it’s just hard to say which of these woman dating bios is the funniest. But what we can vouch for with certainty is that each of them fills up your mailbox.

So, womens dating site profiles, without further ado, check out what we’ve compiled as some of the best funny female dating profile examples, and get ready for tons of dates!

16. “On our first date, I’ll carve our names in a tree. It’s the most romantic way to let you know I have knives.”

This will probably genuinely appeal to a man (or woman) who’s into hunting and firearms. On the other hand, womens dating site profiles needn’t be a cold arms aficionado. You’ll still have a full DM because people will wish to know if you are really that dangerous. An intriguing bio, to say the least.

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15. “About Me: I like to sing-talk, guys with messy hair, reading the New Yorker on Sunday mornings, and funny voices.

About You: If you’re still reading this, that’s pretty good. Let’s do this.”

Could you make it any clearer? Womens dating site profiles like having it spelled out for them, and this is one of the most straightforward funny female dating profile examples. Another great thing — you have a call to action right there (“Let’s do this.”).

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14. “I enjoy long walks on the beach with my boyfriend, until the acid wears off and I realize I’ve been dragging a naked mannequin around a Danny’s parking lot for 12 hours”

To some, it may seem mildly disturbing. Yet, you will definitely weed out all those guys that don’t share the same sense of humor like you with this one. You’re bound to find someone just like you.

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13. “All you need to lure me into your car is wine and pizza.”

Or beer and pizza. Chances are, you’ve just mentioned two of his favorite things, and maybe even hinted at the third one (sexual activity). Also, this is as brief a bio as it gets, which sends the message you know what you want.

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12, womens dating site profiles. “About Me: Likes poop strange dating sites, can stay out late on a school night, and isn’t afraid to talk politics on a first date.

About You: tolerates my poop jokes, doesn’t take himself too seriously, and likes a healthy debate.”

About me — About you is a good old dating bio that never goes out of fashion. You can alter it to fit your personality, and with a bit of luck (though by reading these 16 funny female dating profile examples, womens dating site profiles, you know there’s a lot to research, not just sheer luck), you’ll attract the person of your dreams!

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11. “Gryffindor, social media consultant, big sister, comedian.

(Okay, that last one isn’t true)”

Of course, it is true, but that’s exactly how you show off you’re the witty one on the dating app. You can alter these in the way that you wish, and you needn’t even like Harry Potter at all, but pick something else instead.

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10. “The girl doesn’t stop” — My best friend Erin.

“Excellent incisors. And she flosses.” — Dr.Dar, my dentist

“She’s not as crazy as she looks.” — My ex-boyfriend.

You may wish to leave the ex out of the picture, but otherwise, such funny female dating profile examples work like a charm.

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9. “Passionate goblin with 10+ years of experience, seeking to increase profitability for the National Goblin Association. At Goblin headquarters, slashed costs by 32% in 6 months by implementing Bloodletting training across all departments. Cut stockroom waste by 65% with new garbage binging techniques. Skilled in bone cleaning, whispering while in the dark, and proficient in Microsoft office.”

It’s a lengthy one. Do you really need to be a goblin for this one? Of course not. Just invent whatever character you wish and get ready for some online role-playing.

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.8. “I’m pretty sure there’s a lot more to life than being really, womens dating site profiles, really, ridiculously good looking. And I plan on finding out what that is.”

Ain’t no shame in being a sight for sore eyes, and who says sexy doesn’t go with charming or witty? This is a good conversation starter as well. What is life all about…?

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7. best milf dating site the kinda girl you can take home to your family. I will then get closer to them than you are and we’ll slowly phase you out.”

In a nutshell, you’re a real cutie, womens dating site profiles, but maybe even a bit dangerous. Sweet and spicy, you’ll get all the swiping right a good girl free dating no upgrades wish for.

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6. “I was in New Orleans when the Eagles won the Super Bowl. Long story short, my nipple may or may not have been pierced.”

It’s a real mystery. Truth be told, this could be used by a guy as well. The person reading will immediately be thinking of your nipples, naturally, and have a great desire to see them, so expect such requests as soon as you post this one. A bit of sexiness in funny female dating profile examples.

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By: Jason Lee

Your online dating profile is the key to whether or not you’re going to have success finding what you’re looking for. No matter if you’re looking for love, marriage, casual dating, or just friendship—a great online dating profile decides your level of success.

One of the best ways to craft a witty online dating profile that truly showcases who you are is by seeing successful examples. In this guide, we’re going to load you up with plenty of the best dating profile examples out there for every section of your profile, including the Headline, About Me, What You’re Looking For, and more!

Before we jump into the examples, here are a few other resources and FAQs that will help when you’re writing your dating profile.

The Guide to Writing the Perfect Online Dating Profile

This guide is actually the second part of a complete guide to writing the perfect online dating profile. In that guide, we break down literally everything you could ever want to know about crafting the perfect dating profile.

What we highly recommend you do is click the link above to the first guide and start there. Don’t worry, it opens in a new tab, so you’ll have this open as well. As you work through that guide, these examples can help you understand exactly how to write an amazing and witty dating profile! Oh, and that guide is completely free too!

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Are These Good Online Dating Profile Examples to Copy?

This is always a popular and interesting question. Yes, womens dating site profiles, these are great online dating profile examples. Should you copy them word for word? Probably not. A great online dating profile is one that showcases you and what uniquely makes you—you. If you just cut and paste, you won’t achieve that goal.

That being said, you can certainly use these to copy and make some tweaks to make it unique to you! It’s totally fine if your profile looks fairly similar to these dating profile examples. Not everyone is a writer, which shouldn’t hold you back from finding love.

Can I Use the Same Info on Different Online Dating Apps?

Yes! There’s no rule that you have to use different information on different dating apps. At the end of the day, you’re the same you on every site! The only caveat to this is that you may want to make some slight adjustments if an online dating app is targeting something different. Other than that, though, you can 100% use the exact, word-for-word dating profile on multiple dating apps.

This brings up a second womens dating site profiles on whether or not you should be using multiple online dating apps to find what you’re looking for. Absolutely! The more lines you can get in the water, the better your chances of finding exactly what you’re looking for. Here are a few of our favorite online dating apps that you can use to expand your search for that special someone.

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Dating Profile Headline Examples

Again, if you want to find the easiest way to write a perfect dating profile headline, check out our complete guide on how to write an online dating profile (it’s free), where we have a formula for knocking the headline out of the park!

The only goal of your dating profile headline is to get enough interest for the man or woman to click on your profile to read more. A lot of people tend to overthink it. If it gets the clicks to your profile (from the right people), it’s a winner.

Here are some great online dating facebook dating app download headline examples.

1. Music Lover Looking to Write the Next Verse
2. Me + You +… JK, You Don’t Have to Do Any Math to Send Me a Message!
3. Gamer Chick Hitting Restart and Looking for a High Score in Co-Op Mode
4. Country Girl Who Loves to Get Down on the Farm
5. Fitness Lover Looking to Find My Swole Mate
6. Tired of Online Dating? Let’s Be Each Other’s Reason for Signing Off
7. World Traveler Looking for a Lady Who Likes to Explore
8. Math Nerd Looking for Someone to Add to My Life and Multiply the Fun
9. Life is Great, But Womens dating site profiles It Can Be Better With You?
10. Hopeless Romantic? Nope. HOPEFUL Romantic Positively Searching for My Match!
11. We’ll Never Know If We’re a Great Match Unless You Click that Message Me Button
12. Fun and Adventurous Guy: Take a Chance and Send Me a Message!
13. Art-Loving Asian milf dating Let’s Paint a Picture of Life Together
14. Book Worm Looking to Write the Next Chapter
15. Movie Lover Looking for My Co-Star for a Real Life Romantic Comedy
16. Man Who Loves the Outdoors and Hiking: Let’s Build a Path Together
17. Fun and Quirky Lady Great free dating apps Can Definitely Promise You Laughs
18. Proud Dog Mom Looking for a Partner In Crime
19. Casting Call for Movie Buffs! Send Me Your Favorite Movie Quote
20. You Can’t Spell ‘Online Dating’ Without a Bunch of Different Letters
21. Quirky Women Looking for the Mashed to My Potatoes
22. Accomplished Man Who’s More Fun Than a 200 Foot Water Slide

Where can you use these dating site headlines? Anywhere. They’re great for any app, as long as you have the room to fit them in. You can use them as POF headlines, Match.com headlines, or with any of the best dating apps out there.

Dating Profile About Me Examples

Your dating profile about me section should do 100% free dating sites for singles things:

1. Introduce yourself
2. Tell a little bit about what you do and like to do
3. Briefly talk about what you’re looking for

You pos dating site have to give every single detail of your life or give a massive checklist for what you need. As you’ll see in these dating profile about me examples, they’re simple, short, womens dating site profiles, sweet, and straight to the point. The idea is just to arouse enough interest for someone to send you a message or a flirt to start the conversation where you can get to know each other better.

Here are some great About Me dating profile examples.

Example 1

Hi! My name is Mark, and I am brand new to online dating. While I’m still figuring this all out, here’s something I know for sure—I’m excited to be here! The chance to meet unique, engaging, and interesting women is pretty dang neat. If you think you might fit that mold, drop me a message.

I work in the finance industry. And while I like to work hard, I make sure to leave time to enjoy life. I’m a fan of wine, movies, hiking, and getting out of town for the weekend. Let’s chat and see if maybe we’re a good fit!

Example 2

Isn’t online dating a blast? Okay, maybe it can be challenging at times, but it’s still exciting that you have the chance to meet someone special who you might have never met elsewhere.

My name’s Sarah! I’m a proud dog mom, an avid gym-goer, and, if you ask my friends, a bit quirky at times. I’m looking for a man who compliments woman dating in fresno ca life and is ready to enjoy all that this world has to bring to the table. If you think we might be a good match, send me a message.

Example 3

My name is Beth and if I had to pick three words to describe me they would be positive, a little shy, and someone who loves to laugh. Okay, that was a few more than three words, but it’s fun womens dating site profiles break the rules from time to time, right?

I’m new to online dating, but I know what I’m looking for in a man. My Christian faith is important to me, so I want to find a man who feels the same way. Additionally, I’m really into movies, so a guy who likes to cuddle up on the couch instead of going out on a Friday night is the right match for me.

If you think maybe we could be right for each other, send me a message! I’m kind of shy, but if you reach out, I come out of my shell.

Example 4

Hi, I’m Ted! Thanks for stopping by my online dating profile. I’m not the best at describing myself, so I reached out to a few friends and asked them to tell me what I’m like so I could share that with you. Here’s what they had to say.

• Ted is driven, goal-oriented, and goes after what he wants in life.
• Ted is a real catch. He’s caring, womens dating site profiles, dependable, and someone who could really be your rock.

If you want to see if my friends are right or they’re just telling me what I want to hear (kidding), we should chat! Send me a message and let’s start the conversation.

Do these about me examples work for short bio examples too?

Yes! Even if the section isn’t explicitly called “About Me,” these descriptions of who who are work as a fantastic dating profile template. As long as the section is a spot for you to talk about who you are and what you’re looking for, these short dating profile examples will work well.

Things NOT to Put In Your Online Dating Profile: Bad Examples

Writing the best online dating profile is as much about what you put in your profile as it is about what you choose to leave out. Here are a few things you should never include in your online womens dating site profiles profile. Some of these things should be omitted for safety reasons, some because they aren’t helpful, and some because they’re so overdone.

• Never include personally identifiable information. You can share contact information or specific information about things like where you work or where you live after you start a conversation and get to know someone. But you don’t want those things shared with everyone on an online dating site.
• Don’t talk about how you hate talking about yourself. EVERYONE and their mother mention how awkward online dating is and how much they womens dating site profiles talking about themselves in their profile. If it weren’t so overused, it would be something nice to add to your profile. But for the sake of success, leave it out. The only instance where you might be able to hint at it is if you do something like we showed in About Me Example 4 where you get quotes from friends.
• Don’t talk about your exes. Here’s an example of a terrible online dating profile. All this does is signal to good men or women that you may have past issues you haven’t worked through yet.
  • Hi, I’m Shelly and I am looking for a real man. My ex was a piece of garbage and didn’t know how to treat me right. He ssbbw women for dating to say mean things to me and never respected me. If you are different than that, hit me up, womens dating site profiles, but not if you’re a piece of garbage like he was.

The Goal of Your Dating Profile Sections

As you can womens dating site profiles in these dating profile examples, everything is fairly short and simple, womens dating site profiles. Here’s why. The goal is not to tell someone everything about you or everything you’re looking for. The goal is to get to the conversation part of the process where you can start to get to know each other.

1. The goal of the why you shouldnt use dating apps reddit profile headline is to get them to click on your profile to read your About Me section.
2. Once you get them to your About Me section, the only goal is to get them interested and informed enough to send you a message.
3. From there, it’s just a conversation to start to see if they’re someone you might be interested in getting to know more 🙂

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Jason Lee is a data analyst with a passion for studying online dating, relationships, personal growth, healthcare, and finance. In 2008, Jason earned a Bachelors of Science from the University of Florida, where he studied business and finance and taught interpersonal communication, womens dating site profiles.

His work has been featured in the likes of The USA Today, MSN, The Motley Fool, Net Health, and The Simple Dollar. As a business owner, relationship strategist, dating coach, and womens dating site profiles in the U.S. military, Jason enjoys sharing his unique knowledge base with the rest of the world.

Ladies, stumped as to womens dating site profiles makes a great dating profile? Well, here are some amazing dating profile examples for women that will take your online dating to the next level. I’ve taken years of experience to distill it down to just what you need to succeed.

With so much competition for the attention of your potential dates and partners, it can feel impossible to truly stand out from free to talk dating sites. If you are trying to work out how to build a dating profile that gets results, this list of dating profile examples for women can arm you with the knowledge and inspiration needed to land the man you want!

Table of Contents

The basics of a great online dating profile

1. What to avoid
2. What usually works

How to womens dating site profiles the best dating profile photos

1. Use more than one photo
2. Make it clear who you are
3. Use recent photos
4. Give a sense of who you are as a person

How to write a dating profile bio

Dating profile examples

1. Good dating profiles
2. Bad dating profiles

Which dating site or app should you use?

The Basics of a Great Online Dating Profile

So, what are the first things you need to know when coming up with a dating profile? It can be useful to start out with the things that you should definitely rule out. Online dating etiquette can be complicated, especially if you are unfamiliar with it.

What to avoid

Some of the biggest dating profile turn-offs that men report are based on photos. Photos that are low-resolution or covered in Instagram filters are usually a no-no (trust us, as cute as the dog ears or princess tiara filter are, no guy will be impressed by them). Including only face shots or only body, shots is also usually a misstep, as it makes guys wonder what you are hiding. I’ll delve into choosing the womens dating site profiles possible photos a little further on, but avoiding these mistakes is the first step.

Not every common turn-off is visual. There are many things in dating profile bios that make most guys groan and skip past you quickly. Anything that makes you seem unpleasant womens dating site profiles difficult to spend time with is certainly best left out. One example is listing requirements that a man must meet (while we all have requirements, listing them before anything else on your bio can make you look picky or shallow). Complaining about previous dates or partners or blatantly bragging about things such as money or achievements are also turn-offs for most.

What usually works

What each individual guy wants in a fb dating app not working can vary widely. However, some basic guidelines apply to most men. For example, not many men are attracted to women who seem uptight, controlling, or demanding (and let’s be honest; you probably gay dating app want a man like that either). Most would prefer a laid-back, how to talk on dating apps partner. Showing that you have a womens dating site profiles of humor and like to enjoy life is usually the best angle for your dating profile.

In terms of physical appearance, tastes can vary. While we can’t change many aspects of our appearance, the way that we present ourselves can make or break someone’s attraction to us. Smiling is usually best when it comes to photos—not many people can genuinely pull off the “moody and mysterious” look womens dating site profiles online dating. Aside from this, looking clean and wearing clothes that suit you are pretty universally appreciated factors. When a guy is looking online for the perfect girlfriend, he is almost certain to choose the laid-back, fun-loving girl with style over the girl who seems confrontational, negative, and does not look after herself.

How to Choose the Best Dating Profile Photos

Now that you have the basics of what to choose and what to avoid when it comes to your photos, it’s time for a little more detail. Here are some tips for selecting the best pictures for your dating profile.

Use more than one photo

Look, it’s no surprise that your online dating profile photo is the key to getting people to stop, notice and engage with you. If you’re still thinking that any old selfies will do then you really need to step up your game and dating a dumb girl twice about the first impression you’re making to people on the dating site.

Your online dating profile photo is the key to getting people to stop, notice and engage with you

Once you figure out what the best primary online dating photos are, then you can fill out your profile with additional photos that showcase your style. Don’t forget to include at least one “Full body” shot because potential dates are going to expect it, womens dating site profiles, or worse ask for it anyway. Don’t waste your time and others if you don’t add additional photos. Besides, people often look very different in different photos. Adding a few different images (ideally between three and seven) of you gives people a chance to see more clearly what you look like in general. This also means that you womens dating site profiles include both face shots and full-body shots.

Make it clear who you are

Another reason to use more than one photo is that this gives you the option to use group photos, as long as you also include photos of just womens dating site profiles. Whatever you do, do not include only group photos, as people won’t be able to tell which one is you. Another thing to avoid at all costs is using photos of other people to fool people. This is called “catfishing” and is not only deceptive but also has little benefit—after all, you’re trying to find someone who likes the real discord lgbt dating recent photos

A surprisingly common mistake when it comes to choosing the best photos is using out-of-date images. Trust me—no guy is going to be interested in how you looked a couple of years ago or more, even if you want to show off your own glow-up. There is no specific time limit on how recent a photo should be, but it should ideally show how you look now.

There is nothing wrong with a year-old photo if you haven’t changed much at all. However, if you have recently gone through a significant change in appearance (a complete change of fashion sense, a bold new womens dating site profiles, or a significant change in weight or muscle tone), you should represent yourself as you are now. If in doubt, think, “would my date recognize me when we meet up for a first date?”

Give a sense of who you are as a person

As well as showing who you are visual, photos that give a sense of what your life is like and what makes you tick are a great way of attracting the people who are right for you. If you enjoy a pursuit such as sports, dancing, theater, horse riding, or outdoor adventures, photos of you taking part in these are a simple way to convey this.

Photos of you with friends are a great way of showing that you have a social life, which is attractive to most people. For example, shots of you and the girls at the club show that you love to party (although very drunk photos are usually best avoided). If this doesn’t represent you and the kind of guy womens dating site profiles want to attract, choose something that reflects your passions. This could be as simple as you in a cafe having a coffee with a friend or participating in some form of a community project.

Most guys like to have at least something to start a conversation about.

How to Write a Dating Profile Bio

Writing the bio, or “About Me,” section of a dating profile is a fine art. Many women leave this section blank and let their pictures do the talking—this probably works in some cases, but most guys like to have at least something to start a conversation about.

However, writing too much is also best avoided most of the time. Essay-length walls of text are unlikely to be read fully, and may even lead to potential dates seeing you as pretentious or over-sharing. A little mystery is good, but you need to include enough information to spark interest. Including facts about yourself that raise questions is a womens dating site profiles way to start a conversation.

Overall, it is best to seem laid-back, approachable, and honest. Information that can be seen from photos may not need to be in your bio (for example, you don’t need to mention that you like going for cocktails if there are already pictures of you doing this). A great bio is concise but informative, includes a dash of humor (although be careful with recycled, copy-and-pasted lines), and raises a question.

Dating Profile Examples

It’s tricky to explain the difference between a great online dating profile and a terrible one without including some examples! Take a look at some actual samples below and the feedback that goes along with them. I think that you’ll quickly get an idea of what’s a good profile example and what is a bad one.

Good Dating Profiles Examples

Emily, 26

My ideal date starts with a quiet coffee and intellectual conversation in a cute cafe and ends with us getting ejected from a karaoke bar at 2 am for drunk and disorderly behavior.

FEEDBACK: Funny, light-hearted, womens dating site profiles, and self-deprecating. This is a good bio.

Tanisha, 21

Short but feisty

Inked and pierced

Festivals

Techno

Dogs

Hit me with your best pick-up line 😉

FEEDBACK: List-based bios can be pretty effective. This one is informative and gives an excellent overview of person in custody over campus dating violence lifestyle, and the last line shows approachability and humor.

Anna, 30

Just moved to *insert place name here* and looking to meet cool people. Hit me up if you like mimosas and endlessly quoting The Office.

FEEDBACK: Simple, informative, and inviting. Nothing groundbreaking, but when paired with the right photos, this is a solid bio.

Bad Dating Profiles Examples

Jess, 20

Idk what to write here lol

FEEDBACK: This one comes up a lot. Honestly, leaving it blank would be better.

Sharon, 25

5’5’’

Treat me like a princess

If you’re ugly, keep scrolling

FEEDBACK: Demanding and shallow in one. Even the most incredible photos might not be able to make up for this one.

Kate, 33

Had enough of silly boys on this app. Looking for a real man, not someone who’s gonna play mind games. If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.

FEEDBACK: Nobody wants to know about your dating history before knowing anything else. Add in the painfully clichéd and often misused quote, and this is a home run of lousy dating profile choices.

Conclusion

Different dating sites and apps are designed for slightly different purposes and may reward different approaches. While the tips here are pretty universal with regards to online dating, Tinder is a dating site for the unattractive image-focused app that rewards excellent photos and short, witty bios. In contrast, sites like eHarmony, Match, and OkCupid tend to attract a user base who may be more interested in reading longer bios or answering questions about compatibility.

The most important thing to remember is that it does not necessarily matter dating site for disabled gay people or men a particular guy isn’t blown away by your online dating profile. If he sees something that he isn’t into, then he wasn’t right for you anyway! After all, the point of dating is to find people who you can really connect and who like you for who you are.

About the Author

Brenda Adair is a relationship and lifestyle writer, coffee enthusiast, and lover of new experiences. You’ll usually find her in a coffee shop with her laptop and a flat white scribbling down an article or searching for the next travel destination. She is a contributing author at GoDates, and several other online publications.

Since you're looking for short dating profile examples, you've probably womens dating site profiles short definitely doesn’t = easier.

Highlight a few attractive traits, build up some intrigue and attraction, make her want to swipe right or return your message… that’s a tall order for a small character count.

But if you want to meet the best women in your area, that’s exactly what your profile needs to accomplish.

These 13 short profile examples will make you irresistible, and you can find one to use on any app or site!

But before you get started…

Steal This Trick From Pro Dating Profile Writers!

Jot down a list of hobbies you have, especially those you'd like to share with your ideal partner.

Also write down the traits you possess that your perfect match is probably looking for in a man, and a few thoughts about what you love about your job.

For example, your profile writing cheat sheet may look like this:

Having that information visible in front of you makes the profile writing process a bit easier. You can use it to customize one of these good profile examples!

Specific details make your profile seem more genuine, and that's important. A recent study revealed 84% of online daters want to see more authenticity.

Dr. Cortney Warren, a clinical psychologist who offered commentary on the results, said the majority of singles want honest, straight-forward information in profiles.

One of the most important findings in the study is that singles are not interested in seeing an idealized depiction of potential partners through edited photos and unrealistic positive self-descriptors. The truth is, singles want more honest, authentic depictions of others and themselves on dating apps. A more realistic portrayal of each individual will not only be refreshing, but also lead to more meaningful connections.

Super Short Online Dating Profile Examples

On some apps like The League, your bio has a 140-character limit. That means you’ve got a couple sentences max to make a good impression, which is crucial if you want a shot at meeting her in person.

Super Short Profile Example #1:

You don’t have enough space to tell, so you need to show why you’re a good catch. (Professional profile writers generally take this approach with an online dating profile of any length, by the way, since it makes your profile more attractive to daters.)

Super Short Profile Example #2:

Pick a few traits that illustrate why you’re a good catch, and roll with those.

Super Short Womens dating site profiles Example #3:

Occupation = financial stability, active hobby = physically fit and adventurous, travel = good times together… get the picture?

Super Short Profile Example #4:

Emoji are a great space-saving option when you're trying to express a lot of ideas in a short amount of space.

Just don't use so many that it gets conceptually hard to follow. A few emoji go a long way.

Choose Words Women Connect With

Women resonate with some words more than others in a dating profile.

For instance, Wired magazine found these were the 7 most attractive active hobbies for guys:

1. Surfing
2. Yoga
3. Skiing
4. Golf
5. Biking
6. Hiking
7. Running

If you’re a vegetarian or a vegan, mention it – on Elite Singles, you'll get up to 73% more messages than the average user. No reason to think it wouldn't work the same way on any other dating app…

And, as it turns out, nice guys are back in fashion. Using these “power” words in your online dating profile get you more messages:

Remember, the shorter your dating profile is, the more impact each word has. You need to make yourself sound like an intriguing person, not like every other guy out there:

Most dating app profiles display your first name. Don’t waste valuable real estate repeating it in your bio.

300 Character Or Less Online Dating Profile Examples

On CoffeeMeetsBagel, your profile is a little longer – but 276 characters max still isn’t much real estate.

Make every word count with a profile like…

Short Dating Profile Example #5:

This bio hits a lot of high notes in a small amount of space, which makes it perfect for an app like Bumble.

Short Dating Profile Example #6:

And you could use a profile like this for the “Self Summary” section of sites like OkCupid or Elite Singles…

Short Dating Profile Example #7:

You can also get creative in your dating app profile, as long as you make sure the humor lands.

Short Dating Profile Example #8:

Here's another funny short bio you can use for inspiration.

Short Dating Profile Womens dating site profiles #9:

When you’re choosing a profile style, keep these 3 factors in mind:

1. Your age
2. The age of your “ideal partner”
3. What type of womens dating site profiles you’re seeking

A woman alikewise dating site her 20s who’s looking for a more casual relationship will likely respond better to the type of humor in the last profile example than a woman in her late 30s looking for something serious would.

On the other hand, if you’re a 35+ guy looking for a serious relationship, choose a profile like the second example.

The more down-to-earth approach will attract women who are looking for an established, successful man.

If you want to use one of these examples for a section of a longer online dating profile on a site like OkCupid, simply move the call-to-action to the end of your profile.

That’s the line at the very end that tells her what to do next, i.e. message you or swipe right.

Short Dating Profile Example #10:

Asking a question, like in the examples above, is also a good CTA.

It takes all the pressure off her to decide what to say in her first message to you  – all she needs to do is simply answer the question, and you can take it from there.

Try it on an app like Bumble, where a man can't initiate the conversation with a woman.

500 Character Or Less Dating Profile Examples

This character limit is perfect for apps like Tinder, or on sites like Match.com or PlentyOfFish if you want to keep your profile short and sweet.

The same rules apply as in the other good dating profile examples for guys you've seen.

Highlight a couple of your most compelling traits…

Short Dating Profile Example #11:

Keep the tone casual, engaging and positive…

Short Dating Profile Example #12:

And use humor in an attractive way.

Short Dating Profile Example #13:

Why Short Dating Profiles Are Successful (When Done Right)

The longer your dating profile is, the more chances you have to inadvertently turn her off.

Here are 5 common profile mistakes guys make that *really* stand out in short dating profiles:

#1: Writing A Boring Womens dating site profiles it’s a list of adjectives to describe yourself or your top 5 hobbies, reading a bunch of words separated by commas womens dating site profiles isn’t very compelling.

#2: Using Bad Grammar/Spelling/Etc

Misspelled words and poor (or no) punctuation stand out like a sore thumb in short dating profiles.

You may think ignoring your phone’s spell check is no big deal, but it’s a turn off for her. A whopping 88% of women hottest dating app a potential date by their grammar, and putting effort into your dating profile shows you’re serious about meeting someone.

#3: Being Too Honest

While there are a few select spots where it’s okay to fudge a bit in your dating profile, honesty is generally the best policy.

But *too much* of it is a bad thing, womens dating site profiles.

Anything that hints at past drama or throws up an immediate red flag should not be included in your profile. “Heavy” topics are best addressed in person, when you’ve already gotten to know each other a bit.

Knowing what you should – and shouldn't – include can be tricky, which is why many guys hire a profile writing service.

#4: Focusing On The Negative

Whether you're expounding on what you don't like, don't want, don't appreciate in a date, or hate about the dating app, womens dating site profiles, what you probably are doing is turning her off.

Negativity, particularly coming from someone you don't know anything about yet, is not very attractive and has no place in your profile.

#5: Making Her Think You're A “Project” 

Competition is already fierce, and most girls aren't consciously looking for a guy who needs a little fixing up or encouragement.

Even if you do need someone to draw you out of your shell or help you find love again, stick with mentioning positive attributes in your profile.

Get Ready For More Matches and Messages

These 13 short dating site bio examples really work – you’ll be getting more matches and messages in no time.

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