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A new online dating site has been launched with the aim of catering to couples in open relationships, people seeking polyamorous partners, and those exploring their sexual curiosity, by helping modern swingers meet like-minded individuals in a 'judgement-free' zone.  

OpenMinded founder and CEO Brandon Wade, 44, from Las Vegas, Nevada, told Daily Mail Online that his new website is 'an answer to cheating' because it encourages those who are wary of monogamy to enter open relationships. The site for 'ethical cheaters, which launched yesterday, is not a place for 'hook-ups' but rather it is an outlet for those who are part of the new wave of non-monogamous relationships.  

'Monogamy is a choice, but it’s not the only choice,' Mr Wade explained. 'For many people, it is unrealistic. People commit adultery every day, behind their partners' backs, and we want them to seek out open relationships instead, leading to a happier and more honest society.'

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Then and now: OpenMinded founder and CEO Brandon Wade is a graduate of MIT (L). He met his wife Tanya (R) during a job interview and married her two years later in 2012

The entrepreneur noted that the site is firmly 'anti-cheating' because it encourages users to be forthright with their choices.

'This is a community where all types of honest relations are encouraged and sought, including polyamory, swinging, monogamish relationships and even platonic friendships,' Mr Wade said. 

Users can sign up for free as a single person or as a couple; after establishing their gender identify, they can then regulate their preferences, which can include men, women or both, as well as singles or couples.

According to Mr Wade, open relationship are not nearly as taboo as they once were, as 'compersion' continues to catch on among couples.

The term, which was coined by the now defunct Kerista Commune in San Francisco, is used to describe the joy people feel when their partners are engaging in activities that make them happy. Compersion is often explained as being the opposite of jealousy and is most frequently used when discussing polyamory, a belief which encourages people to have more than one sexual partner at any one time.

'Even the most vanilla couples are beginning to participate in open relationships,' Mr Wade explained. 

Modern romance: A man can be seen checking out another woman while surrounded by ladies in a video ad for the new dating website OpenMinded, which is geared towards those in or seeking open relationships 

And Mr Wade has even created his own term to describe this way of life, referring to it as 'ethical cheating'.  

'What some outsiders to the lifestyle might see as cheating, those in open relationships see this as an ethical and honest lifestyle, hence the somewhat oxymoronic term,' he said. 'I basically want to attract attention to the lifestyle and show people that it is an acceptable choice.'

The MIT graduate noted that 'society is shifting towards a more open minded idea of relationships and matrimony', and he may be right.

Polyamorous couples and swingers have been in the spotlight in recent years, with shows including Showtime's reality series Polyamory: Married & Dating, which first premiered in 2012, and A&E's controversial new reality Neighbors With Benefits, which was canceled after two episodes, bringing the concept of various types of open relationships to American's living rooms. 

Meanwhile, Adam Lyons, 34, a Los Angeles resident who was born in East London, and his two girlfriends Brooke Shedd, 26, and Jane Shalakhova, 25, have made waves after speaking candidly to the media about their polyamorous family.

Brooke, who recently gave birth to Adam's son, a baby boy named Danté, also has a five-year-old son Oliver from a previous relationship, and the 'throuple' hope to raise the children together in Los Angeles. 

Raining men: Mr Wade said his website, which promotes honesty, is 'an answer to cheating' 

Variety is the spice of life: OpenMinded aims to attract couples in open or polyamorous relationships, swingers, singles looking to experiment and everyone in between

'As long as this is something openly discussed, the rewards greatly outweigh the risks,' Mr Wade said of entering an open relationship. 'Monogamy is not the default anymore.' 

Mr Wade is also the man behind the 2007 launch of the controversial 'sugar baby' and 'sugar daddy' dating website Seeking Arrangements, which pairs wealthy benefactors with young women for a mutually beneficial arrangement.

The businessman met his wife Tanya, who is reportedly more than 20 years younger than him, on a job interview. They married in 2012 after two years of dating. 

Mr Wade's other niche sites Miss Travel, which allows women to travel for free with a 'generous member' and WhatsYourPrice, which enables 'generous men' to bid on women's affections.

Not surprisingly, the man who has made a living off of pairing attractive young women with rich men wrote that 'love is a concept invented by poor people' in an essay he penned for CNN. 

But he's not a complete cynic when it comes to being faithful to one person and one person only.   

'Monogamy is realistic for those who want it and are able to maintain it,' he told Daily Mail Online. 'But for those who cannot or do not want to, we want them to know they are not alone, and should be completely open about their decisions.'

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Let’s be real, negotiating the world of threesomes isn't exactly as seamless as you see in movies. Thankfully, threesome apps can be an excellent tool if you’re on the prowl for a ménage à trois.

“Looking for threesomes online is ideal," says sex coach Tiffany Yelverton, founder of EnticeMe.com and Sexy Survivors. "It gives people more discretion than going to a club and is a good way for newbies to ‘dip their toes in’ if they haven’t tried it before.” Plus, “just the thought of looking and exploring can add spice to a relationship, and simply imagining adding a third person can often be enough for some couples.”

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Whether you’re single or paired-up, read on for experts' favorite threesome apps and tips for making the most of each one. And it goes without saying: Bookmark these babies for *after* this whole COVID-19 situation clears up. Heck, hopping into bed with a third seems like one heck of a post-pandemic party, if you ask me. In the meantime, fantasize...

Best for threesome newbies: 3rder

You're in for a good, good time with this app, which allows you to join as either a single individual or as part of a couple. “It’s one of the more popular apps for those looking for a female third-party,” says Brenda Wade, PhD, advisor to Online for Love.

In general, Wade has three key guidelines when it comes to engaging in threesomes:

1. Set boundaries from the outset. Is kissing okay? Maybe, maybe not! And if you plan on engaging in BDSM, create a safe word.
2. Stay sober. “It’s totally understandable to want to drink before engaging in a threesome to calm nerves,” says Wade. “But drinking lowers sexual inhibitions and your ability to maintain boundaries.”
3. Beware of jealousy. “Whether good or bad, having a threesome will teach you about how you handle jealousy,” says Wade. If you’re a jealous person, acknowledge it up front—and see guideline #1.

Best for serious threesome fans: Feeld

This app is one of the best of the bunch if you’re looking for an option that caters exclusively to threesomes. “It works for both singles and couples,” says Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, PhD, professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University, Fullerton. “Simply sign up and state if you're single looking to enter a threesome or a couple finding a third.” One major perk: “The software is linked with Facebook so you can choose to ‘hide’ from your FB contacts,” she adds. Done.

Best for other sexual adventures: #Open

If you’re, well, open to a broad spectrum of horizontal adventures, this is the site for you. Ideal for pursuing non-monogamous threesomes, polyamory, and BDSM, the app is also great for the LGBTQI+ community. When making your profile, establish some boundaries so potential partners can get a sense of what you truly seek, says Amanda Pasciucco, LMFT, a certified sex therapist based in Connecticut. Try: “We have only Fridays available,” “we don’t text sex partners,” or “we only do threesomes quarterly,” she says.

Best for those who know what they want: 3Somer

Hello, threesome-verse. “This app is 100 percent dedicated to threesomes,” says Jason Lee, a relationship science and data analyst with HealthyFramework.com. “While you're going to run into a lower volume of people on this app, everyone is looking for the same thing.” And isn't that the whole point?

Best for casual threesomes and group sex: Get It On

Once you sign up, whether solo or as a couple (the app works well for either), you’ll be asked to choose if you are looking for a threesome or another kind of group sex, says Chris Pleines, the chief dating officer of DatingScout.com in Germany. Note: This app is best for sex of the no-strings-attached variety.

Best for those who hate downloading new apps: Tinder

You may be surprised, but Tinder has become a surprisingly hot spot to scope out threesomes. “Tinder already has that ‘hook up’ reputation,” says Suwinyattichaiporn. If you’re in the market for a threesome, explicitly communicate this desire in your profile. “Open communication, honest self-disclosure, and lighthearted interaction is the best way to initiate a threesome online,” she says. “Your profile should clearly indicate ‘we're a couple, here to find the right third for a little sensual adventure’ or ‘I'm single, sex-positive, and open to being a third in a threesome.’”

When you’re ready to reach out to someone through your app, reference a threesome straight off the bat, she says. Try: “Hey! I saw the 3some note on your profile, and I'm super intrigued. Would you like to chat more about it?” says Suwinyattichaiporn.

Best for swingers: Swing Lifestyle

This app aspires to make the swingers community more mainstream, and users can check out threesomes and group sex galore on this popular site. “Its large member database gives you higher chances of meeting like-minded individuals,” says Pleines. Also, if the voyeuristic aspect of threesomes turns you on, you may find plenty of arrangements that allow you to simply be a spectator to others getting down.

Best for trying something new: 3way

Suwinyattichaiporn calls this app “up and coming,” noting that it’s recently gained more users, and it’s definitely one to keep on your radar for when the time is right. “You can identify as a couple seeking a third or a single seeking adventure. The app includes all kinds of sexual orientations, so it’s a diverse space to explore,” she says.

Best for casual fun: OKCupid

A non-threesome specific app choice for many, Yelverton likes that OKCupid provides a variety of search options in relationship types. “I believe it is important to be open, transparent, and intentional when creating a profile."

She continues: “A good way to state your intentions on your profile is to put, ‘I’m open to....’ followed by the specifics you're looking for, such as men, women, couple, casual, poly, relationship, long-term." You can also start with “My partner and I are searching for…”

Best for experienced sex-plorers: Passion.com

This is one of the top platforms if you’re looking for sexually focused relationships, like threesomes. “The app isn't purely focused on threesomes, so you'll want to note what you're looking for on your profile,” Lee says. And be direct: “This isn't the time to be cryptic or wishy-washy about what you're looking for,” Lee says. “If you take that approach, you'll be inundated with a ton of requests for things you're probably not interested in.”

Best for all sorts of fantasies: 99Flavors

Welcome to the sexual playground equivalent of the good old-fashioned ice cream store, where there are seemingly endless choices to satiate every kind of desire. Even though it’s not specifically geared toward threesomes, you should have no problem finding plenty of leads in this realm. “This site is for people looking for sexual adventures, and with over 90 million members worldwide, you'll surely meet others who are like-minded,” says Pleines.

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As a matter of fact, swing is a joint sex of two couples (not always married) who exchange partners or have sex right in front of them.

Swingers, as they usually call themselves, hang out at various swinger sites in order to look for potential partners faster and in a more productive way.

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You might find it rather strange but the number of people who go in for swing increases by millions every year. The fact is that the society and people’s worldview become more open to new expertise and sensations (including sexual).

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• The State of Being Sexually Active. Some people are totally satisfied with having sex two times a week. However, some people find it “not enough” to have sex two times a… day. The desire to have more “jazz” and to have it more “versatile” is in the blood. It is basically almost an instinct.
• The Necessity of Sex Diversification. Monogamy is not the thing we are born with. It is the thing dictated to us by the society. A healthy human being is seldom satisfied with having a single sex-partner during the larger share of his/her lifetime. Swing is the loophole for married people (and not only married) to get an “official permission to have sex outside the marriage”.
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Basically, swing is the niche “sex-option”. It will never go global and it will always stay popular within a rather limited “group of fans”.

Consequently, before picking it up and trying out with your partner some day, you have to be crystal sure that is it right what you need. Otherwise, the necessary effect won’t be fully achieved or will be even lost.

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So far, more than 1 million members have joined 3way. They can chat, match, meet and date freely. Because 3way is an open social network, from open-minded couples to curious singles, from straight to gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer or transgender, it is open to everyone who are looking to explore their dating desires in a safe and private space.

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As a matter of fact, swing is a joint sex of two couples (not always married) who exchange partners or have sex right in front of them.

Swingers, as they usually call themselves, hang out at various swinger sites in order to look for potential partners faster and in a more productive way.

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A new online dating site has been launched with the aim of catering to couples in open relationships, people seeking polyamorous partners, and those exploring their sexual curiosity, by helping modern swingers meet like-minded individuals in a 'judgement-free' zone.  

OpenMinded founder and CEO Brandon Wade, dating sites swingers, 44, from Las Vegas, Nevada, told Daily Mail Online that his new website is 'an answer to cheating' because it encourages those who are wary of monogamy to enter open relationships. The site for 'ethical cheaters, dating sites swingers, which launched yesterday, is not a place for 'hook-ups' but rather it is an outlet for those who are part of the new wave of non-monogamous relationships.  

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Then and now: OpenMinded founder and CEO Brandon Wade is a graduate of MIT (L). He met his wife Tanya (R) during a job interview and married her two years later in 2012

The entrepreneur noted that the site is firmly 'anti-cheating' because it encourages users to be forthright with their choices.

'This is a community where all types of honest relations are encouraged and sought, including polyamory, swinging, monogamish relationships and even platonic friendships,' Mr Wade said. 

Users can sign up for free as a single person or as a couple; after establishing their gender identify, they can then regulate their preferences, which can include men, women or both, as well as singles or couples.

According to Mr Wade, open relationship are not nearly as taboo as they once were, as 'compersion' continues to catch on among couples.

The term, which was coined by the now defunct Kerista Commune in San Francisco, is used to describe the joy people feel when their partners are engaging in activities that make them happy, dating sites swingers. Compersion is often explained as being the opposite of jealousy and is most frequently used when discussing polyamory, dating sites swingers, a belief which encourages people to have more than one sexual partner at any one time.

'Even the most vanilla couples are beginning to participate in open relationships,' Mr Wade explained. 

Modern romance: A man can be seen checking out another woman while surrounded by ladies in a video ad for asian girl dating website new dating website OpenMinded, which is geared towards those in or seeking open relationships 

And Mr Wade has even created his own term to describe this way of life, referring to it as 'ethical cheating'.  

'What some outsiders to the lifestyle might see as cheating, those in open relationships see this as an ethical and honest lifestyle, hence the somewhat oxymoronic term,' he said. 'I basically want to attract attention to the lifestyle and show people that it is an acceptable choice.'

The MIT graduate noted that 'society is shifting towards a more open minded idea of relationships and matrimony', and he may be right.

Polyamorous couples and swingers have been in the spotlight in recent years, with shows including Showtime's reality series Polyamory: Married & Dating, which first premiered in 2012, and A&E's controversial new reality Neighbors With Benefits, which was canceled after two episodes, bringing the concept of various types of open relationships to American's living rooms. 

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Brooke, who recently gave birth to Adam's son, a baby boy named Danté, also has a dating sites swingers son Oliver from a previous relationship, and the 'throuple' hope to raise the children together in Los Angeles. 

Raining men: Mr Wade said his website, which promotes honesty, is 'an answer to cheating' 

Variety is the spice of life: OpenMinded aims to attract couples in open or polyamorous relationships, swingers, singles looking to experiment and everyone in between

'As long as this is something openly discussed, the rewards greatly outweigh the risks,' Mr Wade said of entering an open relationship. 'Monogamy is not the default anymore.' 

Mr Wade is also the man behind the 2007 launch of the controversial 'sugar baby' and 'sugar daddy' dating sites swingers website Seeking Arrangements, which pairs wealthy benefactors with young women for a mutually beneficial arrangement.

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Mr Wade's other niche sites Miss Travel, which allows women to travel for free with a 'generous member' and WhatsYourPrice, which dating sites swingers 'generous men' to bid on women's affections.

Not surprisingly, the man who has made a living off of pairing attractive young women with rich men wrote that 'love is a concept invented by poor people' in an essay he penned for CNN. 

But he's not a complete cynic when it comes to being faithful to one person and one person only.   

'Monogamy is realistic for those who want it and are able to maintain it,' he told Daily Mail Online. 'But for those who cannot or do not want to, we want them to know they are not alone, and should be completely open about their decisions.'

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Myth #2: Non-monogamy is easier than monogamy

Another idea that’s floating around out there is that non-monogamous relationships are becoming so popular in our monogamy dominated society because monogamy is this challenging thing that takes time, dedication and hard work, whereas non-monogamy is…well…easy.

On the contrary, non-monogamy can be just as challenging as monogamy is, if not more so at times, as it introduces challenges into relationships that monogamous folks don’t have to grapple with quite as much. For example…

Time Management

For one thing, it isn’t as though non-monogamous people are suddenly granted more hours in a day, more days in the week, etc. We’re managing jobs, friends, family, dating sites swingers, pets and even kids just like the rest of the world. Except…with multiple partners. Dating sites swingers away that necessitates a lot more planning than monogamous folk have to worry about. A simple, “Just thought I’d swing by and surprise you for lunch,” can be a wee bit awkward if you’ve already got a lunch date with someone else. You met a great girl at a café and she told you she’s free this Thursday. Great!

Except…you agreed with your primary partner that Thursday was their day to ensure your quality time. But café girl goes out of town for two weeks on Friday. Do you wait two weeks and risk the fizzle, dating sites swingers, or talk to your partner about making an exception?

When there are more than two, it gets a lot more complicated. Fast. Especially in modern society where traditional dating rituals are quickly being deemed old-fashioned and uncool, and people are more inclined to just go with the flow. Such a thing is not a realistic option with multiple partners, which requires a greater level of transparency upfront and necessitates dating sites swingers communication. But scheduling is not even the most intense challenge that people who chose to practice non-monogamy find themselves faced with, dating sites swingers. The biggest challenge non-monogamous folks face is rather monstrous, in fact. And green…

Jealousy

Some may best free german dating sites that if you choose to be non-monogamous, it must mean you don’t get jealous. That, or you’re in serious denial about your emotions. As it turns out, neither is the case.

People who practice non-monogamy are more than aware of the existence of jealousy, and more than capable of experiencing it themselves. Rather than the absence of jealousy, non-monogamy relies on an acceptance of jealousy, with the ultimate goal of acknowledging it, unlearning it, and replacing it with compersion - a feeling of happiness in one’s self derived from the happiness of another. In other words, when my partner is out on a date and I am at home with the cat, rather than stomping around in a jealous rage or torturing myself with what-if-he-leaves-me-for-her thoughts, I would aim to acknowledge my jealous pang as dating sites swingers normal feeling, but remind myself that my partner loves dating sites swingers, that they aren’t leaving, and to be happy that they’re enjoying themselves tonight and to enjoy my alone time with the cat. Or with Netflix. Whichever.

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You are not being asked simply to trust that your partner will obey your mutually established rules, but instead to trust in your mutually established love. Trust that a casual tryst will not threaten your love. Trust that a new partner is truly an addition and not a replacement. Trust that even as a secondary or tertiary lover, you are still cared for and respected.

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AdultFriendFinder is one of the biggest sex sites on the internet, and that’s the only reason anyone signs up: to find partners for getting laid.

The user base tends to be extremely open-minded, so they can easily be persuaded to try non-monogamy if the right opportunity comes along.

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There are a lot of bots and spammers to weed through, but that’s easy enough to do. They offer a free membership, but the paid version is much better (and very affordable).

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• A bit difficult to contact other members
• Paid membership required to do anything worth doing

SDC is a great choice for experienced swingers and newbies alike. Not only is it an active, swingers-only community, it has plenty of information about how to get the most out of the lifestyle.

You do have to pay to access the site, but there’s a weeklong free trial.

The registration process is a bit involved, dating sites swingers, but that’s a good thing, as it weeds out anyone who isn’t serious about finding swinging partners.

Contacting other members is a bit difficult as well. You have to pay for a membership to talk to anyone, and your ability to reach out depends on their contact settings.

3. SwapFinder — Best for Long-Lasting Relationships

Pros

• Functions more like social networking site rather than dating site
• Good for making deeper connections
• Great for long-lasting setups
• Allows users to stay anonymous

Cons

• No dating app available
• Mobile experience is poor

Geared towards casual sex in general, dating sites swingers, SwapFinder is a huge social networking site for those in the swinger lifestyle.

Rather than being a pure meet-and-greet site, it functions more like a sexual Facebook; members post pics, stories, and videos about their sex lives in order to attract like-minded individuals.

As a result, the connections made here tend to be deeper, and it’s great for finding an ongoing thing rather than a one-off. You can still stay anonymous, as you’ll rely on usernames instead of any identifying information.

They don’t have an app, though, and the mobile experience is less than ideal. You’ll need a desktop (and a paid subscription) to get the most out of SwapFinder.

4. SwingLifeStyle — Best for In-Person Meetups

Pros

• Oldest swinger dating website
• Geared towards in-person meetups
• Helpful for forming your own swinging groups
• Older but enthusiastic user base

Cons

• Not ideal for personal connections
• Less free chat dating apps than other sites

SwingLifeStyle is the oldest website dedicated to the lifestyle on the internet, and it’s built up a small but dedicated user base.

It’s primarily geared towards in-person meetups in clubs, so it’s not ideal for anyone looking to find a one-on-one connection. However, dating sites swingers, if you want to find a large event or an enthusiastic community, it’s definitely the dating sites swingers to be.

If you live in an area where other swingers are hard to come by, it also makes it easy to network and form your own groups.

The user base tends to skew older, but it is mainly couples, dating sites swingers, so you don’t have to worry about a bunch of sketchy single men.

5. Reddit Swingers R4R — Best Free Options

Pros

• Free to use
• Purely dedicated to swingers
• Rules limit spammers
• Nano tipping available to encourage better posts

Cons

• Limited number of posters
• Easy to get banned

One of the few free swingers sites that’s actually worth your time, Reddit Swingers R4R is a great way to find real partners in your area.

This particular subreddit is purely dedicated to the swinger lifestyle, so you don’t have to worry about any other close-but-no-cigar options. They also limit how many times you post per day, drastically cutting down on spammers.

You also can’t sell anything like your cam site or OnlyFans account, but they do allow for nano tipping to encourage higher-quality posts.

The pickings are kind of slim, though, dating sites swingers, so you’ll need to check back frequently to find potential partners. They’re also rigorous about enforcing their rules, so it’s easy dating sites swingers run afoul of the moderators.

6. Fetlife — Best for Kinky Hookups

Pros

• Dedicated to finding partners who share specific fetishes
• Free to join and use
• Can make donations for additional privileges
• Functions like social networking site

Cons

• Swingers you meet likely to be into other extreme fetishes
• Lots of fakes

As the name suggests, Fetlife is a fetish-themed website.

Swinging is definitely a kink, so you can hook up with like-minded users on here. However, dating sites swingers, expect your partners to want more than just a swinging experience, so you may need to be into BDSM or other fetishes as well.

It’s free to join, and you can get a lot of mileage dating sites swingers of a free membership, but you can also make donations for additional dating sites swingers functions like a social networking website, so you can add friends and follow people who seem like potential partners. Unfortunately, dating sites swingers, the signup process isn’t especially strict, so you’ll have to deal with a lot of fakes before you find a unicorn.

7. Seeking — Best for Guaranteed Action

Pros

• One of the most sure-fire ways to find a partner
• Easy to find beautiful women
• Great for long-lasting relationships
• Profiles undergo strict verification

Cons

• Requires pay-for-play
• Many women won’t go for group play

Seeking is unlike any other swinger dating site on this list, dating sites swingers, in that it’s a place for sugar daddies to meet sugar babies, dating sites swingers. It’s the best way to find a sure thing.

Whether you’re a single man or a couple, you can find a beautiful woman who’s into whatever you’re into — for a price, of course. Some may balk at group action, though.

These can be one-offs, but for dating sites swingers most part the relationships you make on this site will be long-lasting. If you’re an attractive young lady, you can have fun and make a little spending money doing it.

The profiles are all strictly verified, making it very unlikely you’ll run into fakes, bots, or spiritual dating site. Alt.com — Most Variety

Pros

• Huge user base
• Lots of variety
• Can put ton of info on your profile
• Bling system rewards kinkiness

Cons

• Not Dedicated to swingers
• Packed dating sites swingers fakes and single men

Alt.com tries to be everything to everyone, sexually speaking, so you’ll find greater variety here than just about anywhere else. The flip side, dating sites swingers, of course, is that if you’re looking for one thing in particular, it’s harder to find on this site than others.

The site has a huge user base, many of whom would be interested in swinging — but there are very few dedicated swingers on here. There are a ton of fakes and single dudes, though.

You can provide a ton of information on your profile, allowing you to make it clear exactly what you’re looking for. They also have a “bling” system that lets others reward you for being especially kinky.

9. Kasidie — Best for Making Friends

Pros

• Encourages friendship in addition to sex
• Personality test required to register
• More couples and single women than men
• Certified member badges helps weed out fakes

Cons

• Limited user base
• Requires paid subscription to do anything worthwhile

Kasidie is an erotic social networking site that actually seems to care about its members. It encourages friendship and camaraderie in addition to sexual meetups.

They definitely make a strong effort to vet their members. You have to take a personality test before joining, and they have certified member badges to weed out fakes.

It’s one of the few swingers dating sites with more couples and single women than lone men, and they have a good mix of online and in-person events.

The membership is limited, dating sites swingers, though, and you’ll have to pay to do dating sites swingers worth doing on the site.

10. Ashley Madison — Best for Discreet Hookups

Pros

• Good for finding middle-aged women
• Users are very discreet
• Lots of people looking for wild dating sites swingers • Ideal for locating female unicorns

Cons

• Hookups might be risky
• Site isn’t totally geared towards swinging

Ashley Madison might not be the first thing you think of when you think of a swinger dating site, as it’s designed for people stepping out on their marriages — and most swinging relationships involve consent from both parties.

If you’re willing to take on a little risk, though, dating sites swingers, you can find people who are looking for the wildest, dating sites swingers, most adventurous sex possible.

It’s especially good for finding a female unicorn. There are plenty of women in their late 30s and 40s who want to get crazy without losing their marriages in the process.

As you might expect, discretion is at a premium on Ashley Madison, making it a good choice for anyone who doesn’t want to advertise their involvement in the lifestyle.

11, dating sites swingers. Tinder — Largest User Base

Pros

• Tons of available users
• Works in just about any city
• Plenty of people willing to consider swinging
• Users tend to be more attractive than elsewhere

Cons

• Requires a lot of trial-and-error
• Good chance you’ll get recognized

These days, just about everyone is on Tinder, giving you nearly unlimited dating sites swingers course, most people aren’t there to find swingers, so there will be a lot of trial-and-error involved. If you’re dating sites swingers about what you want, dating sites swingers, though, you can find like-minded individuals.

Most of the available people on Tinder will be more attractive than you’ll find elsewhere, and you should be able to find someone in just about any decent-sized city.

Be aware, though: there are so many people on the site that it’s fairly likely you’ll get recognized by someone you know.

Runners-Up:

1. Club Foreplay
2. 99Flavors
3. Feeld
4. FabSwingers
5. BiCupid
6. AltPlayGround
7. RedHotPie
8. LocalSwingingSite
9. Mixxxer
10. SwingTowns
11. Swing Social
12. True Swingers
13. Swingles
14. Silver Swingers

Buyer’s Guide

Thanks to the internet, finding partners to swing with is easier than dating sites swingers. That doesn’t mean there aren’t pitfalls to be wary of, though.

In assembling this list, we aimed to avoid the most common issues people run into when looking to find partners online. Specifically, we chose the best swinger dating sites based on the following factors:

• Size of the user base: it’s simple — the more people you have to choose from, dating sites swingers, the better your odds will be.
• Quality of the matches: not all matches are good matches. You want someone that meets your criteria and will be dating sites swingers of your primary relationship.
• Dating sites swingers to swing: many sites have people looking for love or casual sex — but with one person at a time. You want a site where the user base is at least open to the idea of non-monogamous fun.

Remember, though, that these rankings are not gospel. If you find that a lower-ranked site works better for you than those listed above it, then by all means continue to use that site.

FAQs

Why do some couples choose to swing?

There are a ton of different reasons why a happy couple would choose to swing, dating sites swingers, but here are a few of the most common:

• To spice up their sex life
• To explore taboo fantasies
• Because monogamy isn’t for everyone
• To enjoy other partners without cheating
• Because sex isn’t emotional for them
• Most of all, because swinging is fun

Will swinging hurt or help my relationship?

That usually depends on what condition the relationship was in beforehand. If both partners are interested in exploring the lifestyle and approach the swinger lifestyle with trust and respect, it can deepen dating sites swingers bond between them.

However, if the relationship is on rocky ground to begin with, swinging could be the final nail in the coffin.

What is the difference between hard and soft swinging?

Soft swinging is basically everything except penetration with someone other than your partner. It can also mean having sex with your partner in the same room with dating sites swingers swinging (or full swap) means going all the way with someone (or multiple someones) other than your spouse.

Typically, it’s recommended that couples start with soft swinging and gradually move to hard swinging.

Are there any rules to swinging?

Yes. The golden rule is to get consent before you do anything — failure to do so will quickly get you banned from clubs and avoided by couples (if not arrested).

Beyond that, most couples make their own rules. That’s why getting consent beforehand is so important — you don’t know what someone is into until you ask.

Most other rules are pretty common-sense. They include not revealing the fact that other people are in the lifestyle, using protection, getting tested for STIs, and never pushing anyone’s boundaries.

How do I get into the lifestyle?

People get into swinger dating in different dating sites swingers. Sometimes they befriend a couple and things naturally progress from there, dating sites swingers. There are also swingers clubs in many cities that are very welcoming to newcomers.

Nowadays, many people use the internet to find partners. You can use dedicated swinger websites, apps like Tinder, or just regular social media, dating sites swingers. The only limit is your imagination (and courage).

Your Next Partners are Waiting for You

Regardless of whether you’re an experienced swinger or just looking to dip your toe into the lifestyle, the sites on this list will help connect you with all the partners you could hope for.

Some of these sites are specifically geared towards swingers, while others will require a little more effort to find the right person or couple for you. If you’re willing to put in a little bit of work, though, you have a great online dating breaking the ice chat template intoduction at taking your relationship to the next level.

If nothing else, you can have a lot of fun — and isn’t that what swinging’s all about?

Everyone appears to dating sites swingers getting laid on TV, social media, and in the movies… in real life, it’s actually kind of hard to find couples that are seriously looking for fellow swingers. 

The majority of couples just aren’t into it. Some only swing with their own friends, kind of a closed circle sort of thing. Then again, there ARE other swinging couples looking for dates…but locating these mysterious sexy strangers is a challenge. 

Here we look at the top 11 best swinger sites dating sites swingers finding open-minded people!

How We Chose the Top Swinger Dating Site

You may wonder, how did we figure out what sites to include?

We actually conducted a research project and registered for about 20 different swingers sites, dating sites swingers. Over the course of 25 hours or so, our profile and pictures got a lot of responses – and mostly from the top 5 sites on our list. 

For our Top 11 list that caters to swingers, open marriages, poly dating, and everything in between, we considered factors like members, dating app UI, response, quality of 50 year old dating 25 year old, dating sites swingers of the conversation (indicating humans, dating sites swingers, not bots), and the number of swinger events or dates offered. 

By the end of this list, dating sites swingers, you might have one favorite swinger site that sticks out in your dating sites swingers Swinger Sites in 2021

1. AdultFriendFinder – Best place to find swingers overall
2. SwapFinder – Sexy chat room with local swinger
3. SwingLifeStyle – Meet friendly swinger couples
4. Swingers Date Club – Best swingers clubs
5. Reddit Swingers R4R – Meet swingers for free
6. Seeking – Have a threesome easily
7. Alt.com – Kinky open-minded dating site
8. Ashley Madison – Find partners in open relationships
9. Kasidie – Got to exciting swinger events
10. Fetlife – Freakiest hookup partners
11. Tinder – Fast way to meet new people

1. AdultFriendFinder – Largest Swinger Site

Pros

• Search for a couple
• Subgroups and fetishes to chat about kinks
• Events, meetups, and contests for a community feel
• 100 million members worldwide

Cons

• Pretty high price, among the highest of any dating site

Starting back in 1996, Adult Friend Finder is the most well-known kinkster site online.

This adult dating site was matching up swingers and real-life gangbangs back when most of us were just discovering free porn for the first time. Adult Friend Finder also happens to have one of the most inclusive and open-ended searches of all dating sites.

It’s very handy!

You can look for couples, trans users, or groups, and designate your own sexual preferences. Even more interesting is that you can choose “how you swing”, deciding on which spouse gets sex, or if you’re just being a voyeur for the time being. 

2. SwapFinder – Best For Swingers Video Chats

Pros

• Video trading, two-way video chat rooms
• 3somes, dating sites swingers, groups, BDSM, or LGBTQ 
• Many members

Cons

SwapFinder is one of the largest swingers sites online, claiming 40 million profiles and offering a dating sites swingers of matches, including full swap, threesomes, BDSM activities, and even group sex. 

Nice!

Naturally, the best feature for swapping is their two-way live sex cams for both couples. Dating sites swingers can start flirting as a couple and send dating sites swingers or come-ons to other couples when you see someone nice.

Start with a video chat before arranging for a sex date – this way, you know the other members are real before you meet them.

3. SwingLifeStyle – Best For Meeting Friendly Swinger Groups

Pros

• Groups, clubs, cruises – a community feel!
• “Couple next door” type swingers, not just supermodels
• Advanced search for kink 

Cons

• More like a meet & greet than a swinger site

SwingLifeStyle promotes a “Swingers Next Door” kind of feel, with less emphasis on perfection and supermodels stripping on video, and more about dating sites swingers real couples. 

The Florida-based website emphasizes club meetings and even has connections with “Bliss Cruise”, and “Topless Travel” options for meet and greets.

The best feature of the site is the “Join a Group” and “Find a Club” option, which lets you become part of a larger swinger community. 

4. Swingers Date Club – Best Swinger Clubs 

Pros

• Got to swingers events & parties
• Customize full swap or hard swap
• Private swingers party invitations

Cons

SDC is serious about finding your customized date! As soon as you sign up you can choose between swingers, hookups, fetishes, and even sex education while you’re at it. Like some of the best swinger sites, SDC focuses on groups and communities, as well as events south korea dating site parties. 

Swingers Date Club is taking online dating to the next level!

Many swingers enjoy meetup groups and events before they date a couple alone, dating sites swingers. Swingers Date Club also dating sites swingers party searches and public events nearby, dating sites swingers, and more detailed profiles than the average site. 

On top of all that, SDC is also one of the oldest swinger communities online, starting in 2000. 

5. Reddit Swingers R4R – Best Free Swinger Site

Pros

• Free site
• Fast instant messaging
• Personal ads from many users

Cons

• Usually, you’re meeting dating south korean girl a long drive dating sites swingers you

Reddit Swingers is one of the most active dating groups for swingers, though its 200K members are substantially less than most of the other dating sites swingers reviewed. Still, it’s an active community with a very direct approach. 

You can enjoy free sign-up, instant chat, instant forum discussion, and private picture trading. If you don’t want to pay for the snappy features and just want to find or post a personal ad, Reddit Swingers won’t disappoint.

6. Seeking – Best Swinger Dating App For Threesomes

Pros

• Hang out with hot college girls 
• Women join for free
• Verified millionaires

Con

• Only of interest to wealthy guys 

Seeking.com is not a swinger dating website specifically, dating sites swingers, but it does just so happen to bring a lot of hot college girls together, dating sites swingers, all on the tab of a wealthy guy with no attachments.

The site isn’t about escorting, just sugar babies who are more than willing to chat about sex, fantasies, and what turns them on.

The female-to-male ratio is highest at this site, 4-1, which is great odds. It’s one of the best dating sites to find threesomes or a pool of sexy partners if you have the Bruce Wayne/Tony Stark kind of lifestyle. 

7. Ashley Madison – Best Site to Find Partners in Open Relationships

Pros

• Great place to meet horny couples
• Also meet married women who want to cheat
• Photo editing tools for anonymity

Cons

• Not as popular for swinging as cheating

Believe it or not, Ashley Madison is not all about cheating, dating sites swingers. Plenty of profiles on the site are hot wives (sharing couples), open marriages, poly, dating sites swingers, and couples looking for threesomes, dating sites swingers. No names are required and in fact, sharing personal information is discouraged.

We love privacy.

Ashley Madison provides chat, email, travel perks for meeting lovers on the go, dating sites swingers, and most importantly, anonymity. If you’re a single guy looking for couples, Ashley Madison has the tools you need. While not strictly a swinger dating app, it might just do the trick.

8, dating sites swingers. Alt.com – Best Website For Meeting Swingers With Fetishes

Pros

• Meet BDSM or basic swinging couples
• No ads, high-quality profiles
• Fewer spammers than competing site “Fetlife”

Cons

• Paid subscription, limited free preview

Alt.com is a BDSM-themed site with a high number of active users. There are multiple fetishes and relationship types here, not to mention an LGBTQ+ friendly atmosphere.

While the site is not free, for a low-cost you can get away from the ads, fake profiles, and spammers. 

The extended questionnaire, for example, helps root out the weaklings from the dedicated users who want to have some sex already. 

9. Kasidie – Best Swinger App For Events

Pros

• Go to swinger parties & events
• Fetish & kink matching
• Swinger community listings and groups

Cons

• Sometimes hard to meet couples without attending events

Kasidie offers anonymous couples matching with customized levels of privacy. You can look through photo albums or chat with others in a forum or online messaging.

Most importantly, Kasidie offers hundreds of listings for swinger parties, swinging events, and even resort sleepovers.

Besides the club listings, the swinger website also provides private and dating sites swingers secret communities catering to specific fetishes or general interests. 

10. Fetlife – Freakiest Hookup Partners

Pros

• Free chat with members
• Plenty of swingers in a relationship
• Tons of dating sites swingers & rooms

Cons

• Lots of spammers
• Many horny male users dating sites swingers partners

Fetlife is primarily known as a BDSM hookup site, roleplay site, and the darker side of the dating scene, where you can openly discuss blackmail play, dungeon flogging, cage training, and whatever else would make Christian Grey blush. 

It’s not like the other dating sites.

But Fetlife is also known as a great place to find swinger partners because most couples on Fetlife are spoken for AND looking. Everyone here is probably open to sex or swinging IF the fetish matches and if they like your photos/videos. 

11. Tinder – Best Way to Meet Horny People Open to Swinging Nearby

Pros

• Free messaging & signup
• 100s of swipes per day for free
• Swinger couples and plenty of generous dudes 

Cons

• Probably next to Craigslist for “worst date ever” stories

Tinder is a special case because it is both the best of times and the worst of times when it comes to swinging. Sure, plenty of open-minded partners are on Tinder looking for swapping or for a third. 

But there are also plenty of Tinder horror stories, “awkward” stories, and all sorts of swinging fails that come from an unfiltered “free” service. If you’re picky about who you meet, Tinder might be a disaster. 

A Sexy Guide to Swinging & Non-Monogamy

It’s actually great that you have questions about swinging. The worst thing you can do is jump, uh head first, into an unpredictable sexual situation.

As you will learn, successful swinging is all about communicating with your partner and your new sex buddies. 

Why Some Couples Swing – The Swinger Lifestyle

First, try to understand that there’s no “one size fits all” in the swinger lifestyle. 

Some couples or poly families have always been non-monogamous. Sometimes they grow up around it. Sometimes they learn it, because of a busy work schedule or frequent travel. 

Other couples are curious and want to spice up their sex life. They may have even more complex rules and desires, and it’s important to understand them individually. 

Not everyone wants the same thing, even in a freethinking lifestyle such as swinging. 

Swinging – Does It Hurt or Help a Relationship?

Experienced swingers will tell you to leave the personal dating sites swingers at home, and to get your issues fixed BEFORE bringing someone else into your bedroom. 

A lot of toxicity follows around some couples that have warped ideas of what swinging and sharing really means.

Be clear!

It’s definitely not a hobby for the jealous, dating sites swingers, the ultra-sensitive, or the confused. The more chill you are, the STRONGER the bond with your partner already is, the better the experience will be. 

Approach Your First Swinging Couple as a Couple

Try to approach the first flirt or conversation as you would dating normally. Start dating sites swingers a friendly greeting, or a question, or an introduction.

There’s no need to be snarky!

Swinger partners want to know you’re safe, normal, and interesting before they proceed. You’re all like-minded people trading monogamy for the dating sites swingers swinger lifestyle.

It’s important to have good photos available of the two of you, including full body shots, a “pro” shot (even better if you’re hugging each other), dating sites swingers, and anything else adorable. 

Be available if your first couple wants to chat with both of you on video or by phone. As dating sites swingers as possible, try to establish that you’re real, serious, and ready to meet in person. 

Approaching Your First Swinging Couple as a Unicorn

If you’re a single person then it’s very important to let your crush couple know you play by their rules. No showboating, no rude behavior, and nothing too weird. 

Be upfront with your photos and be willing to chat on text, phone, or camera. Be chill!

If the swinging couple likes your photos, they will talk to you and make sure you understand how things are going to go. Be agreeable and very respectful of their boundaries.

Tread carefully and don’t assume dating sites swingers a unicorn means your fantasy is being fulfilled – it’s actually their fantasy first! 

Swinging and Swinger Sites FAQs

Still confused about various terms you’ve heard in the swinging lifestyle? We have answers for you.

What is the difference between soft and hard or full swap?

A soft swap involves touching or caressing the spouse of another couple, or in some cases, just having sex with your partner in the same room as another couple.

Some couples prefer watching and avoiding all physical contact, dating sites swingers, at least for the first time. “Hard” swap or full swap means partner trading for a whole night or at least a few hours.

Do you have to be part of a couple when swinging online?

Not always, dating sites swingers, but keep in mind some swinger clubs and groups insist that you come with a partner. They might also allow single women in, but avoid inviting single men.

To be sure, check to see if these groups or couples are into wife sharing for single guys before assuming anything. 

Have Fun Dating sites swingers Swinger Clubs With These Sites

Adult Friend Finder was our top pick because it offered not only the best chance of getting laid by a hot couple but also because it had the greatest variety and diversity of users. 

While other sites did have impressive features, your best bet on actually finding a date nearby willing to meet over drinks is Adult Friend Finder. 

Have fun and be sure to share all the kinky details on some erotic confessions story sometime!