Emotional immaturity is a disease… It kills romantic relationships.

When you’re dating an emotionally immature woman, your romance will be a fast-burning adrenaline rush. Yes, she will run hot from the moment you meet her — desiring your time, energy, and physical attention. She will be like no woman you’ve ever met before now. Don’t fall into the trap because there’s a dark side to her passionate personality.

Dating an emotionally immature woman will feel like a roller coaster.

One minute you’re flying high in the sky, fueled by the spontaneity of it all… the next you’re down in the dumps feeling like a worthless waste of a man. You deserve better.

What is Emotional Immaturity?

‘People tend to become more emotionally intelligent as they age and mature.’ — Daniel Goleman

The American Psychological Society says that emotionally immature people tend to ‘express emotions without restraint or disproportionately to the situation.’ In short, you can expect an emotionally immature woman to overreact in almost every scenario.

Let’s take a look at some examples. That might mean screaming and crying at the slightest disturbance. She might start getting angry when she sees a text from your ex before you even have a chance to explain. She might decide that you going out with your friends is completely unacceptable and try to ban you from hanging out with them.

The point is that — since she has absolutely no idea what a ‘normal’ response is — she will always make things ten times more dramatic than they need to be.

Beware: Drama follows an emotionally immature woman — but she will always claim that she is the victim. It’s a non-stop Broadway show.

What Causes Women to Act Emotionally Immature?

When you’re dating women, you may be lucky enough to find a stable, secure, and loving partner.

However, that’s not always the case. Some women are emotionally immature… and you will start to notice the major red flags while you’re dating.

Scientific research suggests that emotional maturity may be linked to self-esteem and confidence. If she’s riddled with insecurity, chances are she will become emotionally immature in her actions.

There could be a whole host of reasons that the so-called woman of your dreams is insecure. She may have been cheated on in past relationships or — *ding, ding, ding* — her lack of self-confidence could be rooted in her childhood.

Yes, if she wasn’t loved and supported when she was a kid, chances are she’s grown into a woman who cannot trust the people around her. That’s hella bad news for you.

No matter how much affection you show her, she won’t trust you. To make matters worse, her emotionally immature behavior will make her challenging to love and respect.

What’s it Like to Date an Emotionally Immature Women: The Red Flags You Need to Watch Out For

‘When emotions dominate, maturity and wisdom deteriorate.’ — Dennis Prager

The dating game isn’t always smooth. Even when you’ve met the most perfect woman, she will have flaws. How do you know if you’re dating an emotionally immature woman? Noticing the big red flags early on is a life-saver.

Fact: Many guys ignore these issues at first because they want to get laid. They are blinded by the incredible sex they are having with this new, interesting woman. However, that’s a dangerous game to play.

Walking around with the blinkers on will lead to trouble further down the line. You deserve better than that. If you want to create high-quality romantic relationships that last, you need to be vigilant when you’re dating.

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Whether you’re in a new relationship or have been long-term for years, noticing those all-important red flags is a must. That’s why I wanted to share my ultimate list here:

1. She never wants to talk about the future and avoids making long-term plans with you

Emotional immaturity can manifest in a whole host of ways, not least in a fear of commitment.

Here’s a typical scenario I hear about all of the time: A guy starts dating someone new and she is perfect. She’s smart, funny, and knows her own mind. He falls hard and fast… and so he wants to start thinking about the future. Where is this going?

There’s just one problem. She won’t talk about the future. Whenever he brings it up, she changes the subject, makes a poorly-timed joke, or initiates sex. No matter how often he tries to raise the topic, she bats him away and finds some excuse to ignore him.

The reason is obvious. She’s scared of committing to a future with him because she can’t picture it. Emotionally immature women want to live in the here and now… not the ‘then’.

2. She quickly gets viscous in arguments using bullying tactics and calling you cruel names

Does she fight dirty? There’s nothing wrong with arguing with your partner. The best couples bicker about the most insignificant things. It’s how you fight that matters. Sticking to the point, raising relevant evidence, and respecting each other is one thing.

However, if she constantly brings up the past, ties you up in knots, and starts calling you a name, that’s quite another.

Emotionally immature women will stop at nothing to win an argument. You can expect them to get cruel, nasty, and use bullying tactics from the start.

3. She won’t ever compromise on things and stamps her feet if she doesn’t get her own way

For lack of a better word, emotionally immature women are bratty. Sure, when things are going their way, these women will be as nice as pie.

They drop that act when something goes wrong. You can expect her to go from zero to mega-brat in 60 seconds or less.

I’ll share a quick example with you. Let’s say you’re eating out and you want Thai food but she wants pizza. What happens? Do you have an adult conversation and agree to compromise and go for chicken instead? Or, on the other hand, does she pout and moan for two and a half hours until you agree to go for pizza?

If the answer is that she throws a hissy fit, you know that she doesn’t have a high level of emotional maturity. Dealing with that level of conflict every time you disagree sucks.

4. She never owns up to her mistakes and will continue to insist that everything is your fault

We’re all human so we all make mistakes. Shocker. Of course, it’s how you react to the mistakes that you make that show your true colors.

Decent, well-adjusted, high-value men will have no problem putting their hands in the air and saying ‘You know what, I messed up here’.

If she never owns up to her mistakes or, worse, tries to blame you for them, that’s a serious red flag. You shouldn’t have to put up with that BS. When women lack maturity, they often struggle to admit that they are wrong and will blame anybody else in sight.

5. She never considers you when it comes to making decisions, regardless of whether they are big or small

Whether it’s moving house or taking a new job offer, does your partner consider you? When you’re in a relationship, it’s a two-way street.

You need to respect one another and factor each other in. You wouldn’t make a life-changing decision without thinking about how she fits into the picture. Now, ask yourself, does she offer you the same respect?

Imagine that you’re out for a walk and you get a random text from her: “Moving to Los Angeles… So excited!”

This is the first you’ve heard about the potential of her upping sticks, and yet she’s informing you of it as though you’re a mere acquaintance.

When a woman fails to think about how her moves impact you, you shouldn’t ignore that.

6. No matter what is happening, she will find a way to make the situation about her

Serious question: Is your partner all ‘me, me, me’? It’s okay, you can answer honestly.

When you’re in a relationship, you might be blind to this ridiculous red flag. However, women with low levels of emotional intelligence will do anything to hog the spotlight.

Think about it. When you’re chatting about something, how often does she bring the conversation back to her?

If you tell her you went skydiving, does she brag that she did it first? When someone else is pregnant, does she cry about wanting children?

Emotionally immature women will do whatever it takes to be the center of attention. Worse still, the more you feed into their ego, the more they will play this card again and again.

7. She has serious mood swings — one minute she’s happy and loving, the next she is arguing with you about nothing

Extreme mood swings can be hard to handle. You might be talking to your partner — having a pleasant conversation — and then, bam, her mood changes. She can go from happy to angry faster than you can say “Wait, what are you talking about?”

One of the biggest side effects of emotional immaturity is wild mood swings.

The fact of the matter is that she cannot control her emotions. They control her. So, no matter how you try to calm her down, she will get angry/sad/mean out of nowhere. Watch out.

8. She can be flighty and impulsive, so you don’t know what she will do one moment to the next

When you first met your partner, you loved her spontaneity. But now, a few months or years later, that old act is growing old.

Having a relationship with an emotionally immature woman is exhausting. She will cancel plans, show up late, and book a last-minute flight.

Since her mood changes often, so do her plans. What’s more, if you dare to question this erratic behavior, you’ll be labeled the ‘bad guy’ or even ‘toxic male’. Don’t even go there.

What to Do If You’re Dating an Emotionally Immature Woman

Now that you’ve got a baseline understanding of emotionally immature women, you can answer the core question: Is your partner one of them?

If she regularly shows signs of emotional immaturity, your relationship is certain to be a trainwreck.

Can you save the relationship? And, more importantly, should you bother? Guys ask me these questions all the time… and here’s what I tell them:

1. Think hard about whether you want to continue with the relationship despite her immature behavior

First things first, consider whether this woman is right for you.

People can change, sure, but you can’t guarantee that will happen. Before you start to work on things, think about whether you see a future that includes her.

Think long and hard here.

You might want to talk to a friend that you trust. Ask them what they think of her, and prepare yourself for an honest answer.

It’s tough but you’ve gotta do it. Having some frank conversations now could save you time, energy, and hassle.

2. Speak to her directly about the behavior that is unacceptable and be clear that it cannot continue any longer

Okay, so you want to stay with her… what next?

Speak to her. Now, this will be difficult, especially as she’s likely to get defensive. Before you have this all-important conversation, do the following:

• Find a public place to meet
• Write down examples of her behavior
• Be clear about your aims (what she should quit doing)

Being direct about how her behavior is impacting the relationship is the only way to go. You’re going to have to be truthful, without being cruel here.

Of course, if you think she will kick off, it’s worth getting professional help. Couples counseling is never off the table.

3. Set a boundary — when she starts acting in an immature way, walk away from the situation and avoid engaging

You’ve had the talk. The next step is setting some boundaries and sticking to them: ‘If you do X, I will do Y’ and so on.

For example, you might tell her that if she starts verbally attacking you in arguments, you will leave them room. That’s a bold statement so you’d better follow through.

Set out your terms and then act on them. The next time she starts name-calling, you know what to do.

4. Whenever she acts in a mature and more positive manner, show her that you appreciate her efforts

I have two words for you: positive reinforcement.

Keep in mind that we each teach people how to treat us. The way we respond to others lets them know whether their behavior is acceptable.

After you’ve had the talk, keep an eye on how your partner acts.

Whenever she is mature and positive, let her know that you’ve noticed. Think of it as training a small child or animal to behave in a certain way.

The more positive feedback you give them, the more likely they are to repeat the same behavior again. And again.

The takeaway

Staying with an emotionally immature woman can be tiring and frustrating. Despite your best efforts, she might never change.

The fact is, you don’t know what trauma and problems she has buried in her past. Those issues may be so deep-seated that it’s impossible for her to reach a real level of maturity.

If she’s worth the effort, prepare yourself for a long journey. It won’t be easy — not by a long shot. However, my exclusive coaching program will give you the insights, strategies, and community support to move forward and build successful relationships. I give men the opportunity to harness their masculine power again and gain true fulfillment.

When the person you are in a relationship with seems to be extremely volatile and immature, chances are you are dating a teenager in an adult’s body.

An insidious trend has been gaining steam for a number of years. What trend, do you say? Teenagers inhabiting the bodies of adults.

Quite a ghastly and cunning thing. It is particularly devious because at first glance you could not know that the man, or woman, with whom you are speaking is in fact a teen. Why not?

To start, they are generally well into their twenties, sometimes even in their thirties and beyond. Secondly, when first meeting these individuals, one often finds them charming. There is something exciting about their spontaneity and naivete.

This magnetism has lured many an otherwise level-headed adult into a romantic relationship with the teenager in an adult body (let’s use TIAAB for short).

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And this is where things get interesting.

TIAABs are attractive at first glance because of their youthful exuberance, sense of abandonment, and infectious energy to seek out fun at every opportunity.

None of these are bad qualities. When harnessed to a mature character they are assets. When yoked with developmental arrest they become a source of great stress for those who have chosen to be in a romantic relationship with the TIAAB.

Perhaps you are wondering if your love interest falls into this category? Important question. If that turns out to be true, you can count on a tumultuous relationship.

If you are a persistent type of soul you will be greeted with more disappointment, confusion, and pain. Pretty much can count on just repeating the "wash and spin" cycle as it were. Not really the best of selling points when looking for a soulmate.

Although it’s possible that in time your true love will mature into an adult, it’s much more likely that he or she will remain stuck in the adolescent phase of life for many years to come. Sometimes for decades.

With this in mind, it pays to be able to tell if the person with whom you have given your heart is a TIAAB or simply someone with a number of quirks (in which case we can all say “Welcome to the club”).

Here are the major signs to look for when determining TIAAB status:

1. Everything is a crisis and dramatic action needs to be taken immediately.

The emotional life of your significant other resembles a pinball bouncing from one crisis to another. The boss giving someone else a promotion is a calamity because it signals some unfair preference (not the fact that the promoted employee worked longer hours and performed better).

The TIAAB response is, “I might just quit. Let them see how well the business runs without me!”

A friend not returning a telephone call creates anger and despair because it demonstrates mean-spirited insensitivity. The solution: “I’m cutting them off. I don’t need a friend like that!”

If you forget to call home when running 20 minutes late, this will be seen as a callous disregard for making the relationship a priority. The TIAAB responds with “Fine, I guess there is no need for me to tell you if I will be out all night with the guys. Don’t come crying to me when your shoe is on my other foot.”

(Pro tip: If they misstate a common aphorism, just let it go).

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2. They live by the unspoken belief that “If you do not agree with me, you are a very bad person.”

Some creative types will also let you know that by not agreeing with them you are “being hurtful.” Or, better yet, “Your words are a form of violence against me.”

If you are a novice at dealing with the TIAAB, you might respond by trying to show you meant no harm. For penitence, you end up cooking a special meal, doing all the grocery shopping for a week or two, and cleaning the house so well it would make Martha Stewart blush.

Rookie mistake. Your significant other sees this as a confession of your sins. It will be noted in the Book Of Wrongs.

Moreover, your implicit confession will be brought up and vigorously waved about as evidence of your cretinous nature during the next conflict (trust me, this won’t take long).

3. Disagreements are frequent.

And not relegated to just the important issues of life, but even the minor ones. You are expected to apologize in every case because, well, because you are always wrong.

The ability to conjure up a conflict from the most innocuous topics is a strength of the TIAAB. Minor differences regarding vacation plans, one’s view of friends, or politics spark argumentative firestorms. Reason plays no role in resolving these conflicts.

The TIAAB requires total capitulation, capped with a heartfelt apology.

4. Your partner wears the role of the victim like a comfortable old coat.

You may find yourself impressed with how often the victim role crops up in your relationship with the TIAAB. He or she ends up being a victim of co-workers, extended family, and on occasion the neighbor’s cat.

Because your partner is a victim, he or she requires your sole attention and unlimited support. Conveniently, the victim mantel can also be used as a means to forego normal adult obligations.

By the way, you must never complain about how the "victim status" makes it difficult for you to relate to one another on equal footing like two adults. If you make the mistake of voicing these concerns, you will be labeled as intentionally hurtful.

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5. Feelings are everything.

In the world of the TIAAB, if it feels good, “Go for it!” Emotions drive behavior. When the tendency to blindly follow feelings leads to heartache the TIAAB laments, “No one could possibly have seen how it would all turn out this way.”

You may think that this would be a terrific time for your partner to take responsibility and learn from a mistake. If that turns out to be your reaction I must conclude that you’ve not been paying attention.

6. Just wanting something is tantamount to deserving the thing that is desired.

This has some interesting consequences: cars, clothing, electronics, jewelry, vacations, and much else are purchased because they are deserved. The precise basis upon which these items are “deserved” is seldom spelled out.

On those rare occasions when one does hear the rationale, it boils down to, “You only live once, and I’ve been through so much pain, surely I am owed a little happiness.” That reasoning pretty much takes the dogs off the leash. It means if a credit card is within easy reach the lack of money for purchasing these much-deserved items is not a concern.

As a result, debt rises exponentially. Because no one purchase can "scratch the itch" sufficiently, a cascade of chronic spending occurs. Eventually, debt rises to crisis levels, anxiety surges, tears are shed, and you are called upon to comfort your TIAAB.

Once again, you might be tempted to think that this could be a great learning experience. But the TIAAB wants comfort, support, and absolution, not the painful growth that comes from taking responsibility.

Even so, there is a silver lining. The conflict and stress of the moment may lead to growth after all: yours.

This might be that pivotal moment that you realize there is no way to have a mature relationship with this person.

Unlike the adolescent who struggles with such problems due to the natural course of social/emotional development, the TIAAB has no strong desire to mature. Consequently, unlike real adolescents who grow into healthy adults, the person you are with is most likely to stay in his or her present state for a very long time.

The bottom line: It’s nearly impossible to nurture growth when motivation is absent. The future of your relationship, in all probability, looks a lot like the present state of that relationship.

What’s the solution? A fresh start, a clean break, a new beginning.

If your future plans include having children then you can count on raising a teen or two, maybe more. Although this may be challenging at times, it is also a very rewarding phase of parenting life.

But trying to raise a teen who is already an adult, and is expected to be an equal partner rather than a child, is a witch’s brew for heartache. Think carefully before signing on for this responsibility.

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Forrest Talley is a clinical psychologist with a focus on mental health and wellness. He has been featured in Psychology Today, Verywell Family, LifeHhck!, and more. Visit his website for more. 

This article was originally published at The Mind's Journal. Reprinted with permission from the author.

Being with someone who isn't on the same maturity level as you can be annoying and frustrating, and it can be hard to figure out what to do about it. If you are in a relationship with a person who is not mature emotionally, this article will help you address this very common issue.

Why Is My Partner Immature Emotionally?

Before dealing with a man or woman who is emotionally not mature, it's important to understand why they are that way to begin with.

The lack of maturity can be attributed to a person's upbringing and how their parents raised them. For example, if a mother was overprotective, coddled, and spoiled her son or daughter, this can affect the rest of their lives.

Grown men and women who act childish are affected by Little Prince or Princess Syndrome or Peter Pan Syndrome, which refers to a fictional character created by J. M. Barrie that was popularized through Disney who always wanted to be a boy who has fun never grows up. [1]

While these conditions aren't official, they are a very real phenomenon with notable symptoms in the sense of being defined in the DSM. Here are several signs that someone has a different emotional age that is younger than they are: [1] [2]

• They rely on their parents and are in touch with them more than anyone else
• They behave like someone much younger than their age
• They expect to be served or pampered
• They have difficulties staying in long-term relationships
• They have commitment issues, despite being needy
• They have very few friends (it's common for their parents to be their best friends)
• They exhibit hostility, use insults, and are stubborn if they don't get their way.
• They bully others
• They are selfish and narcissistic
• They lie to get out of uncomfortable situations
• They have poor impulse control
• They are financially irresponsible
• They won't hold themselves accountable and blames others instead
• They need to be the center of attention
• They struggle to learn from their mistakes

Do any of these sound familiar at all? Then you are in a relationship with an adult who is not mature emotionally who might have Peter Pan Syndrome. This doesn't mean the way they act is excusable, but it can give you another lens through which to assess the situation.

The remainder of the article will provide you with some strategies that you can use to get them to start acting more like their age and become more mature.

Stop Enabling Them

Negative behaviors persist because they are reinforced. This relates to "operant conditioning," a psychological theory coined by Edward Thorndike and elaborated on by B. F. Skinner.

When you reinforce something, you are using external stimuli to strengthen a particular response. [3] Although it was most likely unintentional, being spoiled and overprotected ensured that your partner could get what they wanted and needed.

Even if they threw a tantrum, they would still get a reward, and eventually, this reinforced this behavior and similar ones.

Now, in operant conditioning, there are two other concepts - punishment and extinction. These are used to stop specific behaviors.

For punishment, you would need to do something aversive to make them stop behaving a certain way, such as a spanking or taking away their privileges. In extinction, you remove the stimuli to decrease a behavior. [3]

When you stop giving into your partner's demands, they will stop behaving immaturely over time because it doesn't yield any results. They learn that immature behavior has consequences, but you can use reinforcement as a tool to reward maturity and good actions.

Have A Talk About Their Upbringing

While there are things you can do on your own to help your partner get on the right track, you'll also want to understand why they act that way. An important conversation to have is about how they grew up.

Politely confronting them may seem odd. After all, he or she is a grown man or woman, and you don't want to feel like you're his or her guardian either, but it's necessary to understand where they are coming from.

For example, you might ask them why their parents keep sending money. It's encouraging them not to get a job and earn their own money. Since they didn't make the money they received, they don't understand its real value, spending it irresponsibly.

Help Them Get In Touch With A Counselor

Due to their emotional age and maturity levels, there's a pretty good chance that your partner is missing out on some crucial life skills.

For example, they can learn how to be proactive instead of reactive, learn how to take responsibility for their actions, get out of their comfort zone, and find purpose. [5] The goal is to make them grow as a person, rather than rely on or blame others for what happens in their lives.

A counselor will also help them learn how to be more present with what's going on around them and embrace reality, which is probably much different from their current worldview.

They will also become more disciplined individuals. Instead of resorting to bad habits, like avoidance, escaping, self-indulgence, and instant gratifications, they can commit to making good, healthy, and responsible choices. [5]

Therapy sessions can be attended in-person, which is the traditional way of doing things, or they can also be done online. Online therapy has quickly become one of the most popular and effective ways to get help because it's convenient and affordable; it eliminates the need to travel to a location. Making appointments is flexible and stress-free.

At ReGain, licensed and professional counselors and therapists are available online to help your partner learn these skills, which will allow them to grow. You are also welcome to attend online therapy sessions with them, so you can provide support and reassurance and be there every step of the way.

Make Yourself Available To Them

Just because you disapprove of your partner's immaturity, you find them annoying sometimes. You don't plan on enabling their behavior doesn't mean that you abandon them and leave everything to the therapist.

As mentioned in the previous section, going to therapy together is an excellent way to show your support, but it will take continuous work outside these sessions. Your partner needs your help, too, and there are several ways you can.

One of them is to create an environment where you can be honest with each other. You will need to be honest with your partner if they misbehave, but they need someone they are comfortable with to confide in as well.

They need to accept their vulnerabilities instead of resorting to mechanisms, such as lying and avoiding uncomfortable situations. Show them respect when they tell the truth and confront things productively, as this will incentivize them to behave more maturely.

This is reinforcing good behavior, and it doesn't require a therapist to be present!

However, family members, especially their parents, are also encouraged to join in. Friends can also be helpful, but only those who understand that your partner is trying to grow as individual. Those who aren't very good influences should not be present during this journey.

Conclusion

Dealing with a man or woman who is not mature emotionally can be frustrating, and it can seem like it won't ever end, but the truth is, it's entirely possible to address and fix their behavior.

As mentioned before, through reinforcement and the principles of operant conditioning, negative behaviors are learned, but they can also be undone. This means that positive ones can also be taught as well.

Taking note of the specific ones that are problematic and understanding why they exist can be valuable information when trying to tackle these immature behaviors, especially when seeking help from a counselor or therapist. The more information they have, the better they can assist you and your partner.

Along with professional help, there are things that you can together to help foster a more mature relationship. Hopefully, by reading this article, you know just how to go about doing that. It will take time and effort, but the results will be worth it for everyone who wants to be involved.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Can an emotionally immature man change?

Emotionally mature people make the best romantic partners, but dealing with an immature person can be extremely frustrating. It’s emotionally draining to hear immature responses all the time, so most people want their partners to change or mature once they enter a relationship. However, that’s sometimes easier said than done, especially for a person who’s unwilling, able, or ready to stop their immature behavior. Thus, some folks wonder whether people can change their ways at all.

The answer is yes, but it’s complex. An immature person must first recognize that they lack emotional maturity. They must also admit to having latent mental health issues or painful emotions. In fact, most people who are emotionally juvenile got that way because of childhood trauma. So, it’s important to be gentle, patient, and understanding to immature people lest you negatively affect their mental health even more.

To make up for lack of emotional growth in the meantime, seek counseling from a licensed clinical therapist. It may be that the person exhibiting immature behavior is doing so to hide a bigger problem like depression and/or anxiety. Emotional maturity doesn’t necessarily develop over time either. Instead, it’s a side effect of experience and empathy. So, get guidance if you want a crash course on emotional intelligence.

How do you talk to someone emotionally immature?

Talking to an immature person can be extremely taxing to your mental health, so be prepared with an effective communication strategy. Immature behavior can also be very annoying, especially in professional or romantic situations. However, there are immature people all over the world and in every scenario. Therefore, it’s a survival skill to know how to deal with them. Here’s what you should do:

• Know how to recognize immature behavior. Then, work on ways of getting their attention without being insulting.
• Practice emotional maturity. Be the bigger person, even if the immature person is getting on your nerves. Try to see where they’re coming from.
• Speak in their language. Don’t overemphasize their jargon or slang, but make it known that you understand their point of view.
• Communicate your wants and needs. Let them know why you think and/or feel the way you do about their emotional manipulation.
• Get help with your mental health if it’s needed. That you, you don’t lash out irrationally on someone because you’re frustrated.

Without a lot of emotional fortitude, people can be difficult to talk to even if you use all five of those tactics. So, try other communication forms – texting, writing letters, sending emails, sharing songs, etc. A mature message can often be sent to an immature listener if it’s packaged just right.

What causes emotional immaturity in adults?

Emotionally mature people typically get that way because they’ve lived a full life and have seen many sides of the human condition. That, in turn, has given them enough sense to understand mature subjects and complex ideals. However, some adults lack emotional maturity despite all that, and here are three of the most common reasons why:

#1. Lack of experience.

Some grown-ups haven’t done much in their lives. They’re unfamiliar with the common struggles or the consequences of their actions. Either through enabling or lifestyles choices, they’re generally unprepared for the unexpected or react immaturely in scenarios where the average adult would thrive.

#2. Not enough empathy.

Either because of trauma, neglect, dependence, or mental illness, an immature person might not have enough empathy to recognize their damaging behaviors for what they are. Instead, they must be taught those things directly, and they often use manipulation as an alternative in the meantime.

#3. Mental health issues.

Some emotionally immature people might be that way because of mental or emotional health issues like depression, anxiety, and narcissism. It may also be due to an injury or disability. Thus, it’s important to remain gentle and patient until you learn more about the causes of a low EQ.

To find out more about an emotionally immature adult in your life, seek counseling from a licensed mental health professional.

How can you tell if someone is emotionally immature?

The signs of emotional immaturity aren’t hard to spot once you know what to look for or if you get help from a licensed behavioral therapist to recognize the red flags. For example, people who act childish are sometimes said to have a condition known as “Peter Pan Syndrome” – a disorder characterized by a person’s inability or unwillingness to grow up as expected. Therefore, it’s necessary to seek a professional opinion before diagnosing someone with anything that serious. Many times, immaturity is simply a choice.

However, you can still teach yourself to recognize the signs; that way, you can get help when you need it. So, here are some of the most common indicators of emotional immaturity:

• The expectation of being served and/or pampered often
• Issues with commitment or keeping promises
• Extreme neediness, especially where independence is otherwise assumed
• Difficulty maintaining romantic relationships and/or friendships
• Bullying or disrespecting others
• Selfish or narcissistic tendencies
• Stubbornness or fits, especially when said no
• Hostility or resentment to non-enablers
• Avoidance of challenging or uncomfortable situations
• Poor control over impulses and moods
• Consistent fiscal irresponsibility or risk-taking

An emotionally stifled person might also say that their parents are their best friends because they struggle to get along with their own age. They might rely on their “best friends” for almost everything as well. Plus, they could have a hard time taking responsibility for their own actions while always needing to be the center of attention. If they have a hard time learning from their mistakes, that’s a good sign too.

How do you live with an emotionally immature spouse?

Living with an emotionally immature person can be frustrating, but there’s a way for everyone to get along and still be who they want to be. So, while emotional intelligence is a key component to a long, healthy marriage, it’s possible to work around the issue until you find a solution. Here’s an example of the process:

1. Give them their space. People who aren’t mature emotionally might not want to be bothered with responsibilities and expectations all the time, at least not all at once.
2. Don’t burden them too much. Even if you’re growing tired of the struggle, try to practice patience and understanding until they get adjusted to change.
3. Be compassionate and patient. Realize that they may choose this behavior somehow, but some may be due to childhood trauma, disability, injury, or mental illness.
4. Communicate your wants and needs. Let them know how you feel without insulting their intelligence or making them feel unwanted, stupid, or angry.
5. Get professional help. If all else fails, book an appointment with a licensed therapist to work through the immature behaviors and find common ground.

1. An immature woman desperately looks for attention. She is loose. She has an unhealthy dependency on attention; her body and sexual flirts is her only billboard to gain attention.... A mature woman attracts admiration by what she does, her reputation draws people to her, her body is not a billboard but the carrier of her greatness that lies inside, she grows her mind and heart; attention finds her she doesn't look for it.

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2. An immature woman uses what is between her legs as a weapon of power. She boasts "I have the p*ssie so I make all the rules". She uses sex as a war card in battling her husband. She confuses the lust men have for her hips and vagina to mean she is in charge, but in essence, she is just a doll in a game of men who just want to use her... A mature woman doesn't play with sex. She holds sex in high regard, wouldn't deny her husband his conjugal rights just to get back at him. She knows sex is not a weapon or bait but an expression of intimacy and love. When a man gets to her vagina, it's not because he's conquered or has reached the highest level of a casual game; but because she loves him.

3. An immature woman makes decisions based on rumors. She acts on rumors, she would break up with her man based on the rumors she's heard about him. She gossips, is driven by emotions... A mature woman searches for the truth. She has no time for gossip and small talk. She makes decisions on facts, and confronts her man when she hears something unsettling; not trusting outsiders. She is not controlled by her emotions, she controls her emotions.

4. An immature woman equates a great man to merely having wealth. She belittles men who have few resources, she is attracted first by material things, she fails to see the many great men who have become icons and successful, not out of being rich but through their character, she is shallow... A mature woman looks at a man's character. She realizes that a man who has little today can have plenty tomorrow, she believes in handwork and can rejoice in the success of a wealthy man and also spot a man who is heading to greatness. She is not moved by wealth because she is looking for more.

5. An immature woman allows people's opinion to bully her and sink her, she pays too much attention to what people think, she never makes any move because of fear of outsider's voices... A mature woman is firm in her identity. Hate her and she will still be her, laugh at her and she will still soldier on, tell her it's impossible she will still pursue her dreams, she is confident in who she is.

6. An immature woman is lazy, she looks for a man who can be a sponsor, she is a gold-digger, she wastes all the years of education her parents invested in her by sitting down and waiting for a man to worship her and be a giver to her, her laziness is a burden no matter how beautiful or sexy she is... A mature woman wants to give. She wants to contribute, she is a hardworker, she is not looking for favors, she may be a housewife or having a rich man but she will still work hard and give even if not financially. She loves it when she does things for her man and for others.

7. An immature woman, if she is a single mother, she hates her child because the child reminds her of the man who impregnated her. She takes out the hate for her ex on the child she had with him, she mistreats her own child or avoids spending much time with her own child out of disgust.... A mature woman is the best mother whether with her man or as a single mum. She forgives and lets go of the man if he leaves and loves on the child. She showers her own child with love, not punishing the child for the wrongs of the father.

8. An immature woman wages a war against men, she uses the past struggles caused by men as an excuse to hate on every man. The wrongs done to her by one man or a few men shapes how she sees every man. She lives life as a battle of sexes and indoctrinates other women and girls with this anti-men philosophy.... A mature woman respects men, she doesn't see men as enemies, she judges every man individually without generalization, she believes every man should be given a chance just like every woman, she sees the ideal situation as men and women building a better world.

9. An immature woman breaks her own home with her toxic words and unloving deeds towards her man. She makes loving her difficult. She has affairs. She breaks other people's homes by having an affair with a married man. She has the guts to have an affair with the man of her friend... A mature woman builds her home. She is lovable. She is faithful, respects the marriage and relationship of others, keeps off her friend's man. If her man cheats on her she wouldn't cheat in revenge but walk away with her dignity.

10. An immature woman is her own worst enemy. She beats herself down, gives up on herself, loves playing the victim. She looks at the mirror and she's herself as ugly. She hates her body, has a low self esteem, forgives others but doesn't forgive herself, crucifies herself for her past sins and feels deserving of crap and mediocre... A mature woman is her own best friend. She encourages herself. Others may not believe in her but she'll never give up on herself. She is confident in her beauty. She loves her body knowing she has only that body all her life. She treats herself well, forgives others and herself, refuses to be a slave of her own negative thoughts. She glows.

In my new book, WOMANHOOD SERIES, I challenge women to take responsibility of their decisions, feelings and future. I encourage them to learn to say no to negativity and time wasting engagements, and encourage them to pursue what is good for them.

In my other new book, MANHOOD SERIES, in addition to walking with men through their own issues and challenges, I walk with men towards understanding women.

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Do you know the difference between a strong woman and a little girl?

If she is there for you, accepts you for who you are, and is willing to fight for your love, then she is a strong woman you can count on. But if she never apologizes for her mistakes and doesn’t care about your feelings, then she is an immature girl who probably doesn’t give a damn about you.

Strong women are truly out of this world. They are ambitious, determined, and powerful. They stop at nothing to protect the people they care for. When they love, they love deeply, and it definitely shows.

Is the woman you’re dating a mature, trustworthy partner?

Here are 7 telling signs you are in love with a strong woman:

1. She values the importance of compromises. 

Every grown woman knows how important making compromises is in a relationship. She is fully aware that sometimes she needs to back up instead of insisting on her righteousness at all costs. Understandably, she demands you to be willing to compromise too, as it is a mutual process.

2. She accepts you for who you are. 

This amazing woman isn’t trying to change you or put you down for who you are. Instead, she accepts you with all of your flaws and imperfections. And in case you want to change something in your life, she supports your decisions and encourages you to move forward.

3. She acknowledges her mistakes. 

Whenever she messes up, she is not afraid to admit her mistakes, apologize, and bravely face the consequences. While immature girls would often avoid taking responsibility for their actions, grown women know how to make up for their wrongdoings.

4. She knows that communication is key. 

If she has decided you are worthy of her love, then she would not hesitate to let you in. What’s more, whenever there is a problem in your relationship, instead of overlooking it or giving you the silent treatment, she would always be open to talking things through. This way, you will be able to solve your problems as a strong and healthy couple.

5. She loves to discuss her future with you. 

Strong women never settle for partners they can’t see a future with. If your significant other is such an inspiring female, know that she definitely sees an exceptional potential in your bond. This means you play a significant role in her plans, which is why she loves to talk about the future with you.

6. She appreciates everything you do for her. 

Even if she doesn’t say it as often as you wish, she acknowledges all the little things you do for her. She knows that you are willing to go the extra mile for her, and she would do the same for you. She cares for you deeply and doesn’t miss a chance to let you know how much your kind gestures mean to her. That’s another significant sign distinguishing a strong woman from a little, immature girl.

7. She is there for you, even in the storms. 

Your other half is there for you when no one else is. She holds your hand in your darkest hours. She is willing to defy the whole world to defend you. If she holds you together when you’re falling apart, then she is a strong woman you must never disregard.

Emotional immaturity is a disease… It kills romantic relationships.

When you’re dating an emotionally immature woman, your romance will be a fast-burning adrenaline rush, dating immature girl. Yes, she will run hot from the moment you meet her — desiring your time, energy, and physical attention. She will be like no woman you’ve ever met before now, dating immature girl. Don’t fall into the trap because there’s a dark side to her passionate personality.

Dating an emotionally immature woman will feel like a roller coaster.

One minute you’re flying high in the sky, fueled by the spontaneity of it all… the next you’re down in the dumps feeling like a worthless waste of a man. You deserve better.

What is Emotional Immaturity?

‘People tend to become more emotionally intelligent as they age and mature.’ — Daniel Goleman

The American Psychological Society says that emotionally immature people tend to ‘express emotions without restraint or disproportionately to the situation.’ In short, you can expect an emotionally immature woman to overreact in almost every scenario.

Let’s take a look at some examples. That might mean screaming and crying at dating immature girl slightest disturbance. She might start getting angry when she sees a text from your ex before you even have dating immature girl chance to explain. She might decide that you going out with your friends is completely unacceptable and try to ban you from hanging out with them.

The point is that — since she has absolutely no idea what a ‘normal’ response is dating immature girl she will always make things ten times more dramatic than they need to be.

Beware: Drama follows an emotionally immature woman — but she will always claim that she is the victim. It’s a non-stop Dating immature girl show.

What Causes Women to Act Emotionally Immature?

When you’re dating women, you may be lucky enough to find a stable, secure, and loving partner.

However, that’s not always the case. Some women are emotionally immature… and you will start to notice the major red flags while you’re dating.

Scientific research suggests that emotional maturity may be linked to self-esteem and confidence. If she’s riddled with insecurity, chances are she will become emotionally immature in her actions.

There could be a whole host of reasons that the so-called woman of your dreams is insecure. She may have been cheated on in past relationships or — *ding, ding, ding* — her lack of self-confidence could be rooted in her childhood.

Yes, if she wasn’t loved and supported when she dating immature girl a kid, chances are she’s grown into a woman who cannot trust the people around her. That’s hella bad news for you.

No matter how much affection you show her, she won’t trust you. To make matters worse, her emotionally immature behavior will make her challenging to love and respect.

What’s it Like to Date an Emotionally Immature Women: The Red Flags You Need to Watch Out For

‘When emotions dominate, maturity and wisdom deteriorate.’ — Dennis Prager

The dating game isn’t always smooth. Even when you’ve met the most perfect woman, she will have flaws. How do you know if you’re dating an emotionally immature woman? Noticing the big red flags early on is a life-saver.

Fact: Many guys ignore these issues at first because dating immature girl want to get laid. They are blinded by the incredible sex they are having with this new, interesting woman. However, that’s a dangerous game to play.

Walking around with the blinkers on will lead to trouble further down the line. You deserve better than that. If you want to create high-quality romantic relationships that last, you need to be vigilant when you’re dating.

Never lower your standards for an easy score, dating immature girl. In my exclusive coaching program, I teach a community of like-minded men how to harness their masculine power, dating immature girl, start valuing themselves, and demanding more from their romantic relationships.

Whether you’re in a new relationship or have been long-term for years, noticing those all-important red flags is a must. That’s why I wanted to share my ultimate list here:

1. She never wants to talk about the future and avoids making long-term plans with you

Emotional immaturity can manifest in a whole host of ways, not least in a fear of commitment.

Here’s a typical scenario I hear about all dating immature girl the time: A guy starts dating someone new and she is perfect. She’s smart, funny, and knows her own mind. He falls hard and fast… and so he wants to start thinking about the future. Where is this going?

There’s just one problem, dating immature girl. She won’t talk about the future. Whenever he brings it up, dating immature girl, she changes the subject, makes a poorly-timed joke, or initiates sex. No matter how often he tries to raise the topic, she bats him away and finds some excuse to ignore him.

The reason is obvious. She’s scared of committing to a future with him because she can’t picture it. Emotionally immature women want to live in the here and now… not the ‘then’.

2. She quickly gets viscous in arguments using bullying tactics and calling you cruel names

Does she fight dirty? There’s nothing wrong with arguing with your partner. The best couples bicker about the most insignificant things. It’s how you fight that matters. Sticking to the point, raising relevant evidence, dating immature girl, and respecting each other is one thing.

However, if she constantly brings up the past, ties you up in dating immature girl, and cheating dating app calling you a name, that’s quite another.

Emotionally immature women will stop at nothing to win an argument. You can expect them to get cruel, nasty, and use bullying tactics from the start.

3, dating immature girl. She won’t ever compromise on things and stamps her feet if she doesn’t get her own way

For lack of a better word, emotionally immature women are bratty. Sure, when things are going their way, these women will be as nice as pie.

They drop that act when something goes wrong. You can expect her to go from zero to mega-brat in 60 seconds or less.

I’ll share a quick example with you, dating immature girl. Let’s say you’re eating out and you want Thai food but she wants pizza. What happens? Do you have an adult conversation and agree to compromise and go for chicken instead? Or, on the other hand, does she pout and moan for two and a half hours until you agree to go for pizza?

If the answer is that she throws a hissy fit, you know that she doesn’t have a high level of emotional maturity. Dealing with that level of conflict every time you disagree sucks.

4. She never owns up to her mistakes and will continue to insist that everything is your asian milf dating all human so we all make mistakes. Shocker. Of course, it’s how you react to the mistakes that you make that show your true colors.

Decent, well-adjusted, high-value men will have no problem putting their hands in the air and saying ‘You know what, I messed up here’.

If she never owns up to her mistakes or, worse, tries to blame you for them, that’s a serious red flag. You shouldn’t have to put up with that BS. When women lack maturity, they often struggle to admit that they are wrong and will blame anybody else in sight.

5. She never considers you when it comes to making decisions, dating immature girl, regardless of whether they are big or small

Whether it’s moving house or taking a new job offer, does your partner consider you? When you’re in a relationship, it’s a two-way street.

You need to respect one another and factor each other in. You wouldn’t make a life-changing decision without thinking about how she dating immature girl into the picture. Now, ask yourself, does she offer you the same respect?

Imagine that you’re out dating immature girl a walk and you get a random text from her: “Moving to Los Angeles… So excited!”

This is the first you’ve heard about the potential of her upping sticks, and yet she’s informing you of it as though you’re a mere acquaintance.

When a woman fails to think about how her moves impact you, you shouldn’t ignore that.

6. No matter what is happening, she will find a way to make the situation about her

Serious question: Is your partner all ‘me, me, me’? It’s okay, you can answer honestly.

When you’re in a relationship, you might be dating immature girl to this ridiculous red flag. However, women with low levels of emotional intelligence will do anything to hog the spotlight.

Think about it. When you’re chatting about something, dating immature girl, how often does she bring the conversation back to her?

If you tell her you went skydiving, does she brag that she did it dating immature girl When someone else is pregnant, does dating immature girl cry about wanting children?

Emotionally immature women will do whatever it takes to be the center of attention. Worse still, the more you feed into their ego, the more they will play this card again and again.

7. She has serious mood swings — one minute she’s happy and loving, the next she is arguing with you about nothing

Extreme mood swings can be hard to handle. You might be talking to your partner — having a pleasant conversation — and then, dating immature girl, bam, her mood changes. She can go from happy to angry faster than you can say “Wait, dating immature girl, what are you talking about?”

One of the biggest side effects of emotional immaturity is wild mood swings.

The fact of the matter is that she cannot control her emotions. Dating immature girl control her. So, no matter how you try to calm her down, she will get angry/sad/mean out of nowhere. Watch out.

8. She can be flighty and impulsive, so you don’t know what she will do one moment to the next

When you first met dating immature girl partner, you loved her spontaneity. But now, a few months or years dating immature girl, that old act is growing old.

Having a relationship with an emotionally immature woman is exhausting. She will cancel plans, show up late, and book a last-minute flight.

Since her mood changes often, so do her plans, dating immature girl. What’s more, if you dare to question dating immature girl erratic behavior, you’ll be labeled the ‘bad guy’ or even ‘toxic male’. Don’t even go there.

What to Do If You’re Dating an Emotionally Immature Woman

Now that you’ve got a baseline understanding of emotionally immature women, you can answer the core question: Is your partner one of them?

If she regularly shows signs of emotional immaturity, your relationship is certain to be a trainwreck.

Can you save the relationship? And, more importantly, should you bother? Guys ask me these questions all the time… and here’s what I tell them:

1. Think hard about whether you want to continue with the relationship despite her immature behavior

First things first, consider whether this woman is right for you.

People can change, sure, dating immature girl, but you can’t guarantee that will happen. Before you start to work on things, think about whether you see a future that includes her.

Think long and hard here.

You might want to talk to a friend that you trust. Ask them what they think of her, and prepare yourself for an honest answer.

It’s tough but you’ve gotta do it. Having dating immature girl frank conversations now could save you time, energy, and hassle.

2. Speak to her directly about the behavior that is unacceptable and be clear that it cannot continue any longer

Okay, so you want to stay with her… what next?

Speak to her. Now, this will be difficult, especially as she’s likely to get defensive. Before you have this all-important conversation, do the following:

• Find a public place to meet
• Write down examples of her behavior
• Be clear about your aims (what she should quit doing)

Being direct about how her behavior is impacting the relationship is the only way to go. You’re going to have to be truthful, without being cruel here.

Of course, if you think she will kick off, it’s worth getting professional help. Couples counseling is never off the table.

3. Set a boundary — when she starts acting in an immature way, walk away from the situation and avoid engaging

You’ve had the talk. The next step is setting some boundaries and sticking to them: ‘If you do X, I will do Y’ and so on.

For example, you might tell her that if she starts verbally attacking you in arguments, you will leave them room. That’s a bold sugar daddy dating sites so you’d better follow through.

Set out your terms and then act on them. The next time she starts name-calling, you know what to do.

4. Whenever she acts in a mature and more positive manner, show her that you dating immature girl her dating immature girl have two words for you: positive reinforcement.

Keep in mind that we each teach people how to treat us. The way we respond to others lets them know whether their behavior is acceptable.

After you’ve had the talk, keep an eye on how your partner acts.

Whenever she is mature and positive, dating immature girl her know that you’ve noticed. Think of it as training a small child or animal to behave in a certain way.

The more positive feedback you give them, the more likely they are to repeat the same behavior again. And again.

The takeaway

Staying with an emotionally immature woman can be tiring and frustrating, dating immature girl. Despite your best efforts, she might never change.

The fact is, you don’t know what trauma and problems she has buried in her past. Those issues may be so deep-seated that it’s impossible for her to reach a real level of maturity.

If she’s worth the effort, prepare yourself for a long journey. It won’t be easy — dating immature girl by a long shot. However, my exclusive coaching program will give you the insights, strategies, and community support to move forward and build successful relationships. I give men the opportunity to harness their masculine power again and gain true fulfillment.

It has come to my attention that many women believe “real men” do not exist anymore. As if all of the “good guys” are gone, and the hashtag “#foreveralone” will define their lives indefinitely. The same women that make these claims are often the same women who are oblivious to those “good guys” that are all around them. The point of my rant is that I’m here to say that we do exist! We’re just in hiding.

We’re hiding from all of those women that believe twerking is a legitimate form of dancing, those that feel like cheating is acceptable (assuming no one finds out), and those that firmly believe not telling the whole truth isn’t lying. As a guy, it is easy to be roped into dating someone that doesn’t quite fit your idea of what an “ideal mate” might be. While it has been my misfortune to date some “unique” women, dating immature girl, I have learned a great deal from my experiences. The following list is meant to inform, not to person in custody over campus dating violence on, call out, or even upset anyone; this is simply an observational list of what I’ve seen while dating. Enjoy.

1. Her life is “so” complicated.

She works 10AM-6PM yet cannot dating immature girl to get her life in order. She’s consistently struggling with “stress” because she doesn’t get to spend enough time doing the things she wants to do, yet she goes out 3-4 times per week. Her parents still pay most of her bills because her college major won’t pay the bills…yet. Or so she says.

2. She’s unable to dating immature girl a decision without consulting her daddy.

Confidently making decisions is the sign of a true adult. We may have absolutely NO idea if it is the right one, dating immature girl, but we make it, learn from it, and move on. If your girlfriend needs to have a phone conference with her “daddy” to figure out if it’s “OK” to put air in the tires of her car, reconsider the fact that she’s your girlfriend.

3. She has champagne tastes on a PBR budget.

Sure, that Louis Vuitton handbag looks dating immature girl tucked under her spray-tanned skin and dyed hair, but if she worries about paying rent this month, her priorities are clearly out of order.

4. She’s simply “figuring out her next move.”

The uncertain, unmotivated, “drifting through life” type of female is more common than one might think. I’ve had the great pleasure of meeting several driven, dating immature girl, successful dating immature girl that make it even worse for this type of girl. You wonder if they’ll ever make moves that will ultimately lead them to their idea of success or if they’ll continue to work at the local five-and-dime.

5. She believes that “twerking” is an acceptable dance move in her mid-twenties.

Miley Cyrus is her “hero.” She dating a south american girl believes that no one can “hold her down” and “judge her,” but the truth is that everyone does. The way you represent yourself while out on the town still exists the next day. Just because you had one too many shots of vodka doesn’t mean the girl snapping your picture and posting it online did. Welcome to the world of social media.

6, dating immature girl. Lying, stealing, and cheating. Yeah.

7. She has a severe case of FOMO, dating immature girl.

Fear of missing out, also known as FOMO, dating immature girl, is one of the worst diseases to ever plague young women and men. It causes severe anxiety, depression, and a chronic use of the phrase, “Wish you were here!!!!” It’s hard to put into words how difficult it is to deal with someone that suffers from severe FOMO, but imagine being on a romantic getaway that you’ve dating immature girl planning for months, and your girlfriend is upset that she can’t “go out with dating immature girl girls to the piano bar.” Way to go, girl. Way to go.

8. She consistently talks about her ex-boyfriends.

While it’s important to understand where your significant other is coming from, if you take her to dinner and dating immature girl only thing she talks about is how her ex once took her to a fancy restaurant and what they ordered, dating immature girl, it’s excessive. Learn to filter. And by the way, the whole “I don’t have a filter” thing, yeah, that’s not real. And if it is, you should probably seek medical attention.

9. She is unable to speak in a logical fashion about anything.

If confronting your significant other about something simple turns into something that is out of control…run. Again, dating immature girl, the bigger things in life will require someone that has a level head, can think for themselves, and isn’t afraid of the unknown or at least won’t run from it.

10. She expects you to be there for her, but it isn’t reciprocated.

You break your back to make time for her, dating immature girl, but you’re still an option. Move on!

11. She can’t get over the fact that you have friends who are girls.

Some of my best friends are girls. They’ve never been anything but my friend, nor will they ever be, so why worry? Is it because you’re unable to control yourself with a guy friend? This type of action is worrisome. Personally speaking, I’m a professional, surrounded by PEOPLE, male and female, and respect them as such. While I do understand there is a fine line between being friends, lovers, and nothing, I believe that respect and trust go a long way.

12. She seeks the attention of others via massive amounts of selfies, dating immature girl.

I’ve taken selfies. I’ve added filters. I’ve hashtagged. But I do not seek the approval of others via a selfie. If your girlfriend’s Instagram account is more than 50% selfies… run! As a guy, you want to feel like your opinion matters when your dating single mom asks, “How do I look?” However, this question has been replaced by a newer one, “How many likes will this get?”

In summary, it’s quite obvious that this article won’t change the world, but I do hope that it will serve as a guide. Run away from all things negative, focus on finding the good, and hopefully you’ll be able to point out those situations that may cause future problems in your own romantic endeavors. Until next time, live well.

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It is often said that women mature faster than men. However, each person is different, and their levels of immaturity will vary.

Sometimes, dating immature girl, dating immature girl may find ourselves being in the company of someone who has not grown past their immaturity yet, even though they are already an adult.

According to experts, the signs of immaturity in a woman can include:

Are you dealing with a girl or a woman? The term maturity often only elicits thoughts of physical maturation. However, there are many types of maturity including emotional, social, mental, and spiritual. Dealing with immaturity can be exhausting!

So how do you tell the difference between an immature girl and a mature woman? Here are a few of the red flags to look out for:

Sign #1: Social media is equal to self worth

Do you know someone who measures their success by their number of likes or shares? Or someone who posts incessantly dating immature girl search of compliments or pats on the back? These habits may be dating immature girl of emotional immaturity.

Everyone loves validation, but seeking out constant feedback is indicative of dating site for long distance relationships individual not being mature enough to provide their own self-worth. Mature individuals create dating immature girl own self-worth, removing the need to “prove” their happiness/success/love on the social media platform.

Sign #2: Egocentrism is a sure sign of immaturity

Egocentrism is the belief that one’s needs and wants come before the needs and wants of those around them. For example, dating immature girl, when your partner asks for space or independence, their request is not an attack on you, dating immature girl, but a desire to fulfill needs that are important to them.

Individuals who are uncomfortable with others having needs and wants outside of their relationship are struggling with emotional immaturity.

Sign #3: Chaos is a lifestyle

Have you noticed that some people live in a constant state of chaos or experience a multitude of unfortunate events? A “poor me” narrative can sometimes lead to self-fulling prophecies of further chaos. This kind of mindset is often used to distract a person from taking accountability for their piece in the story.

A chaotic lifestyle is difficult to break out of. Once a person dating immature girl themselves as a victim, a cycle of helplessness can keep them in a vicious cycle. In some cases, a person secretly enjoys this type of lifestyle.

In my dating immature girl practice, I encounter many immature women. The good news is that people can and do change. Those who begin to take responsibility, own their mistakes, set healthy boundaries, and are honest with themselves can see results almost immediately!

Sign #4: She is not taking responsibility

It may very well be a long, troublesome cycle, however figuring out how to assume responsibility for your activities is a significant part of developing and maturing. Women tend to overlook responsibility when a man dating immature girl charge of things, some women don’t wanna take the initiative.

Sign #5: She is an attention seeker

There’s a distinction between appreciating the spotlight and continually waiting to be the focal point of attention — regardless of whether it’s to the lowering of others.

Some women always want to be the focal light of any situation even if it is not even related to them. Creating an attention-seeking image makes you vulnerable in others’ eyes.

Sign #6: She does not admit wrongdoings

Develop grown-ups aren’t hesitant to concede when they’re off-base or even wrong; immature grown-ups will stand firm in any event when all the proof is against them.

Mistakes are part of seeking your dating immature girl and some people do not understand that. An honest adult towards his or her dating immature girl goes a long way in life.

Sign #7: She can’t accept the opinions or feedback of other people

Ever interacted with dating immature girl woman who thinks she knows everything there is to know? Did she dismiss your opinions saying that your dating immature girl is not valid or her “way” is better?

If yes, that is a huge sign of immaturity in a woman. These kinds of women have not grown emotionally and mentally to accept that people have their own opinions and hers is not necessarily better.

These women are way too invested in themselves, dating immature girl. They free denmark dating site themselves on a pedestal. Mature women know how to listen and grow from people’s feedback.

Sign #8: She can’t own up to her mistakes

You will know that she has a lot of things to work upon herself if she is having difficulty owning up to her mistakes and taking responsibility. This could be problematic especially if you need to work with her but it would even be more difficult if you are in a relationship with her.

Sign #9: She makes it all about her

She does not acknowledge your feelings, opinions, and thoughts. Whenever something comes up, she makes it all about her—how she’s affected by it, what she thinks should be done, why it has this impact on her.

If dating immature girl does not take the time to hear you out and instead rambles on about her all the time, it is a clear sign that she is immature and has a lot of growing up to do.

Me, me, me is not a good mindset to have in any relationship. A mature person takes the time to see your perspective, amplifies your voice, while also voicing out their own side and creating a compromise together.

Sign #10: Judging others, gossiping behind other’s backs, and lacking empathy toward others

The pressures to know it all and be it all are overwhelming as a woman. From a young age, we’re coerced into believing we have to fit into society’s mold of nice enough, fit enough, smart enough, mom worthy, dating immature girl the list goes on.

This pressure often leads to a lack of clarity on who we truly are and what lights us up. We lose sight of our passions and unique strengths. We’re so exhausted from trying to be what we think we’re supposed to be that our authentic selves get thrown out the window.

We’re trying to dating immature girl up with the ever-changing landscape of what it means to be a “perfect” woman that we’re too distracted to stop and listen to our intuition poking us right dating 25 year old dailymial the face.

The result? Insecurity. I should say, insecurities because let’s face it when we don’t feel dating immature girl, the list of insecurities can run for miles.

Insecurities affect women differently but for many, immaturity is a direct symptom, dating immature girl.

Judging others, gossiping behind their backs, and lacking empathy toward others, are all examples of immature behavior that can result from these insecurities.

Related: 10+ Signs of Insecurity in a Woman

For example, if a woman grows up believing that she is not smart enough to be successful in business, dating immature girl, she may find ways to gossip about women who have found success. She may even seek out ways to pull attention away from those women.

This immature behavior is simply all she knows to dating immature girl her voice heard because she feels lost and unsure of who she is or how to make authentic, real connections. She hasn’t recognized her true, unique powers.

Immature women come from a place of feeling like they have to defend themselves, put on a show and, dating immature girl, be what they think others want them to be.

Because that doesn’t feel right or aligned with their core values, they’re constantly trying to “one-up” the other women dating immature girl “show her” they’re better.

To relieve herself of this immature behavior, she must get to the core of her insecurities and discover what limiting beliefs have been holding her back from confidently expressing herself authentically.

Once she is able to identify what her strengths are, dating immature girl, she will no longer feel the need to engage in immature behavior like gossip or bringing others down.

Sign #11: Immature women are reactive instead of responsive

None of us are perfect dating app for grad students when our imperfections materialize in a mistake, our response is a good indicator of our maturity. Of course, it hurts to be criticized and nobody likes making a mistake. An immature woman immediately shoots off an email full of emotion, accusations, and hurt. A mature response is measured, thoughtful, and generally takes a little longer than an immature reaction.

To act in a mature manner, first, make a commitment not to respond immediately. Take time to think through the situation and assess where you could have done better, communicated differently, prepared better. Take a look at the situation from the other person’s perspective and remember that most of the time, while criticism feels personal, it often isn’t.

Craft a response that recognizes first that the other person has suffered a setback, correct the error if you can, and share what you will be doing to ensure a better output in the future.

Finally, thank the other person for letting you know about the mishap. Maturity teaches us that we learn more through our failures than by always being successful.

An immature woman is someone who hasn’t evolved in every area of her life and immaturity after a certain age cannot be overlooked because it is glaring for all to see.

Most women think maturity comes with age but unfortunately, age is just a number and it isn’t a measurement of maturity, dating immature girl. Your character is questioned whenever you behave in childish ways to people in public and also in private.

Look out for these signs in a woman if you want to know if she’s immature.

Sign #12: An immature woman has zero communication skills

This is the most annoying sign of all. An immature woman has zero communication skills. She never takes responsibility for her mistakes and dating immature girl there’s always someone to blame. She’d rather keep malice with you than talk about her feelings and when you reach out to talk to her, dating immature girl, she ignores you or causes a scene.

Sign #13: She nags about everything

If she nags about any and everything, then she’s 100% immature. Does she also play the blame game when called out for doing something wrong? If yes, then this is a sign.

Sign #14: She doesn’t hold herself accountable for the choices that she makes

She doesn’t hold herself accountable for the choices that she makes in her personal life and career. She always finds a way to shift the blame to someone else.

Related: Why Do We Blame Others for Our Failures, Mistakes, and Problems?

Sign #15: She is unserious

She never takes things seriously; everything is a joke to her. You can’t trust her because she doesn’t keep to her words and promises. You’re practically walking on egg shells around her.

Sign #16: She never apologizes

She’s always right, and every other person is wrong. She rarely apologizes when she has offended you but she expects you to apologize for what she did.

Sign #17: She runs her mouth

Is she fond of telling people’s secrets to strangers and anyone who’s willing to listen to what she has to say? She has tea on everyone she comes in contact with and won’t hesitate to spill it at the slightest provocation. You’re better off not telling her anything that concerns you.

Sign #18: She’s vengeful

If you dating immature girl her or do something to dating immature girl her off, she’ll make sure she goes to any length to make your life a living hell even if it means lying against you. Once she’s made single fathers dating her mind to get back at you for what you did to her, there’s nothing you can do about it.

Sign #19: She has tantrums

When things don’t go her way, she throws tantrums like a five-year-old. Shouting unnecessarily, cursing you out, crying, dating immature girl, throwing things at you, etc., are all signs of dating immature girl in a woman.

Growing up is a natural process of personality formation. Unfortunately, many people grow up and still remain a child inside. These are those who are called immature individuals.

Sign #20: She is not capable of taking responsibility

A simple example: a girl works in a low-paid job and all the time complains that she does not have enough money. A mature person would act in this situation as follows: they would get additional knowledge, develop professional skills to go for a promotion, or find a more prestigious job.

An immature personality in such a situation will not try to improve their lives, dating immature girl, instead, dating immature girl will blame anyone for this: the boss, parents, the government, and soon.

Sign dating immature girl She is dating immature girl of constant resentment

Another factor is constant resentment. You did not answer her call, did not call back – an immature person will be offended because this is exactly what children do. If a girl requires constant care, this also speaks of her immaturity.

Sign #22: She cannot cover for her needs

Adults should be able to cover their needs on their own. If she cannot go to the store herself (provided that she does not have a disability), complains that she is lonely all the time, requires constant moral support, wants everyone to put themselves in her shoes – be sure, you face an immature personality.

Sign #23: She is constantly manipulating

Another signal of unhealthy behavior is that she never speaks directly about her wishes, dating immature girl, but instead is constantly manipulating. At dating immature girl same time, without getting what she wants, she will easily become aggressive. An immature person never asks for forgiveness, since they do not know how to admit mistakes.

Immaturity doesn’t have a gender difference, it’s also neither good nor bad. Frankly, about 99% of people exhibit immaturity in one area of life or the other, and that’s totally okay.

It’s an adopted behavioural pattern, that can live in a family for generations. People learn behaviour from their closest surrounding, dating immature girl, friends and family, more so family though. Certain patterns are actually in the DNA. And every pattern helped previous generation survive.

We tend to believe, that survival of the fittest is what drives evolution, but no one describes fittest. And a lot of the time the ones survive, who can hide better, who can deceive and persuade.

Sign #24: She has a constant need to take

Now when it comes to immaturity, one of the main traits, dating immature girl, that point to immaturity is the inability to “give back”, or “accept”, but constant need to “take”. It stems again from the survival mechanism, that we learn as children.

For example dating immature girl woman, dating immature girl, who expects a man to financially support her, dating immature girl, without the responsibility for her own skills of making money. It doesn’t mean, that being a housewife for example is immature, but if she “demands” (take) from her husband to support her, that’s like a cry baby, that wants her toys in the store.

Immaturity is also a shadow of self worth. Dating immature girl Self worth comes from the relationship with dating immature girl and father, irrelevant of wether one of them or both of them were present in the person’s life.

On the other hand, a woman, usually professional, successful in her business or career, who is not able to ask or accept help. Because they are hard workers, they might feel, that asking for help will undermine them. This behavior of “I’ll do it myself” is exhibited in children at an age of about 3-6 years.

Depending on how much freedom a child dating immature girl given at that age by her parents, she is able to outgrow it then or continue carrying the self-establishing pattern into the older ages.

Sign #25: She mirrors victimized and aggressive behavior

Immaturity is often accompanied by a “victimized” and “aggressive” behavior, sort of like kids deal with parents, they will whine or cry first to get what they want, and if that doesn’t work they might become aggressive, start hitting, throw things and yell.

Again, I want to emphasize, that neither behavior is good or bad. It just exists. It’s a tactic one brings into their life from their childhood. Whichever one worked better. And most of the time, we actually exhibit both. Because dating in late 30s for men kids we learn to use one on one parent, and the other one on the other parent or a parental figure.

Immaturity also has stages, those dating immature girl usually childhood ages where we gradually develop skills and behaviour to progress. 0-3 yo, 3-6, 6-12, 12-16, 16-18, dating immature girl. These ages are not strict borderlines, but every period is characterized with certain developmental milestones.

I can say, that maturity is by far the hardest thing to acquire in every aspect of our dating immature girl, but once we do, everything becomes much more clear and simple, more results with less effort for sure.

In answer to your question, I believe there are several signs of immaturity that cross gender barriers:

Sign #26: She is all talk

The first thing people world muslim free dating site to notice about someone (after their good looks, of course) are the things they say. When trying to impress, people will say just about anything. Your biggest clue to their immaturity will be whether or not they follow through or back up what they say with verifiable action.

Sign #27: She is unable or unwilling to be vulnerable

All successful relationships have a strong dating immature girl of trust. That trust creates undeniable intimacy where two people are free to reveal their innermost thoughts and desires without fear of judgement or mocking. An immature person will not be able (or be willing) to open themselves up completely and show that ultimate trust with their partner.

Sign #28: She turns your bad feelings into a fault

If there’s one person in a relationship constantly accusing their partner of being “too sensitive”… it’s very likely that person is too immature to handle taking responsibility for their actions, dating immature girl.

Repeatedly guilt-tripping or refusing to acknowledge poor behavior and blaming the other person is the sign of a narcissistic personality, and you should run far away!

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You might have found someone amazing (lucky you!) – someone you’re attracted to, who’s great fun, and who all your friends love.

But as you’ve gotten to know them, you’ve noticed a few things that suggest they’re not as emotionally mature as you are.

This can really affect your relationship with them, and can put a massive strain on you too.

And whilst it needn’t always spell disaster, dating immature girl, it’s good to know for sure whether your partner is emotionally immature.

Here are 13 signs that you can look for…

1. They avoid emotional intimacy.

One of the best things about being in a healthy, loving relationship is the ability to connect on a deeper level.

You’ve been through the dating stage of gently touching on surface-level issues, dating immature girl, and you now have the intimacy and trust to talk about real life.

Or you should do, at least.

If your partner is unwilling to have proper conversations or discussions about the things that really matter, they may not have fully grown up yet.

They might make silly jokes while you’re trying dating immature girl discuss something important, or repeatedly brush off the bigger issues that you’re asking for their support on.

Either way, they’re not meeting your emotional needs right now. 

2. They exhibit childish behaviors.

It’s pretty self-explanatory, but a clear sign of emotional immaturity is acting like a child, teenager, or student.

Maybe it’s silly little things like not cleaning up after themselves, asking for help with basic tasks like laundry, or literally acting like a toddler.

It can be incredibly draining to be around someone who just cannot act like an dating immature girl, and it can make you question your relationship with them. 

3. They are dependent on free dating sites with free messaging your partner struggles to be alone or is very needy (with you, their parents, or a close friend), they may not be as emotionally mature as you are.

It can be difficult to find a healthy level of support, but if they’re overly dependent on someone else, you need to consider what’s really going on.

It’s exhausting to be around someone who can’t dating immature girl decisions for themselves, or who refuses to spend any time alone.

If it’s you that they’re relying on, your relationship will struggle if you never get alone-time either! 

4. They get defensive in a fight.

It’s normal to have discussions, even arguments, in a relationship. It would be weird and boring if you agreed on everything, after all.

If, however, they get incredibly defensive when you argue, it’s a sign they are emotionally stunted.

It’s fine to defend yourself or explain how you’re feeling/ why you did something, dating immature girl, but most adults are capable of doing so without becoming childishly defensive.

If they try to change the topic or start randomly blaming you, dating immature girl, there’s a real issue here. 

5. They are unable to commit.

Whether it’s to a long-term relationship, talking about your future, or sticking to a plan to go out for dinner together, they struggle to commit to things.

That’s not to say that anyone who doesn’t want a relationship is immature – but that the maturity comes from making choices that reflect how you really feel.

If they don’t want a relationship, they shouldn’t be in one. If they don’t want to have dinner with you, they shouldn’t have agreed to it.

Emotional maturity comes from being authentically yourself – and being honest about what that looks like and what other people’s expectations of you realistically are. 

6. They disregard your feelings.

Your partner might regularly do things that hurt your feelings – and do so knowingly.

If they’re disregarding your feelings regularly (more than a couple of one-offs across the years) and don’t seem capable of changing their behavior, they’re not mature enough for a proper relationship.

They’re too selfish to be with someone else and they either need to make a change or let you go. 

7. They don’t take responsibility.

Do they often blame things on other people (including you) and refuse to acknowledge their part in events?

This is a huge red flag.

Being a partner means acknowledging and owning who you are.

It doesn’t mean that you’re perfect and never make mistakes, but that you own up when you’ve done something wrong and you actively work on becoming a better version of yourself. 

8. They are unwilling to compromise.

Is it always you apologizing after a fight, even if it was them who started it?

Maybe you’re the one who gives in first, or lets things go more often?

Do you forsake your own desires and happiness for dating immature girl more than they do for you?

Relationships are all about compromises, sure, but you should both make them equally.

A lot of emotionally immature people dating immature girl unwilling to compromise – their childlike, selfish ego disregards any alternative to getting what they want. 

9. They try to make you jealous.

Your partner may be into playing ‘games’ – and not the good kind.

They might try to make you jealous by texting ex-partners, flirting on nights out, dating immature girl, or telling you how hot your best friend is.

This isn’t funny or silly; it’s unfair and it’s childish. You deserve someone who doesn’t need or want to play these kinds of games with you.

Emotionally immature people will do this to ‘test’ you sometimes, or to intentionally hurt you and make you question dating my daughter online self-worth.

It can be a sign of emotional abuse and is a sign of someone who is unhealthy in themselves. 

10. They are disconnected from your life.

If your partner regularly avoids meeting your friends and family, it’s a sign that they haven’t yet fully matured.

They don’t want to commit to anything this important and will find ways to get out of it.

This may be because they’re not confident enough, but they may also not be willing to sacrifice their own time for something that doesn’t really benefit them or make them immediately happy. 

11. They are begrudging of your success.

If your partner can’t celebrate your successes without comparing them to dating immature girl own successes (or lack thereof), you’re probably with someone immature.

They should be able to celebrate and support you without instantly taking it as a personal affront that you’re doing ‘better’ than them, or are more liked, have more friends, get paid more, etc.

Whatever the great thing in your life is, they should be celebrating it, not resenting it. 

12. They are unwilling to move on.

Do they bring up the same issues over and over again, or shut you out after an argument?

Nobody is a saint, sure, but we all just have to let things go and move on at some point. It’s okay to still feel the feelings, but it’s not okay to continuously express them once the matter is closed.

If you’ve argued about something and agreed to just close the door on it and move on, they shouldn’t bring it up and hold it over your head.

If they can’t be mature and deal with things in a healthy, sensible way, there’s a bigger issue here. It’s unfair of them to keep making you feel guilty, or keep blaming you or picking a fight over something you’ve agreed to put behind you.

It’s also unfair if they shut you out after an argument – sure, everyone needs some space to cool off, but you shouldn’t be made to feel like you’re being ‘punished’ with the silent treatment just because your partner is too immature to have an adult conversation. 

13. They are always the victim.

Have you started noticing that nothing is ever their fault; that they’re always the one who was wronged?

Maybe they’re always complaining about being treated badly or being hurt by those around them.

Of course, this could absolutely be true. If it’s not, and you know this for a fact, they may just be stuck in a cycle of victimizing themselves.

This is a symptom of emotional immaturity and suggests that they have some serious self-esteem issues they need to work on.

Many people reframe issues to show themselves as the victim because they want attention and affection – and the best way to get that is to get people to feel sorry for them.

This could be a wider issue linked to a history of emotional abuse or neglect, so it’s worth monitoring this behavior and suggesting they see a counselor. 

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Emotional immaturity can be due to a huge range of issues, and, while it’s easy to read this list and condemn your partner, it’s always important to consider the context.

There may be some underlying issues that need to be addressed, or you may need to genuinely reconsider your relationship with them.

Some people can change and grow, some will not until they get professional help or pro-actively do the work.

You need to weigh up the relationship – are you happy for someone to leave dirty dishes out if they make you happy the rest of the time?

Is it worth staying with someone who checked literally every box on this dating immature girl or are you just scared to be alone?

Reflect on this article, speak to a loved one you trust, and get professional help if you need to talk about it with an expert.

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Do you know the difference between a strong woman and a little girl?

If she is there for you, accepts you for who you are, and is willing to fight for your love, then she is a strong woman you can count on. But if she never apologizes for her mistakes and doesn’t care about your feelings, then she is an immature girl who probably doesn’t give a damn about you.

Strong women are truly out israel dating sites free this world. They are ambitious, determined, and powerful. They stop at nothing to protect the people they care for. When they love, they love deeply, and it definitely shows.

Is the woman you’re dating a mature, trustworthy partner?

Here are 7 telling signs you are in love with a strong woman:

1. She values the importance of compromises. 

Every grown woman knows how important making compromises is in a relationship. She is fully aware that sometimes she needs to back up instead of insisting on her righteousness at all costs. Understandably, dating immature girl, she demands you to be willing to compromise too, as it is a mutual process.

2. She accepts you for who you are. 

This amazing woman isn’t trying to change you or put you down for who you are. Instead, she accepts you with all of your flaws and imperfections. And in case you want to change something in your life, she supports your decisions and encourages you to move forward.

3. She acknowledges her mistakes. 

Whenever she messes up, she is not afraid to admit her mistakes, apologize, and bravely face the consequences. While immature girls would often avoid taking responsibility for their actions, grown women know how to make up for their wrongdoings.

4. She knows that communication is key. 

If she has decided you are worthy of her love, then she would not hesitate to let you in. What’s more, whenever there is a problem in your relationship, instead of overlooking it or giving you the silent treatment, she would always be dating immature girl to talking things through. This way, you will be able to solve your problems as a strong and healthy couple.

5. She loves to discuss her future with you. 

Strong women never settle for partners they can’t see a future with. If your significant other is such an inspiring female, spicy dating app dating immature girl she definitely sees an exceptional potential in your bond. This means you play a significant role in her plans, which is why she loves to talk about the future with you.

6. She appreciates everything you do for her. 

Even if she doesn’t say it as often as you wish, she acknowledges all the little things you do for her. She knows that you are willing to go the extra mile for her, and she would do the same for you. She cares for you deeply and doesn’t miss a chance to let you know how much your kind gestures mean to her, dating immature girl. That’s another significant sign distinguishing a strong woman from a little, immature girl.

7. She is there for you, even in the storms. 

Your other half is there for you when no one else is. She holds your hand in your darkest hours. She is willing to defy the whole world to defend you. If she holds you together when you’re falling apart, dating immature girl, then she is a strong woman you must never disregard.